Recently, a divorce and cure variety show is being broadcast, and in a recent episode, Wu Yating admitted that she had postpartum body anxiety. She said that after giving birth to a child, she had many physical changes such as fat on her stomach, scars, and sagging breasts, which made her feel inferior psychologically and dealt a blow to herself.
She thinks that although others will say that it is nothing, you are still beautiful and excellent, but she still knows that these changes are telling herself that she is no longer a girl, has become a somewhat ugly woman, and she still can't face herself.
Wu Yating gave birth to a son and a daughter after marrying Wang Quexin, both of whom were caesarean sections, and she also quit her job after marriage, and has been at home with two children, wholeheartedly throwing herself into the family. After the divorce and with two children to open the live broadcast with goods, some netizens said that when watching the live broadcast of her selling pants, they saw her exposed stretch marks on her waist, and many netizens expressed pain.
When talking about whether she can accept a new relationship, she said that "first of all, how much this person must love me to make me believe in love again", she will question another person who minds his body, minds his many troubles, and also feels that opening the next relationship, investing his sincerity and wholehearted emotions again will make her insecure, so that after divorcing Wang Quexin, she will not look forward to the next relationship. Secondly, Wu Yating said that she still has two children, she needs to work to raise two children, and she does not have the time and energy to enter a relationship.
She confessed that there will always be others who are better than themselves, and others will have better choices, why choose themselves, she also confessed that a boy introduced by a friend before, began to chat very well, after saying his own case, the other party did not talk much.
From Wu Yating's words, we can see that she reveals a deep inferiority and helplessness, especially when it comes to facing the next relationship. In front of the people you like, you will always want to show your most perfect side, but when you can't look at your own problems, how can you easily relax in the face of the lover in the next relationship.
Postpartum body shape change is indeed a real problem, chest sagging, abdomen stretch marks, long spots, because to feed the child themselves will also become fat, if the caesarean section body will still leave scars, and even many people also lose their hair, many women in the face of these changes will be cramped and uneasy, have a deep sense of inferiority to themselves, and even suffer from postpartum depression, this time as the other half of the husband has played a decisive role.
Wu Yating exposed herself to postpartum depression, when Wang Quexin was not around, it is not difficult to think of why she cares so much about the change of her body shape, so that she has a deep inferiority complex, because at the moment of self-doubt, no one may firmly tell her that this is her other "beauty".
However, in the show, we saw that Wu Yating showed a generous, enthusiastic, independent and hard-working image, and always the atmosphere in the team was responsible. I didn't expect to hide her own vulnerability and inferiority in her heart, always using a big grin and no care to disguise her emotional side, some people say that her gap is too big, need to fill it with more love, and finally hope that she can find a person who can firmly choose her and tell her 'you are worthy'!