How happy it is for two people to go from acquaintance to love and acquaintance, and finally to the temple of marriage.
You may have experienced the wind and rain together, feel that your whole life will be together, then you know each other, respect each other, but with the time of people's hearts will always have some subtle changes, because of the pressure of work and reduce the care for each other, because life is not smooth to lose patience for each other, these will seriously affect their family happiness.
In ordinary life, husband and wife are to understand each other and know how to care for each other. So as a woman, what should you do to have a happy family? In the relationship between husband and wife, these 4 things that men are most taboo about, women must not ignore!
1. Infidelity within marriage
Everyone has their own bottom line, and in marriage, a man's bottom line is to cheat within marriage.
The marriage is run by both of you, for better or worse, and you should share the consequences, but if your relationship is mixed with a third person, then the nature of the relationship has completely changed.
As a man, how can you possibly forgive your own woman for cheating in marriage? If you really do something sorry for him, he will not forgive you, and you will also suffer moral questions, and your life will not be good in the future.
2. Not filial piety to parents
Marriage is a matter of two families, as a wife, you should help the man manage the affairs of the family and take good care of the elderly in the family, this is your responsibility and obligation, you must treat his parents as your biological parents to filial piety.
The last thing a man can stand is that you are not filial enough to your parents. Filial piety comes first, filial piety to parents is a matter of course, and since you and him have become a family, it is necessary for you to help him share this responsibility.
If you don't do anything after marriage, treat your parents badly, treat them completely as outsiders, and even always say bad things about them behind their backs, men will definitely not be able to stand it.
3, only know to complain
The most important thing between husband and wife is mutual understanding and mutual respect.
Everyone has their own life, although you are already husband and wife, but you are also an independent individual, you should understand more about men, he is working hard every day in order to support his family, at this time, you do not understand him, even if you want to ridicule him and question him, then it will definitely make him cold.
So, in marriage, less complaining about the man not being with him, less complaining that he doesn't make much money, if you turn this complaint into a steaming cup of tea, I believe that the relationship between you will become better and better.
4. Shirk responsibility
Since you have chosen to form a family, then you are the hostess of the family, and you should do a good job of the hostess.
For example, take good care of the family, educate the children well, and be filial to the parents. If you don't do anything and always like to shirk your responsibilities, then you're sure to attract men's disgust. Let you educate your children that you are not willing, let you be filial to your parents, you do not care, let you do good housework you do not do, then what man can stand you?
Therefore, in marriage, you should take the initiative to do things, rather than blindly shirking responsibility, so that he is less and less fond of you.
There is no perfect man in this world, and there is no perfect marriage!
Marriage emphasizes the equality of two people, and if you want to truly gain a man's heart, get cherished and loved, then you must avoid doing things that hurt men's hearts at every turn, otherwise even if you have a good feeling, you will eventually run out of that day.
If you can treat each other with sincerity in marriage, he will certainly be able to perceive your kindness to him and will also cherish you in his heart. Only in this way can marriage last forever.
(The picture has nothing to do with the content, the pictures and text materials are taken from the network, all copyright belongs to the original author, if there is infringement, please contact to delete)