preface:
Many of us tend to be self-denying, even humble,
A person's inferiority will make us unable to accept our true selves and gradually live as others expect.
If we are in the mood of inferiority for a long time, the feeling of inferiority will ferment into a complex.
If we are always swayed by our emotions and lose confidence in life, then we must pay attention.
We must not allow it to continue to develop, because prolonged inferiority can cause a person to fall into an inferiority complex.
And in life it will be more and more painful.
If a person becomes more and more inferior, then what he needs most is the recognition and recognition of the outside world and others.
Each of us has some sense of inferiority, but to varying degrees.
And this sense of inferiority is all around us all the time, silently corroding our hearts,
Therefore, if a person is not willing to do the following three things, it shows that he is very inferior in his bones.
The behavior that a person shows in his life is often very much related to his personal character.
The so-called inferiority complex is a portrayal of deep self-confidence.
For this kind of person, they have a certain defense system, and it is difficult for others to enter their hearts.
Psychologists have shown that a person with low self-esteem,
Very reluctant to do something specific or deal with the people around you.
If we are not confident in life, it will lead to a mess and even ruin us.
1. Don't dare to express yourself in front of others
A person with low self-esteem is often very unconfident, and they always hide their inner thoughts in their hearts.
Even in front of others, they dare not express themselves, because such people are very inferior in their bones.
He was even afraid that others would set his sights on him for fear of being found so bad.
So people who value the inner thoughts of others very much in their hearts are very cautious when they go out and out.
In fact, we can try to express ourselves as much as possible in life, so that we can get the respect and understanding of others.
As a person, you must be able to afford to put it down, so that you will change little by little.
Therefore, people who dare not express their emotions in front of others must be very inferior.
2. Don't express your inner emotions
In fact, we have learned to hide the emotions in our hearts at a very young age.
At a very young age, the mother can be the container for the child.
You can accept all of your child's emotions, such as tearing and hammering when your child cries.
At this time, I do not blame, but choose to calm a person's emotions well and release it well.
People who don't know how to express their inner emotions often care about the opinions of those around them.
If you don't get the comfort and love of your family when you are young, you will become very inferior when you grow up.
3. Do not know how to refuse
People with low self-esteem have a hard time grasping their true value, so they don't know how to reject the people around them no matter what they encounter.
This kind of person often wronged himself to please others, and this kind of person in life will be very tired.
Because they belong to the flattering personality, the feelings of others are always more important than their own.
They will think that the value of their existence is very low, so the time to pay, others will not take it seriously.
Everyone in life is an independent individual with their own ideas, so when appropriate, we must know how to refuse.
In this way, you can live your truest self, and the people around you will understand you.
People with low self-esteem are often very unconfident, and slowly they don't even know their own value.
People with low self-esteem will appear more cautious in both feelings and people-to-people interactions.
Even if the other party does not show any thoughts about him, people with low self-esteem will behave as if they were in a hurry.
So even having love and friendship can become very selfish and never willing to give everything.
Conclusion:
So often people with inferiority, they are very much suffering from gain and loss, lack of security,
At the same time, I care a lot about the emotions of others, and I always let myself be hurt.
On the contrary, they will bury their negative emotions in their hearts and digest themselves.
So if you are also this kind of person, I hope you can learn to express your emotions to others.
Communicate with people and exchange your ideas, and learn to fight for what you want.
This way we will also have a little easier life.
We must learn to be self-centered, learn to affirm that we love ourselves, and others will love you more and more.
Getting out of inferiority complex is a very long process, and we need to overcome psychological tribulations.
But people with low self-esteem, the reason why he shows timidity and introversion, is actually due to his own lack of self-confidence.
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