7 heart-warming dialogues in 2022, countless netizens liked and collected, and good boys have a good mother behind them
Behind every independent man, there is a good mother who can educate
The growth of boys is inseparable from the guidance and encouragement of their mothers
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As an old mother, she will always fantasize from time to time about what kind of person her son will become when he grows up.
Most mothers want their children to be independent and excellent
Confident and cheerful, brave and responsible, I also hope that they can become good men who are thoughtful, attractive, and popular with women
But you know what?
If you want your child to grow up independent, confident and charming
Mothers must teach their boys these 7 things
01
Good boy, be responsible
"Mom, can I have a cat?"
Okay, but you have to take care of it yourself, and you have to shovel for it every day.
"But the cat litter is so smelly, can't mom help?"
"Because this is what you have to raise, just like Daddy marries Mommy home, then Mommy is sick, Daddy can ignore Mommy"
"No, you can't"
"Yeah, this is called responsibility, once you choose something, be responsible for it, just like your mother will take care of you every day." 」
"Whether it's the cat or the people around us, our partners, our children, since we have chosen them, we naturally have a responsibility, understand?"
I get it, Mom, I'll shovel my own
02
Good boys, know how to protect themselves
"Mom. Mom, today Xiaohua was kissed by an uncle, and Xiaohua was frightened and quickly ran away."
"What about you?"
"I'm just standing there."
"Why not run?"
"Because I'm a boy, he won't kiss me"
"The mother told you that in fact, boys will also meet strange uncles or aunts, and they will also be hurt."
So the baby must learn to protect himself, and the private place cannot be touched by others."
"What a place for privacy"
"Where the panties are covered, and anywhere as long as you are uncomfortable, even if it is a kiss on the face, if you feel that you don't like it, you have to say it, don't let others touch it"
"Got it, Mom, I'll protect myself"
03
Good boy, be brave
"Mom, I'm so scared."
"What are you afraid of?"
"I think there are big monsters in the room"
"So what do you see in the room during the day?"
"Clothes, books, and my toys"
"It's the same now."
"Then I'm not afraid"
"Yes, we are afraid because of the "unknown", so as long as we know more and master more, then our fear will disappear." 」
04
Good boy, violence is prohibited
"Mom, a classmate stole my toy today"
"So how do you do it?"
"I asked him to give it back to me because it was rude to grab someone else's toy"
"Then did he pay it back?"
"No, he said, if I can beat him, give me back the toy, if I can't beat him, I'm not a man, I don't deserve to have that toy."
"Did you hit him?"
"No, you said it was wrong to hit someone, but Mom, I feel a little cowardly."
"Mom thinks you're brave because you stick to your principles, and some people, though fierce on the surface, always like violence
But in fact, the heart is very fragile, such a person is not worth our learning, of course, when necessary, we must also learn to fight back to be afraid, to let the other party know that we are not afraid of him."
05
Good boys, know how to respect girls
"Mom, I wanted to be at the same table with Han Han yesterday, but she didn't want to."
"Then you choose another table."
"But I just like Han Han, I want to sit with her"
"But Han Han has already rejected you."
"I don't want to give up yet"
"Then Mom asked you, if I asked you to give your favorite dinosaur toy to the little brother next door, wouldn't it work?"
"No, that's my favorite toy"
"What if your mother wants to force you?"
"Then I'll hate you and I'll be very uncomfortable."
"Han Han is the same, she has rejected you, if you continue to force, she will be very uncomfortable, not only do not like you, but also hate you even more"
"So what do I do?"
"You have to respect Han Han's choice, if you want her to like you, you have to respect her, and then work hard to become excellent, let Han Han see your charm, then she is willing to be at the same table with you, and don't stalk"
"I see, Mom, I'll respect girls"
06
A good boy who knows how to seek common ground while reserving differences
"Baby, I see that Lele just greeted you, but you ignored people, why?"
"Lele's personality is so weird, I don't want to pay any attention to him"
"What's the fuss"
"He's not like a boy, he doesn't have Ultraman toys, he always holds a doll."
"And then what?"
"He also put on makeup and put on lipstick that day, and we boys didn't like him"
"Do you like Jestis Ultraman, who transforms into a girl?"
"Super loved it, I liked all the Ultramans"
"In fact, Lele is also the same as Jestis, he is not manly enough, but he is very special."
"Yes"
"Yes, in fact, in life, everyone's personality and hobbies are different, we must learn to respect the choices of others, learn to seek common ground while reserving differences"
07
Good boy, you have to be able to afford to lose
"Mom, my test scores are so bad, I feel so stupid"
"It's just an exam, don't be too sad."
"But it's so sad, I can't help but want to cry"
"Do you cry when you fall?"
"No, you can get up, there is nothing to cry about"
"Yes, the exam is the same, the next time you try harder, it will be good"
"I see, Mom"
"Son, mother wants you to remember that the road of life is to lose and win, there are happiness, there are setbacks, these are not terrible, as long as we are strong and brave to face it, we will overcome them and get back on our feet"
"Okay, Mom"
08
Some people say that the growth of a boy is inseparable from the teaching of his mother
Some people also say that no matter how good the education, it can not withstand the companionship and guidance of the mother
Indeed, for a lot of boys
Moms were the first women they came into contact with and the most important loved ones in their lives
The mother's every move will invisibly affect the boy's self-awareness
Affects the formation of boys' personalities, determining their character and morality
As mothers, we must have enough patience, but also have a broad mind and pattern
Only in this way will the child grow into a cultured, polite, and respectful woman under our teaching
And a manly man with responsibility
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