Some people say that marriage is sacred, it is not only the continuation of love, but also the continuation of life, many people yearn for a good marriage, and many people reject marriage and become unmarried.
Surveys show that more than 40% of young women in China have decided to become unmarried. Unmarried people are as the name suggests, they will not marry for a lifetime, and since marriage is so beautiful, why do so many women not want to get married?
In fact, children do not want to get married, parents are hard to blame, parents' marriage is the child's future love on the road to the mirror, as a parent you have to set a good example for your child!
The disharmony of the original family
The unhappiness of parental marriage has a huge impact on the formation of the child's wrong view of marriage, the child's first impression of love comes from the marriage of the parents, if the parents always quarrel, then the child will have a pessimistic attitude towards marriage, and the negative emotions that slowly accumulate on the road of growth will make them form a point of view: "Marriage is bound to bring misfortune."
Then when they grow up, they will avoid the opposite sex and reject all the pursuits of the opposite sex. If a person hates love and refuses marriage, it may be because he has never seen the appearance of love and the happiness of marriage.
The birth of "Ma Bao" and "Dad Bao"
Taking Ma Bao as an example, the flesh and bones of the child born as a mother's ten-year pregnancy are naturally extremely favored by the mother, but the pampering becomes doting and gradually goes to the road of no return.
"I use my whole life to treat my son", "I have no self, no self at all", these two sentences are from the mouth of Zhu Yuchen's mother in "My Son", she constantly emphasizes her dedication to her son in the program, and boldly admits that she will interfere with every relationship of her son, it is conceivable that a strong mother who thinks she loves her child's persecution of her child's love is great, and the stars are the same, and such examples in life are not uncommon.
The word "my mother said" has always been used as the key to identifying ma bao, long-term doting makes some men and women unable to take care of themselves, without the slightest responsibility, thinking that paying for each other is wronging themselves, it is difficult to do anything for each other, not to mention assuming the responsibility of marriage, such an object is also a terrible existence in reality.
We all know that marriage is easy, and a marriage certificate stamped by the Civil Affairs Bureau will tie two people together, but there are many factors in a marriage that want to be happy, such as the two parties, the families of both parties, economic conditions, and the concept of marriage.
The concept of marriage sounds like it is very far away from the child, but in fact, from an early age to establish a correct view of marriage, it is very important for the children to choose the object and live a good life when they grow up, and the mothers may wish to look at these two articles to guide the children to the correct marriage, so that the children can have a harmonious married life in the future.
A good marriage requires the efforts of two people
It is very painful and confusing for a person to support a home, only the joint efforts of both parties to the marriage can get a good life, parents can take their children to participate in more parent-child activities, so that children can see the concerted efforts of parents in the activities, the family unites to win the victory, so that the children realize the most important "unity spirit" in marriage.
: Companionship is the longest confession of affection
Everyone says that a single-parent family can cause a distortion in the child's psychology, which makes many parents' feelings have long been broken, but they will still insist on living together for the sake of their children.
This is not a whim, children before the age of 6 do need the company of both parents, only the mother or father will make the children miss a part of the love, and then produce inferiority.
But this is not to say that the parents have no love and are reluctantly together, in fact, the parents divorce is beyond reproach, but the way of divorce is very important.
Quarrels and conflicts will only affect the child, peaceful and stable separation, even if not together, but in the child's growth path have the participation of parents and mothers, children can also grow up happily.