The TV series "An Jia" once hit the screen, and the aura of the protagonist in this TV series is certainly dazzling, and many supporting roles are also unforgettable.
In particular, the rural shrew "Pan Guiyu" played by Ding Jiali made countless audiences hate their teeth, and Ding Jiali grasped the essence of this role and the performance was particularly in place.
Because of the role of "Pan Guiyu", Ding Jiali, who is already 61 years old, has once again caught fire.
Speaking of Ding Jiali, people born in the 60s and 70s have a very deep impression, Ding Jiali is a film queen with excellent acting skills on the screen that year, and has won awards such as Golden Rooster and Huabiao.
Although Ding Jiali looks ordinary, she is strong and is one of the most acting actresses in the film and television circle until today.
Ding Jiali experienced two marriages, three unforgettable feelings, although the career was smooth sailing, and she was soft with awards, but her emotional life was particularly unsmooth.
The two marriages brought her a son and a daughter, and the young Ding Jiali, in pursuit of love, fostered her daughter in her daughter's uncle's house, and she only saw her daughter twice in 15 years.
In the end, her daughter's gray childhood became an eternal pain in Ding Jiali's heart.
One
In 1959, Ding Jiali was born in Jiamusi City, Heilongjiang, because her parents were busy with work, so Ding Jiali was brought up by her grandparents.
In 1980, Ding Jiali was admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy and became the ugliest girl in her class.
However, due to her good talent for acting and her own efforts, Ding Jiali soon became famous and became the most well-known person in her class.
In 1984, Ding Jiali graduated from university, and because of her outstanding grades, she was assigned to the China Youth Art Theater, which was later merged into the National Drama Theatre.
Ding Jiali was just after graduation and was selected to join the crew of the famous director Wang Jun's "The First Woman in the Mountain Forest" and played the heroine.
Because of this role, Ding Jiali won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress in one fell swoop, and many experts asserted: "Ding Jiali is not a stunning actor, but she will definitely become an actor and artist who has been acting." ”
It turns out that the expert's vision is poisonous, and after that, Ding Jiali did become an artist with excellent acting skills, and was busy filming all her life.
Ding Jiali's debut is the climax, and her career can be described as smooth sailing.
But Ding Jiali's love and marriage are quite bumpy.
Just after graduating from college, Ding Jiali fell in love with Hu Guangchuan, and they did not know each other through introduction, but free love, which was very rare at that time.
But Ding Jiali is very rebellious, because she is young and does not know how to protect herself, so she had a relationship with her boyfriend before marriage.
Boyfriend Hu Guangchuan looked down on Ding Jiali and said to her: "If a woman does not know how to love herself, others will look down on you." ”
Ding Jiali was very injured because of this, but the roof leaked in the overnight rain, and she found out that she was pregnant.
At that time, unmarried pregnancy was an absolute ugly thing, so Ding Jiali was under great psychological pressure, busy work and heavy ideological pressure made her lose her hair a lot.
Until she could no longer hide it, Ding Jiali found a town hospital alone to do the abortion.
When there was an abortion, Ding Jiali lay on the cold operating bed and begged the doctor for forgiveness in pain.
The doctor said dismissively to Ding Jiali: "Now that I know that it hurts, why did I go earlier?" ”
Ding Jiali stood up to the white eyes of others, endured the pain of her body, and removed the child in her abdomen, but Ding Jiali did not know at this time that she would have to experience such pain three times in the future.
Although her boyfriend Hu Guangchuan hurt Ding Jiali deeply and her body hurt her heart, Ding Jiali still married him.
Perhaps because the foundation of marriage is not strong enough, Ding Jiali soon cheated after marriage, and she fell in love with a husband with a wife.
And it was very bad that she was also pregnant with the man's child, and Ding Jiali found a hospital alone to do the abortion.
Ding Jiali, who had just finished the crowd, needed to shoot in the snow at minus forty degrees in the northeast, and Ding Jiali had to kneel in the snow and stay in the wild for a day.
Her stomach ache was unbearable, and she went to the hospital to see a doctor, but the small town hospital could not treat it, and when she returned to Beijing, she went to the big hospital for examination.
Jiali Ding suffered from chronic subacute pelvic inflammatory disease, a disease that would accompany her throughout her life.
Ding Jiali confessed to her parents that she had been beaten twice, and her parents were in pain and angry, and her father even smoked his mouth in pain.
Later, Ding Jiali became pregnant again, although at this time her relationship with her husband had been cracked, but Ding Jiali still decided to give birth to a child.
But when she was doing a caesarean section in the hospital, the anesthesiologist answered a phone call, had emotional problems, and forgot to give Ding Jiali anesthesia.
Ding Jiali had a caesarean section without anesthesia, and she fainted three times in pain, and the anesthesiologist remembered that she had not been given anesthesia.
