Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
In fact, the more capable people are, the less they care about the evaluation of others, and the less they will be depressed because of the evaluation of others, and they will not be depressed for a long time.
Because I live a good life, have confidence in my heart, do not envy the lives of others, and have no sense of inferiority at all, I rarely worry about people, and more often I am giving in.
I already have a lot, the mentality is very good, no matter what others get, there will be no jealousy, no hatred, no negativity.
For such a person, face is not the most important, never because of face and who to turn the other cheek, block all contact information, completely cut off contact.
It is more rational, can do "face and face", do not directly stand on the opposite side, rarely cause trouble, will not have so many enemies, and will not be calculated everywhere.
People who really have the ability, have a certain amount of savings and contacts, and have already mastered the skills of getting along with people.
Excellent in all aspects, but also know how to deal with the world, no matter what happens, whether it can be solved quickly, there will be someone to help, do not have to face alone.
Being able to make yourself stronger and grasp the weaknesses of others is impossible to be treated badly by life.
In interpersonal communication, seeing that a person is very strong, but never showing off, and sometimes deliberately showing weakness, can show that this person is very smart.
Low-key and inclusive, not everyone can do it.
In real life, we must observe more people around us, and we must also remember: do not underestimate a person who shows weakness everywhere.
Showing weakness is not really weak, and being strong is not necessarily really strong
In fact, the really strong don't say "I'm strong, I can solve everything, I can win the test" every moment.
The stronger and more confident, the less likely you are to find a way to prove your ability, and the less you deliberately attract the attention of others.
The reason for this is that it has surpassed many people, is not inferior at all, does not have to be shown to anyone, and has not thought about letting anyone publicly praise themselves.
People like the kind of people who show off everywhere, open their mouths and shut their mouths are "I know who is who", any thing is said to be a small problem, and they can completely deal with it, often "pretending to be strong".
People who are good at showing weakness are mostly strong and can face many things alone.
When you find that a person is showing weakness, don't look down, say a lot of sarcasm, push away hard, but really understand why he is doing this, his heart is like this.
Showing weakness is wisdom, not real retreat
In the face of things, everyone's way of dealing with things is different.
There are some people who care about face and do not want to lose face easily, so they know that positive treatment may not have a good ending, and they will also choose to play a game.
Put face first, don't want to hear people say, "You can't do it, you're cowardly, you're like this in your life, you don't have to work harder."
Different people care about different things.
There are some people who don't care about face at all, always feel that face does not really solve all things, and will take the initiative to cater when they should cater.
Although it is said that this is a regression, it is not a concede, not an admission of one's incompetence.
Find the best way to deal with it at the critical moment, and act, and really solve the problem, is the winner, the road will be wider and wider, and the happy time will be more and more.
To show weakness is to know how to endure and is practicing oneself
Too impulsive, it is impossible to do things, there are chicken feathers everywhere.
In life, who is such a person, who will constantly quarrel with people, cold war, most of the time feel upset, there is no expression on the face.
Things can't only be solved by arguing, don't shout loudly as soon as you encounter something, whose voice is bigger.
Moreover, noise does not solve everything. That is to say, there are many things that are not louder than anyone's voice, and no one wins with a loud voice.
In some cases, showing weakness can solve problems quickly.
Who is good at showing weakness, handling the things that need to be dealt with, and slowly becoming stronger, who is really high in emotional intelligence, in order to live the best life.
summary:
Showing weakness does not mean being weak.
When a person shows weakness, do not think that he is really weak, no matter what he encounters, he will bow his head, and his way of dealing with it is only this one.
If you want to see a person clearly, you have to really understand.
This means that he does something where you have to find the real reason, not look at the surface, and can't draw conclusions because of the surface.
He has a lot of merit, he's shining, he's not a loser, he doesn't put the so-called face first, and he's mostly trying to handle things properly.
Like to show weakness, there is nothing wrong with it, don't look down on it, don't say something ugly.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.