#If you already have a son, will you still want a second child# Before it was resolutely not wanted, the first fetal morning sickness, because I couldn't eat, I couldn't get up in bed; later, because of low blood sugar, I didn't dare to go out by myself, but there was no way, I didn't go out, I didn't have to go out, the basic life of buying vegetables should have it, since then, my mobile phone no longer has a lock screen password, my husband is not around when I give birth, although my mother-in-law comes, but she doesn't recognize words, and she runs up and down with labor pain... There are so many, many... However, no matter how much hardship, when I saw my husband running around for his parents, it was also offset (my in-laws have daughters, only this one son,) and my husband has sisters to help me do this, what will my children do in the future? Not to say that it is for the sake of old age, but to feel that when he is faced with his parents dying of old age one day and cannot make a choice, there can be a person who can consult with him and face it together, even if it is just a sentence, it can also make him feel that someone is accompanying, he is not alone, no matter what kind of result, someone shares with him... This kind of empathy cannot be given between husband and wife. (If the parents are uncomfortable, how does a child look over, if there is another person's existence, at least you can take a proper breath, take a bath, take a break, otherwise you are collapsed, how to take care of the elderly?) I remember that before I got married, there was an elder who chatted with me, and I didn't specifically mention this topic, but I talked about her children, she had two sons, I said that it was very tiring to take care of, she said yes, but, you have more children, now tired, in fact, it is to reduce the burden for the children in the future...