Everyone longs to meet someone they love, and then hold on to them and grow old with them.
But in real life, not all feelings can last until the time when the hair is white.
Some people are lucky enough to spend their lives with the people they love deeply, even though in the process, there have been many contradictions and disputes, but they can't argue with each other.
And when some couples first entered the marriage hall, they swore "I do", willing to get along with the person next to them, wind and rain.
However, the two were separated as they walked, holding each other's hands and letting go.
It's extremely easy to make promises, but it's extremely difficult to keep them. Because there are many variables in life, there are many setbacks, and the contradictions between people are also indispensable.
Feelings are not one-person revelry, but two-person dances. If a husband and wife want to truly maintain this relationship, they need both parties to work together and operate together.
Whether the feelings between husband and wife are good or not, whether the two can go down hand in hand, in fact, can be seen from the man's move to enter the door.
01. Men call their wives' names as soon as they enter the house
Love means a kind of worry, a kind of worry. When you really love someone, you will keep her in your heart and remember her at all times.
After marriage, we must want to know whether a husband has the position of a wife in his heart, whether he cares about his wife from the bottom of his heart, and listen to the first words he says when he enters the house.
A man who loves his wife deeply must do the first thing when he enters the house, he must subconsciously call his wife's name while looking around the room to find her figure.
Whether it is calling her name, or her nickname, or simply calling her "wife", it implies the place and weight of his wife in his mind.
A man who is indifferent to his wife, the first words when he enters the house, or "Is the meal ready?" Or "I'm back."
In short, his topic revolves around himself, because he only has his own place in his mind, and there is no place for his wife.
A man who has a very good relationship with his wife will call his wife's name as soon as he enters the house. In that call, there is a man's thoughts and concerns for his wife, and the gentle affection and harmonious feelings of the two people.
02. Men have a hot conversation with their wives at home
Many times, the communication between husband and wife is reduced, which is often a sign of the weakening of the relationship between the two people.
Whether it is friendship or love, when the feelings are strong, there will be endless topics between each other, and they are eager to say all their heartfelt words with their hearts and lungs.
And once this feeling is diluted, each other will become more and more indifferent to each other, there will be a gap in their hearts, and the common topic will be less and less, and even unwilling to communicate again.
In married life, as long as the husband and wife get together, they will talk like a river and gush endlessly, indicating that the feelings of the two are extremely deep and they get along extremely harmoniously.
After the man returns home, he takes the initiative to talk to his wife and chats with his wife in a heated manner, which is enough to reflect the state of the husband and wife's affection and deep affection.
The scene where the husband and wife stay at home and chat passionately is actually a picture of deep love for the flounder, a scene of Qinser and Ming, suggesting the strong feelings between the two and the affection.
03. Men are willing to take the initiative to help their wives share the housework
If the relationship between husband and wife is excellent, men will certainly put themselves in the shoes of their wives, be considerate of their wives, and think of their wives in everything.
No matter what the wife is doing, she will feel sorry for her wife, afraid that her wife will tire herself and hurt herself, and always worry about her wife's condition.
A man who really knows how to care for his wife will take the initiative to go to the kitchen where his wife cooks after returning home from work; after dinner, he will take the initiative to help wash dishes or mop the floor.
A man who does not know how to feel sorry for his wife will never take the initiative to go into the kitchen to help when he is free, and take the initiative to help his wife share some housework.
He would just lie on the couch, brush videos, watch TV, and indulge in his own entertainment.
In the long run, men's selfish and lazy behavior will cause dissatisfaction and disgust of their wives, which will lead to unequal relations between husband and wife, and make the feelings of the two people increasingly distant.
In fact, men do not need to take care of all the housework in the family, but at least they must show their concern and heartache for their wives, try their best to do their husband's duty, and do some housework within their capabilities.
A man who is willing to take the initiative to help his wife share the housework does not seem to have made earth-shattering feats, but in fact, he shows his affection for his wife and his understanding of his wife through the small details of life.
A man who knows how to be considerate and respectful of his wife is bound to have extremely strong feelings and a very harmonious relationship.
Emotional Message:
Whether two people love each other can be revealed through every tiny detail. Love or no love, harmony or disharmony, can be glimpsed in the details of life.
Whether the husband and wife's feelings are good or not, in fact, from the man's behavior after entering the door, it can be easily seen.
In a family with strong husband and wife feelings and harmonious relationships, men will call their wives' names as soon as they enter the door, chat with their wives at home, and take the initiative to help their wives share housework.
In the husband's attitude toward his wife, in fact, there is a secret of whether the family is harmonious or not, and the feelings of the two people are hidden.
I hope that every husband can be more considerate of his wife's difficulties, care more about taking care of his wife, take more care of his wife's feelings, enhance the feelings of husband and wife, and make the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious.
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