In the 21st century, do you still believe in love?
At the age of 12 and three, he chased "Huan Zhu Gege", the five brothers abandoned their parents for love; the 17 and 8 years old watched the variety show "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" The real love interpreted by the handsome man and beautiful woman, which was sitting on a BMW and crying, material-based love; or the 23 or 4 years old had just entered the society, knew that it was impossible, but still looked forward to the fairy love of the two people in "Descendants of the Sun" in the war. At the same time, I also know that the real love is the helplessness and despair in "Snail Residence".
The collapse of the star personality is not because the man has become bad, perhaps the man is not good at the beginning, but is good at disguise. The so-called love, perhaps, really exists. However, this requires both men and women to have good qualities and unwavering integrity. This kind of is rare, you say whose marriage to whom is love?
In "Opponent", Li Tang and Ding Meixi got married because of the task, and there was no love at the beginning of the marriage. When she first met Lin Yu, Ding Meixi immediately ran over to hug him, she was in love with him, she and Li Tang were husband and wife, it was a thing called marriage. The two work together every day to worry about chai rice oil and salt, and jointly plan Li Xiaoman's future.
Looking back at love, between Lin Yu and Ding Meixi is love, but love often can't stand the test, after Ding Meixi became an outcast, the first person to stand up and kill her was Lin Yu. Lin Yu also has love for Ding Meixi, but love is worthless in the face of fame and profit.
The biggest difference between family affection and love is that family affection is unreserved and unconditional giving. Love is conditional, and when conditions are met, both parties are happy; when conditions are not met, both sides are tormented by each other in pain. The two sides in love are a process of mutual temptation, you want to know my hole cards, I also want to know your hole cards.
In the last episode of "Opponent", Lin Yu said that "family affection is not blood relations, but skin kisses, every second, real companionship". It also reminds me of a case that was said today many years ago about a boy who, when he was five or six years old, witnessed the murder of his mother and his brother and was later abducted and sold. Years later, he found his biological father and brother, the younger brother had his own home, he did not remember having an older brother, and he forgot everything when he was a child. As for his father, who had already started a family, he thought that his wife had left home to take the children, and he did not look for them. On the day of the meeting of the relatives, except for him, who was in tears, the faces of his father and brother were more bitter.
All the propositions based on love, after so many years, what is love is clear? In the cartoon "Elf Hostel", love is a momentary heartbeat. In "The Biography of Zhen Huan", love is a unique love of similar interest and mutual care. In "Twilight", love is a moment of mutual attraction between the four eyes. If interpreted this way, does love equal liking?
In short, as a twenty-six-year-old single young woman, I think marriage can be without love, but there must be affection.
That is, Li Tangming knew that Li Xiaoman was not his daughter, but he still gave everything wholeheartedly. That was also when Ding Meixi encountered danger, and the calm Li Tang became manic and restless. That is still the decision to choose to sacrifice oneself to save one's wife when faced with giving and gaining.
Love, that is the bubble in the air, unreal and unattainable. Affection is a tighter and tighter hemp rope, even if we stumble, when we wake up, we are still a family.