The anesthesiologist hurriedly anesthetized Ding Jiali, and because of the problem with the anesthesia dose, Ding Jiali slept for three days and three nights, and it can be said that Ding Jiali gave birth to a daughter Ding Ding, nine deaths.
Before Ding Jiali gave birth to a daughter, Hu Guangchuan cheated on her, and out of the full moon, Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan divorced.
The child was sentenced to her husband, and Ding Jiali threw up her hands and left, and from then on she ignored this daughter who had let herself live through nine deaths.
Two
Tintin lived with his father and grandmother since he was a child, and then his father never came back after he left home, and after his grandmother died, Tintin lived with his uncle.
Tintin's uncle himself has two children, both younger than Tintin, and the uncle is very bad for Tintin, who cannot be shaken off, and always scolds at every turn.
And the uncle is very heavy every time he hits, and a slap can knock Tintin to the ground.
Once, Tintin and his uncle's two children were playing, and when tintin came back angry outside, he beat tintin violently and locked tintin in a small black room.
In the little black room there were the ashes and tablets of his grandparents, and Tintin was so frightened that his legs were weak in the dark room, and he cried and begged for forgiveness, but to no avail.
Throughout the night in the little black room, Tintin cried and thought about it all night, and Tintin later confessed the experience on the show "I Am Not a Star".
"Why did my parents give birth to me and didn't want me, was it that I wasn't good enough?" Am I ugly? Did I spend too much money on my family? Why doesn't anyone like me? Why don't they all want me? ”
Tintin said that the most uncomfortable time was when her uncle knocked her to the ground in front of her mother, and her mother, Ding Jiali, only put her hand on her forehead and did not say a word for Tintin.
When Ding Jiali left her daughter, her daughter was only more than one year old, and when her daughter was seventeen years old, in fifteen years, Ding Jiali had only seen her daughter twice.
What Tintin doesn't know is that Ding Jiali has been chasing love all these years, but in the end she has not been able to get the love she wants.
After divorcing Tintin's father, in 1990 Ding Jiali ushered in her second marriage, married to a university lecturer whom Ding Jiali admired.
Ding Jiali is very loyal to her marriage this time, although she is constantly filming, but there is no longer any lace news.
Every time she returned home, Ding Jiali did her best to fulfill the responsibilities of a wife, and even once focused her main energy on the family after marriage.
In 1991, Ding Jiali gave birth to her own son Guoguo.
However, Ding Jiali's second marriage also eventually went to a dead end because of personality incompatibility, and despite Ding Jiali's repeated tolerance, her husband still cheated.
Ding Jiali was betrayed again, and the pain in her heart can be imagined, but this time she took the initiative to get the custody of her son Guoguo.
When Guoguo was full moon, Ding Jiali was single again.
Ding Jiali was raised by her grandparents since she was a child, so her relationship with her grandfather was very deep, so Ding Jiali brought her grandfather and parents to Beijing to live.
At that time, Ding Jiali's state was very poor, successive marriages failed, her husband cheated in marriage, and her feelings were betrayed, which made Ding Jiali very painful, always crying alone from time to time.
Whenever Ding Jiali shed tears, her parents and grandfather would also accompany her to tears.
The mother often choked up and said to Ding Jiali, "Child, you have to be strong." You can't fall, you still have old people and children to raise, you fall, the sky of this home will collapse. ”
Ding Jiali gradually realized her responsibility, not only did she have three elderly people to support, but also her children also needed to be raised by herself.
A family of six needs to hold up a piece of the sky by themselves, and her daughter Tintin is not around, but Ding Jiali also needs to call on time.
Three
Ding Jiali has only seen her daughter twice in 15 years, and when Ding Jiali first saw her daughter in 1999, her daughter cried and begged Ding Jiali to take her home.
Daughter Tintin's biggest wish in childhood is actually that her mother can take her home.
But Ding Jiali perfunctorily gave her daughter ten yuan and asked her daughter to buy toys, and After her daughter went out, Ding Jiali sneaked away.
Tintin returned home to find her mother gone, and she cried and chased her to the bus stop, but her mother had long since disappeared.
Tintin wanted to go to his mother, to his mother's house, but Tintin did not know where his mother lived.
Tintin squatted alone at the bus stop crying, when it rained small snowflakes, Tintin was crying and weeping on the snowy streets of Beijing, but he could not cry back to his mother.
It wasn't until night fell, until Tintin's body was covered with snowflakes, that Tintin walked back to his uncle's house step by step.
When Tintin was fourteen years old, in 2001, Tintin saw Ding Jiali again, and this time Tintin did not ask his mother to take him home.
