The writer Shen Congwen once said: "There is no happiness when it is time to laugh, no tears when it is time to cry, and no promise when it is time to believe." ”
You think that all feelings can maintain a lifetime of enthusiasm like fire, but the original passion has long gone.
Tortured by life, middle-aged women simply do not have the energy to talk about love.
Just want to maintain the current state of blandness, a woman's life can no longer withstand the toss.
If you want to gain a place to live in the midst of busyness, love often becomes a luxury.
Without time to take care of the reason for the feelings, many women will put love aside.
Desperate to survive, women just want to have a good rest.
I don't want to be disturbed anymore, I just want to wait for the flowers to blossom in a simple life.
Women who have higher demands on themselves will not put feelings of having nothing first.
A relationship that has nothing will only exacerbate a woman's gains and losses, and she must rely on herself to gain a sense of security in this life.
"People are middle-aged, there is no love" Women who can understand this truth are the best to die.
Don't waste time in love, only then do you have the opportunity to start a new beautiful life
The philosopher Plato said, "The world is so imperfect that you have to lose what you want." ”
Love is not everything in life, and you must not fight for love.
No one is worth your everything, and smart women know how to put themselves first.
Take care of yourself first, in order to go to the end with a calm attitude.
You can't even balance your own interests, and it's hard to take care of the big picture in your life.
Loving someone cannot be too full of love, love is not everything in life.
If you are always obsessed with love, you will only be bruised in the end.
The wise woman has long forgotten love, and she is chasing a unique and happy life.
Don't think of love as too important, people have no love until middle age.
It's not that you've lost your yearning for life, it's that you don't have the energy to juggle other people's emotions.
You always want to do everything, but reality will give you a blow.
Middle-aged women have very limited time, and you can't put love first.
Since it is impossible to be perfect, "abandoning" feelings is the most correct choice.
Look down on feelings a little, so as not to increase the annoyance.
If you are always struggling with whether the other person loves you or not, it will only create endless pressure on two people.
The other person can't understand your joys and sorrows, and his answer will never satisfy you.
You want to arouse the enthusiasm of the other party, but the other party will only go farther and farther.
Once the other party has a sense of resistance, the lives of the two people can never go back to the past.
Love is not everything, and everyone should set firm goals.
Some requirements cannot be met, and you must be at ease with the situation.
Don't be too pushy in your relationship, the definition of happiness varies. Do yourself first, and the person who loves you will naturally take the initiative to cater to you.
Mavericks are not divorced from society, and perseverance can be proven continuously
I like a quote from the writer Hayao Miyazaki: "Sometimes, after sticking to the things you least want to do, you can get what you want most." ”
Some women give everything to love because she values men too much.
A woman thinks that she can live a good life with love, and she puts all her expectations into men.
Women think of men as "cash machines", and women think that men can be carefree.
However, no one will willingly raise you for a lifetime, and everyone has their own life.
After middle age, women also have to become more mature.
Stop thinking aimlessly, unrealistic end up losing everything.
If you always pin your hopes on an impossible person, you will only end up begging for food.
Men can't be subservient to you, everything you see is an illusion.
Relying on oneself is the truth of a lifetime, and the choice can be made in one's own hands in order to make the most rational judgment.
Putting love in the second place can put the improvement of ability in the first place.
Put love aside before you can focus on doing more important things.
Focusing on self-improvement can reflect a woman's high emotional intelligence.
No one can accompany you to the end, you have to exercise your skills.
Being able to continuously prove by relying on its own strength can we reflect the best style of women.
Do not want to bow down in front of the lover, women must occupy a place of love.
At the beginning, we must establish a firm concept, and after we are together, we will not let people hurt.
Not being indecisive in feelings can keep you awake at all times.
No desire and no demand is the real peace of mind, and the indifference to tranquility will not be calculated
Writer Zhang Ailing once said: "Life is like a dance party, the person who taught you the first dance steps may not be able to accompany you to the end." ”
The dream of love can indeed create endless surprises, but the freshness is fleeting.
Although the fireworks are beautiful, they can only bloom for a short moment.
Some good things are destined to drift with the wind, and some feelings cannot be set in stone.
The two people have been gone for so long, and they have already communicated with each other.
Some words do not need to be deliberately expressed, and some feelings do not need to be deliberately mentioned.
Even if you lose the love of love, you can support each other in a plain and plain way.
Running together in a different identity, the two people are still the closest lovers to each other.
If you calm down, you will not think wildly, and if you are calm, you will not regard love as supreme.
Having entered middle age, women have to take care of the family and take care of the work, and it is difficult for you to be perfect.
Rest when you have time, and try to grasp the opportunity.
Only by constantly improving can a woman's world be more complete.
Everyone will lose the throbbing of enthusiasm after middle age, and you should not be strong in your feelings.
Having already enjoyed the greed of love, the next step is still to run to a great future.
Returning to a dull life, women must be able to withstand loneliness.
Stop pursuing unrealistic dreams, you have to deal with it calmly.
Being open-minded about life and keeping an open mind is enough to do everything.
The thinker Marx said: "Life is like the ocean, and only those who have a strong will can reach the other shore." ”
If you can't choose between relationships, you should know how to weigh the pros and cons.
Feelings are not the whole of life, and it is impossible to be in love all the time in a lifetime.
When you are young, you are full of blood, and after middle age, you must mature and steady.
Make sure right or wrong, and quickly make the most perfect choice.
Only by constantly improving our own strength within a limited scope can we turn dreams into reality.
When a woman's ideological realm has been improved, there will be no disturbance in the unexpected world.
We must put our own interests in the center, and our hearts are strong enough to withstand all difficulties.