Female, 30+ elderly single dog, from work to now, relatives and friends have introduced sixty or seventy of it, none of them have succeeded.
The first two years are young and ignorant, Yan dog a piece, did not meet people pass is my problem, the past two years of friends also tried to meet, understand, but still can not be. There is a relationship between work and transfer out of the field to develop, in fact, if you do not go to the two of us are also hanging, the key is that I look at people, people do not seem to look at me. There was also a very relaxed chat at the beginning, and I also met in private, and then I inexplicably stopped, probably because I did not take the initiative to chat.
My problem is to pick, and then do not like to take the initiative, may be more defensive, insecure, without completely certain that you have a mind for me, I will not be very active, this problem does not have to change.
Recently a friend introduced a, reliable youth, but I feel that meeting and chatting with mobile phones are two different things, why the topic on the mobile phone can be so awkward, it is very awkward, maybe people also perceive my thoughts, and finally did not find a topic.
I was so sober and contradictory, I didn't say that I had to find a handsome guy, but in this era, there was not even an eyebrow clear eye show? The more blind dates there are, the more discouraging it is, I know that most of the problems are in themselves, but people only live once, is it not important to pursue their preferences?
There are also encounters that make your heart move, but you can't escape a devil's law, that is, if you meet a boy who is quite satisfied in all aspects of the blind date, then this man is 100% unable to look at you.
Sometimes it's really good to feel single, not to be disturbed by emotional problems, and to live well. But seeing that I am getting older and older, and I don't have the courage to be single all the time, I am very anxious to think of being an elderly mother. I don't know if the remaining fairies are as contradictory and anxious as I am, is it really so difficult for Ning Que to be indiscriminate?