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Newton's third law: The action of forces is mutual and occurs simultaneously, love and hate are the same, and the seed is the cause, and the effect is the effect.
Zhang Peng, 27 years old this year, just divorced his wife last year, and the reason why the two chose to divorce was actually because of the intervention of a third party.
Zhang Peng is the manager of a company, the usual life is still very good, in the work can also know a lot of female friends, at the beginning, Zhang Peng is still very concerned about his wife.
But since meeting his colleague Xiaoli, Zhang Peng is like a changed person, and in Xiaoli's body, Zhang Peng feels unprecedented tenderness.
From this woman's body, Zhang Peng experienced more freshness, since then, Zhang Peng has found excuses and reasons not to go home, and every time he encounters a problem, Zhang Peng will solve it.
At first, the wife chose to forgive, because she wanted to give this man a chance, but her forgiveness was exchanged for the man's aggravated harm.
After complete disappointment, his wife chose to divorce, after the divorce, Zhang Peng lived alone with his children, without the company of his wife, at first Zhang Peng still felt quite free, but after a long time, he began to miss his wife's goodness.
In the past, every time he came home, he could eat the hot meals made by his wife, but now when he returned home, the whole house was empty, and the huge gap between before and after made him miss his wife's goodness more and more.
Marriage is like this, learn to cherish well, because some feelings will not come again once they are missed.
Feelings can not be tempted, but also to learn to be honest, now the love, a lot of it is no longer pure, the love between men and women, should be beautiful and happy.
Men and women will only give these three treasures, especially the third, after being emotional.
01.
inclusive:
When they are just in love, the two are perfect in each other's eyes, but over time, the shortcomings between the two will gradually be exposed, at this time, because they are not accustomed to each other's behavior, so the contradictions between each other will become more and more numerous.
In a relationship, maybe we both forget each other's goodness.
That's why they use strict standards to demand each other, but in this world, there is no perfect person, so when interacting with each other, we must also learn to tolerate.
In a relationship, if we can't understand and tolerate each other, then love will dissipate in the end.
In the relationship, we must learn to stand in each other's point of view to think about the problem, if the two are always fighting each other, then the road to love will become extremely difficult.
The contradiction between the two people must learn to solve it by yourself, and only when you find the right way to get along, love will become long-lasting.
When you know how to tolerate, it is when true love appears.
02.
communicate:
Couples who are happily married know how to talk well.
In the process of communication between husband and wife, words play a very important role, and this is the reason why the disaster comes out of the mouth.
In the process of communication, if couples do not know how to communicate correctly, they will eventually make the distance between husband and wife gradually drift apart.
It is not easy for two people to know each other, and if you want to go down firmly, then you must find the right way to communicate.
Maybe everyone will envy the marriage of the older generation, because in that era, no matter how they argue, they will not give up on each other.
But in today's era of love fast food, couples who divorce because of disputes are also innumerable, and the happiness of a family actually needs two people to maintain.
When the two are talking, if they both aim their spearhead at each other, then family life will also be full of a smell of flames.
When husband and wife quarrel, don't always put the word divorce on your lips, because when quarrels and contradictions occur, always attacking each other with words will only intensify the contradiction between the two people.
In the marriage relationship, in fact, the most hurtful thing is words, because the more people we know, the more deeply we will be hurt by us, in the face of love, we should not always stab the knife to the person who loves us the most, because the quality of marriage is determined by two people.
If you can't speak, it will also lead to constant conflicts between the two people, and finally lead to a series of conflicts.
Knowing how to speak well is the blessing of a family.
03.
substance:
It is said that feelings cannot be too materialistic, but for a person who truly loves you, he will not care whether you are material or not.
Because the people who love you will give you the best love, and the people who don't love you always care about themselves.
Having material feelings does make love happier.
In the face of love, everyone is selfish, only when a person has true feelings for you, he will be willing to give you the best things, so we must learn to recognize people, do not waste time on people who are not worthwhile, love yourself well, in order to find the person who truly loves you.
Love is never a game, but frankness, only with a sincere heart, love will become pure and beautiful.