Today I saw such a thing, saying that it was the scene of a peasant wedding, and the bride was wearing a down jacket with a big belly and was visiting a groom in a suit. This scene really seems to be rudimentary enough, except for a balloon in the tree, I can hardly see that it is the wedding scene. Obviously, I found a few relatives in my own courtyard and came here to become relatives like this.
Although marriage now advocates not doing much, everyone always hopes to get the blessings of relatives and friends when they get married, but this face is so cold. It is said that the woman's person did not come, including the woman's parents. What the hell is going on, it is understood that there are still previous affairs.
When the two were working in other places, they met and fell in love, and the woman first brought her boyfriend back to let her parents see it, but the family objected. Girls feel like they are adults, and her parents shouldn't restrict her. He followed the boy to his hometown. The woman's parents were very angry, but there was no way to do it, and scolded that they wanted to break off the relationship. When the girls heard this, they felt that their parents could not understand it, and they would not contact them anymore.
However, living in the man's home is not the way to do it, it is rare that the other party's parents are particularly good, never let her work, and delicious meals are waiting, and they want to sleep without waking up. The girl felt that she was happy and lucky, and her boyfriend loved her not to say that her in-laws still hurt her so much, so she let go of her worries and was bent on staying at her boyfriend's house.
But this one came and went pregnant, and the in-laws were even happier when they saw it, and when they had a big belly, they quickly gave them a wedding. To do a happy event, the girl called to talk to her parents again, and the parents were angry when they heard it, saying that they did not agree obviously that the goddess would not listen, just say that they would not be able to listen to it after they would suffer. But at this time, girls still care about these things, and their parents do not accept living more comfortably in their in-laws' homes. After a long time, the children have come out, and their parents can still say anything, so they don't have to worry.
The mother-in-law has also been persuading the family to take good care of her, so that she does not have to be anxious. It's just that there is no money at home, and it is necessary to prepare the cost of the child, and the money that can be saved is saved as much as possible. Wedding dress this kind of wear once useless clothes do not buy, the suit can also be worn later, buy a suit for the groom to wear on the line, wedding photos, some jewelry gift money is all free. They also told their relatives, friends and neighbors that they still want to marry girls from other places, don't mention the caravan, don't want to give dowry jewelry, and get married can leave a lot of money.
So even if such a simple wedding is done, it is not easy to say whether the girl who was so neglected has regretted it at this time, or whether she can continue to enjoy happiness every day in the future. Especially in the future, when there is a contradiction, without the support of the mother's family, it may be more bearable to swallow.
Later, I asked some friends who had similar situations, how they came to be, and I was really a little worried about the future of this girl when I heard them.
Friends said that she is also my Fengzi married, said really pregnant marriage people really do not take you seriously, married themselves to the pantou to fight back, to the door of a person is not, the cannon is also finished, that feeling is to give themselves a horse, has not been able to pass this hurdle, it turns out that after marriage how the mother-in-law looks at me is not pleasing to the eye, all kinds of picky, now separate to live a lot better, advise girls do not Bongzi marriage, once pregnant people can be simple as possible, anyway, you are pregnant without knots also have to marry, come to the advice of people!