Because Tintin knew that he could never go back to his mother's house, Tintin always had a doubt in his heart, since his parents gave birth to him, why did he deposit himself with his uncle like luggage.
Why has her mother always been reluctant to take herself home, and this time, although Tintin is looking forward to her mother taking her home, Tintin has never asked her mother again.
When 2002 came, 15-year-old Tintin was still living in his uncle's house, and his mother was just a stranger with two sides to Tintin.
Tintin did not know that his mother also lived in Beijing, they were in the same city, but it was like the end of the world.
Tintin never knew that his mother lived in Beijing's Xicheng District, and Tintin's uncle's family was in Beijing's Daxing district.
Just a stone's throw away, the same city, Mom's home was a place Tintin never went.
The reason why Ding Jiali is close to her daughter, the author believes that there may be three reasons:
One: The pain of the first marriage and the birth of a daughter has hurt Ding Jiali deeply, and she does not want to face everything in the past;
Second: Ding Jiali has the idea of preferring sons to daughters, because she already has a son Guoguo in front of her, so Ding Jiali's love for her daughter is diluted;
Three: Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei are sweet after the second marriage, Ding Jiali hopes to marry Sun Honglei, worried that Sun Honglei dislikes her two children.
But Ding Jiali let her daughter sink and fall in a life without love, but did not exchange it for the happiness of seeking perfection.
After Sun Honglei became red, he abandoned Ding Jiali. In this relationship that was not optimistic about the difference of 11 years, Ding Jiali finally retired from the scene with scars.
Although Ding Jiali is a good mother in front of her son Guoguo, a filial daughter in front of her parents, and a warm descendant in front of her grandfather, she is a very incompetent mother in front of her daughter Tintin.
In 2007, after the death of her grandfather, Ding Jiali felt the importance of family affection, so Ding Jiali went to visit her daughter Tintin, but Tintin no longer needed her mother to take her home.
Tintin is full of resentment towards Ding Jiali, and she is reluctant to talk to Ding Jiali.
When Ding Jiali left, Ding Ding cried and said, "Mom, you know what? When I was a child, I would dream that you would take me home, and at that time I would only need you to accompany me for an hour to be satisfied. But now that I'm older, maternal love is less important to me. ”
The daughter sobbed and couldn't go on, thinking back to the past, Tintin felt that Ding Jiali was really too cruel to herself.
Ding Jiali also burst into tears.
After Tintin went to high school, she began to board in the school, Ding Jiali began to care about her daughter's study, if Tintin's grades were not good, Ding Jiali would lose her temper, and her uncle would also slap her.
Ding Ding's high school sophomore high school exam results were not good, Ding Jiali hoarsely let her daughter roll, when Tintin stood on the overpass, recalling his life that no one loved over the years, and wanted to jump several times.
Fortunately, Ding Jiali's friends found Tintin and took Tintin home.
When Tintin needed financial support from his family the most, Ding Jiali did not give Ding Ding a good financial backing, did not train Tintin, and Tintin could only go to an ordinary university.
After graduating from college, Tintin became a film and television post-editing staff, with a salary of only three thousand per month, while Tintin's living expenses were only 8,000 yuan per year.
In the winter, Tintin could not pay the heating bill, the landlord stopped the heating, Tintin put all the clothes he could wear on his body, put on several pairs of socks, covered all the quilts, or woke up in the middle of the night.
During the New Year, Tintin was alone in the rental house, a piece of tofu, divided into half to make cold mix, half of which was made of cabbage tofu soup, plus two steamed buns was her Chinese New Year's Eve rice.
When Tintin passed by the window of someone else's house, he was attracted by the super loving picture in the room, and looked at the tears and wet his clothes.
In 2018, Tintin wanted to participate in Zhejiang Satellite TV's reality show "I Am an Actor", the program team asked the participants to take a set of art photos, which cost two or three thousand, Tintin directly told the program team: "Sorry, I can't afford it." ”
The host told her: "The cost of art photos is paid for by the station, and you can also get a commute fee." ”
Tintin then decided to participate.
Later, Tintin entered the final, Tintin had too many words to say to his mother, but did not know how to open his mouth, under the guidance of the host, Tintin said his tears and pain over the years.
Tintin's words made many judges on the scene cry, and Ding Jiali also cried uncontrollably, she hugged her daughter and said to her daughter in front of the camera: "Daughter, mother is sorry for you." ”
Tintin also hugged his mother, and at that moment The knot in Tintin's heart opened.
Now Tintin's relationship with his mother is back on track, and now Hulina is an actress.
Ding Jiali always tries to find resources for her daughter, hopes that her daughter has a drama, and hopes that her daughter can get a true feeling and have her own small family.
And Hulina has experienced a bitter life, will know more about cherishing everything that has not been easy to come by, and her future path will surely get better and better.