Author: One flower
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Shakespeare said, "The ambition of love is painful." ”
Liking a person, no matter how much you cover it up, is a secret that can't be hidden, and likewise, not liking a person, no matter how you explain it, seems pale and powerless.
A relationship, from the beginning to the end, there will always be one party who loves freely and goes resolutely, while the other party, who loves slowly, when breaking up, is full of reluctance, even if they are separated for many months, they still can't get out of the shadow of lost love.
For the latter, they often comfort themselves, after breaking up, they are reluctant to delete each other's contact information, run to each other's circle of friends in the middle of the night to look at the dynamics of several years ago, and also inquire about the news of the ex everywhere.
Once the ex releases a sad dynamic, they will automatically make up various details, hinting at themselves over and over again, the ex is still nostalgic for himself, and the two people still have the possibility of compounding.
In the relationship, the first to invest in women, they are sensitive and amorous creatures, like a man, only need a moment, do not love a man, but also often only in a few minutes to make a decision.
Men often do not move the truth at first, until the woman proposes to leave, they suddenly wake up, only to find that they have been unconsciously deeply in love with each other, and they are still delusional that the other party has the same feelings as themselves. After a breakup, women often have three kinds of performance, not reluctant to you, don't be wrong.
The first: get drunk and ask you to pick her up and take her home
People say that they spit out the truth after drinking, is this really the case? The premise of spitting out the truth after drinking is that she is drunk because of you.
After the breakup, the woman said that she would no longer contact each other, but she called you after getting drunk, complained to you, and let you take her home, many men will think that women will be depressed because they can't forget themselves, and buy drunk late at night.
In fact, women do not do this, not reluctant to you, just treat you as a free chauffeur, to put it bluntly, she is in the white prostitution taxi fee.
The object of her late-night drunkenness is not you, but other people of the opposite sex, and what's more, this man is the object she has been looking for before you broke up, you don't want to be sentimental.
The second kind: after the failure of the new relationship, talk to you
If you have really loved someone deeply, it is impossible to quickly start a new relationship after the breakup, at least you will leave yourself a month or two of empty window.
So if a woman has a new relationship within a week of breaking up with you, there's no doubt that she never loved you. After the failure of a new relationship, come to you to talk, cry until you can't help yourself, and ask you to accompany her every night, there is no doubt that you have no place in her heart.
To put it bluntly, from the beginning to the end, she never cared about you, you for her, is the outlet of the tree hole, referred to as the trash can, even after the breakup, do not intend to let you go, all the negative emotions are released to you.
You know, the woman who really loves you is not willing to let you worry about her, and it is even more impossible to spread unhappy emotions to you.
The third: Mention you often in front of your friends
After the breakup, women often mention you in front of their friends, not necessarily in their hearts still have you, but in saying bad things about you, trying to do everything possible to denigrate you.
Many times, people who hang on their lips will announce it to the world over and over again because they are obsessed with it, but because they are extremely disgusted with him. Women often hang their exs on their lips, not because they are reluctant and can't forget, but because they really don't love.
You know, the woman who really loves you, after the breakup, you are a thorn in her heart that can't be pulled out, she will only hide desperately in front of her mutual friends, how can she take it out every day and let others look at her scars!
In summary, after two people break up, if a woman often has the above three performances, she is not reluctant to you, not to forget you, but has never loved you, men can not be wrong.
Why bother with an ex who doesn't love him? Looking ahead, there will always be good love waiting for you.
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