Children always can't sit still, and parents must understand the reasons why their children can't sit still in order to deal with them correctly

I heard many parents complain: children always can't sit still, whether at home or at school, children don't stop for a moment, even in class will be difficult to concentrate, why children always can't sit still?

I don't know if you have encountered such a situation? Parents can do this in the face of children who can't sit still.

Han Han is 5 years old this year, has gone to preschool, Han Han is a typical child who can't sit still, even if he can't stay at home, he will let his parents take her out to play all day, if his parents don't have time to take her out to play, she herself will go out to find children, and rarely sit obediently at home.

Since Han Han has already gone to preschool, the teacher usually gives Lectures or assigns some homework to Han Han, but Han Han is always unable to concentrate during class.

The teacher was lecturing on the stage, Han Han was playing with his little finger below and could not obediently listen to the lecture, and when it came to writing the homework, because he did not listen carefully to the teacher's lecture, he did not know how to write the homework assigned by the teacher.

Once the teacher was lecturing, Han Han had been teasing the same table with his hands below, this scene was just seen by the teacher, the teacher was very angry, and looked for Han Han at the end of the class, but under the teacher's communication, Han Han did not know what was wrong, at this time the teacher had to notify Han Han's parents and told Han Han's parents about this matter.

Han Han's parents came to the teacher's office, after knowing this matter also felt very helpless, Han Han's parents told the teacher: "Teacher, Han Han was originally a child who could not sit still, we know that she will not obediently sit in class when she goes to class, bringing you trouble, for this we are also helpless, and we are worried about it." ”

After listening to Han Han's parents, the teacher asked Han Han's parents to cultivate the child's concentration, because the child's concentration is very poor, and the impact on the child is also very large.

Now many children can not sit still at home or at school, many parents are also very worried about this, why do children always not sit still? Let's take a look at why children can't sit still.

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Why do children always sit still?

Children always can't sit still, on the one hand, it is also that the child's imagination is relatively rich, the child is addicted to his own imagination, the child is difficult to calm down when doing things, they often think wildly, and even take the imaginary things as reality, so they will always sit still.

And some children are usually very active, although active is the nature of children, but if the child is more active than the average child, usually can not sit still, but also affects learning, this may be children's ADHD.

Many times we see children can not sit still, it is inevitable to feel disgusted, some children can not sit still, this is because the child's spirit is not easy to concentrate, it is easy to be disturbed by the outside world.

For example, when the child is studying, the parents are watching the mobile phone or watching TV next to them, etc., the child will also be disturbed, and he is not willing to sit obediently and study, and wants to accompany the parents to watch TV together.

But in general, the reason why the child can't sit still is because the child's concentration is very poor, which leads to the child's spirit is not easy to concentrate, whether at home or at school, the child is difficult to concentrate, the concentration is very poor, then, the child's poor concentration will be what will be the performance?

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What else will the child show with poor concentration?

Classes often desert

There are some children who obviously want to read, but they always can't concentrate in class, and it is easy to desert in class, and parents think that such children do not really want to read, and they will always desert during class.

But if the child always deserts during the class, and is also very serious about learning, such a child does not want to read, but their concentration is very poor, even if they want to concentrate during the class, it is difficult to concentrate, and there will be such a phenomenon.

Half-hearted when doing things

Speaking of children doing sloppy things, I believe that many parents have a deep understanding, and parents think that their children are sloppy because their children have no sense of responsibility.

Although children are sloppy in doing things, they also have a certain relationship with the child's sense of responsibility, but there are some children who do things half-heartedly, not without responsibility, but their attention is very distracted and difficult to concentrate, which also has a certain relationship with the child's poor concentration, which will have such a performance.

Always forget the east and forget the west

Many parents think that their children are a little confused, usually always forget the east and the west, obviously do things in one second and forget the next second, and the child's memory is as short as the memory of the goldfish. Parents think that their children have such a situation because the child's memory is not good, and they try their best to let the child have a good memory.

In fact, children are easy to forget the East and the West, this is because the child's concentration is relatively poor, which causes the child to often forget the East and forget the West.

In the face of children's poor concentration, many parents feel helpless and do not know how to cope, so how should parents cope with children with poor concentration?

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Children have poor concentration, and parents can do this

Let the child nourish the spirit

Now many parents will stay up late with their children and live a life of sleeping late and getting up late, but this will also cause poor sleep quality of children, children do not sleep enough time, and will also cause children to lack of spirit, and in the case of insufficient children's spirits, it will also affect children's concentration.

In the face of children with poor concentration, parents must first let the children cultivate their spirits, let the children go to bed early and get up early every day, and let the children sleep for enough time to be able to let the children have good concentration.

Reduce distractions to your child

Many parents will interfere with their children when they play with toys or write homework, and they will also buy a lot of toys for their children, so that there are toys everywhere in the house, but if there are too many children's toys, it will also affect the child's concentration, making the child's concentration become very poor.

Children's toys do not need to buy a lot, each stage of the child's parents only need to buy one or two pieces, when the child plays games or write homework, parents should reduce the interference of the child, encourage the child to concentrate when doing things, in order to exercise the child's concentration.

Let your child release the stress

Many children's concentration is particularly poor, this is because the child's pressure is very large, so that the child's heart is full of pressure, resulting in the child's poor concentration ability.

Today's children are much more stressful than children in the past, parents usually have to talk to their children more, let the children release their dissatisfaction and pressure, and can also take the children out to exercise or play games together, so that the children can release the pressure correctly, in order to improve the child's concentration.

Children always can't sit still, this is because the child's concentration is very poor, which leads to the child's attention is difficult to concentrate, parents want to strengthen the child's concentration, you must pay attention to the above aspects, in order to let the child have a good concentration.

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