01. Marry a man with ten people lying on the marital bed
It's hard to be happy marrying someone who isn't weaned because someone who isn't weaned doesn't have the ability to think independently.
In "Female Psychologist", a couple goes to see a psychologist, and the two meet and quarrel, which is inseparable.
At first, the two thought it was too expensive to see a psychologist, and later came to see that the psychologist wanted to divorce because the woman felt that there were ten people lying on her marriage bed.
The man said: How there are ten people lying on the marriage bed, just you and me. And the woman said: It's ten people," this kind of chicken-duck talking communication is really tiring.
But the man did not understand what his wife meant? He also said that his wife was talking nonsense, and the psychologist Horton asked his wife to give an example, and later told the example of their family eating chicken wings.
Because the son eats the same dish every day is laughed at, want to eat chicken wings, the relationship between the conditions, the woman originally planned to buy three for the son to taste, the man said there are other people.
Then the wife thought that other people were men and wanted to eat, thinking that there would be more than a few, and then said to buy seven or eight for you to try, but the man also said that there were other people.
At this time, the wife happily thought that there was still her share, the husband felt that she was hard, distressed that she had not eaten, and also let her eat a few chicken wings, and was very grateful to her husband for thinking about her, and then she thought about adding a few more to buy a pound!
And the man said there were other people? Then the wife asked who else? The man said: There is also his father and mother, it is not easy for his father and mother to raise him, and his brother, younger brothers and sisters, and his aunt (the sister of the father-in-law), she also hugged him when she was a child.
In this way, I originally planned to buy a few chicken wings to relieve the child's hunger, because the man said that this large number of relatives should share, which is not a pound or two pounds can be solved.
The wife was very angry, so she asked the man, have you lived with me, or with your family, if it is your family to buy ten pounds of chicken wings and eat it, they will disperse.
Then the man said to buy ten pounds, then his meaning is obvious, the man is willing to live with his family.
Therefore, this kind of person has not been weaned, has not clearly distinguished the primary and secondary, the female psychologist Horton said: when people grow up, they should be weaned, they should leave home, and they should have their own lives. ＂
02. Men who are not weaned are not responsible
According to the age of this man, he has not yet been weaned, and it is a good thing to honor his parents, but filial piety to his parents without principle is a kind of ignorance.
Originally, both of them were laid-off workers, eating low-income households, and even the most basic subsistence was a problem, and they wanted to improve their children's lives because the children ate enough chicken necks and were laughed at by others.
That's why I thought of buying chicken wings for my children to taste, so that my children would not be laughed at if they didn't go out.
But when a man thinks about eating something delicious, he has to think of my parents, my brothers and sisters, my relatives, they should all taste it, and all the good people should taste it.
But they did not expect that their financial ability could not make so many people taste it.
He only thinks of himself, this kind of person is better protected by his parents from childhood, dependent on his parents, everything is thought of by his parents, and then his parents let him do what he does without thinking about the consequences.
He can't stand in the position of others to consider the difficulties of others, he didn't expect so many people to eat, how much money to eat?
The money was enough for how long they lived, it was how long they lived, and he never took the exam.
03. Marrying a man who is not weaned is multiple children
From the perspective of men's foolish filial piety, it is unfortunate to marry a man who has not been weaned, because he does not feel that it is his own problem, he will only feel that all problems are the problems of others, but never consider them from the perspective of others.
However, he ignored the actual conditions, and at this time it seemed that there was no weaner, that is, he was more dependent on his parents, more self, only concerned about his own feelings, and suddenly the other half and the child's feelings.
For women, it is difficult to marry a person who has not been weaned, and people who are not weaned are not willing to leave the umbrella of their parents and will only think of a point, and it is very tiring to be with such a person, and it is always one more child to coax, rather than one more spiritual pillar to make it easier for themselves to move forward.