I would rather be single than marry a female teacher, prefer to be lacking rather than indiscriminate, and not find a female teacher as a companion, just to maintain personal dignity. Last night, looking through the circle of friends, I saw a passage written by my colleague Teacher Liu:

I would rather be single than marry a female teacher, prefer to be lacking rather than indiscriminate, and not find a female teacher as a companion, just to maintain personal dignity.

Last night, looking through the circle of friends, I saw a passage written by my colleague Teacher Liu: The child's marriage was fruitless, which made me feel more troublesome than teaching dozens of students.

This sentence should be the heartfelt words of Teacher Liu. It means that her son Wen Xiang's marriage is still unfinished.

Teacher Liu's son, Wen Xiang, was admitted to the county civil service after graduating from university and worked in the county development and Reform Commission.

Wen Xiang is one meter tall, seven or eight meters tall, with a straight figure and a dignified appearance. Teacher Liu has always hoped to find a teacher to be a daughter-in-law, because teachers have holidays and can take children and tutor children with their homework. To this end, every autumn school season, Teacher Liu inquires about the situation of newly hired female teachers and prepares to find a suitable daughter-in-law.

In the autumn of 2021, Teacher Liu took great pains to find two or three female teachers with moderate figure and good looks, and when she learned that they were still single, she was very happy, asked for people's mobile phone numbers, and according to the time node, formulated a detailed blind date plan for her son.

Unexpectedly, Teacher Liu's blind date plan was rejected by his son Wenxiang, he was unwilling to contact the woman, Teacher Liu advised his son, you did not see anyone to refuse, what do you think? Wen Xiang said that if the woman is a teacher, she will not be discussed. Teacher Liu did not understand, female teachers which point is not good, there are holidays can also take children, single boys can not ask for it!

Wen Xiang said, pull it down, I am single all my life, and I am not willing to marry a teacher. Teacher Liu accused his son: Your father and I are both teachers, although the income is not too high, but the work is stable, why do you have such a big prejudice against teachers?

Wen Xiang said, just because you and my father are both teachers, I have had enough of your so-called teachings, if I find a daughter-in-law to keep talking around, I will not have a nervous breakdown?

Teacher Liu really did not expect that the image of her husband and her husband in her son's mind was so unbearable, and her heart was cold. She asked her son: Why do I hate you like your father, you talk about it. Wen Xiang said, it is better not to say it, don't hurt your self-esteem.

Teacher Liu said to his son, even if you say, I and your father can stand up. Wen Xiang said, when I was a child, I listened to you in everything, and I felt that what the teacher said was like a holy will, but as I grew older, through my observation and experience, I found that what the teacher said and did were two different things, and the contrast with social reality was also very large, but when the students had no right to refute, they had to accept the wrong.

Wen Xiang said that teachers prefer students with good academic performance, and students with poor grades are only trained. Because of poor grades, often punished standing outside the classroom, ridiculed and ridiculed by classmates, many times punished for cleaning the dormitory, office, classroom stairs, health area hygiene, and sometimes have to help the class teacher clean the family hygiene, have you considered the feelings of these students, many students did not graduate from junior high school and dropped out, not because they are bored with school, most of them are humiliated by the teacher and cannot go up. As a member of the students, although my grades have always been excellent and all I hear is praise, I am not happy in my heart, because I feel that teachers cannot treat every student equally, which is immoral and dereliction of duty.

Wen Xiang's words left Teacher Liu speechless, and she enlightened her son: What you are talking about is only an individual phenomenon, and it is all a matter of the past, you can't make the teacher as unbearable as the teacher says, right? Wen Xiang sneered: "Partial generalization?" It should be a common phenomenon, aren't you and dad such teachers? I witnessed you beating students on the heads with books, punishing students for push-ups, and Dad punishing students for running in the playground and standing in front of the flag-raising platform. Have you done this by saying that you should be a role model for others, teach and educate people, be kind to every student, and not abandon a bad student?

？ Have you asked me to find a duplicitous teacher as my wife, can I bear it?

Teacher Liu really did not expect that her son's prejudice against teachers was so big, she still advised her son: Even if our generation is wrong, we can't let the girls who are teachers after the 90s and 00s all carry the black pot, they will not do this, you look at them with such a look, do you think it is fair?

Wen Xiang said, rest assured, as long as the test-taking education exists one day, the era of heroes based on scores will not end, but will only become more and more intense. Mother, you should not persuade me anymore, as long as the gentle girl stands on the podium, she will become a "tigress", and my concept of marriage is that it is better to be lacking than indiscriminate, not to find female teachers as companions, just to maintain their dignity.

The above case, Teacher Liu spoke in the office, at that time we listened to it were silent, because as a teacher, we really failed to treat every latecomer, paying attention to more students with good grades, which is worth reflecting on. But it is not right to think that Teacher Liu's son has too deep prejudices against teachers and has a negative attitude towards all teachers.

It seems that Teacher Liu's idea of finding a teacher to be a daughter-in-law should be dispelled.