For your better reading and interactive experience, in order for you to see more content in time, click "Follow", and we will update wonderful stories for you every day.
Text丨Old Song Kanyu
Editor丨Old Song Kanyu
Loveless childhood
"Hey, look, isn't that Ding Jiali?" A passer-by exclaimed as he pointed to a middle-aged woman on the side of the street. "How could she be in such a place?" A man next to him looked disapprovingly at the ragged woman with a haggard face.
"That's her! I've always seen her on TV and movies before, she's a big star. The first person said firmly, "It's just that what kind of virtue has you become now?" Everyone's eyes focused on the middle-aged woman who was walking on the side of the road. I saw that she was skinny and colorless, and she couldn't see her heroic appearance at all.
Yes, 35 years ago, Ding Jiali was popular in thousands of homes, she was not only a film and television star, but also a living Lei Feng on the drama stage. With her excellent acting skills, she has won the Best Actress and Best Supporting Actress at the Chinese Film Golden Rooster Awards twice, becoming a high-profile "Gold Medal Supporting Actress". But it is this dried flower of the motherland that has fallen to such a field today, which is really the vicissitudes of life.
So how did Ding Jiali fall to such a point? Ding Jiali was born in 1959 and is the widow of an artistic family in Jiamusi, Heilongjiang. But no one could have imagined that she had been tricked by fate since she was born. The parents didn't want this girl at all, and they almost threw it away. This bloody fact has laid a deep-rooted nail in Ding Jiali's psychology.
In the end, it was her mother who was ruthless and secretly gave her away to a pair of adoptive parents in Shandong. Although she has been talented in acting since she was a child, Ding Jiali has never received a little love from her parents. "My mom told me that I was a stain on them, a 'black legacy'. My parents hated me, and I didn't investigate why, but it really hit me hard. Ding Jiali recalled and said sadly.
First love scars
Fortunately, there is a stage that has become an outlet for Ding Jiali to relieve her depression, and as soon as she takes the stage, she devotes herself to it, so that those pains disappear. Finally, with tenacity, she was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
When I was in college, love was in full swing, and Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan, the school grass at that time, were together. The two are affectionate and loving, and their relationship is unstoppable. Unexpectedly, Ding Jiali became pregnant when she was still a student, causing an uproar. "I felt very ashamed and guilty about him. Ding Jiali recalled the past and still had palpitations.
Although Hu Guangchuan was considerate at that time, he took the initiative to marry Ding Jiali and raise children. But after all, both parents are Chinese-style conservative families and are resolutely opposed. Under pressure from parents, they had to choose to get rid of their children. As a result, Ding Jiali embarked on a road of no return - in her future life, she had as many as 4 abortions!
"I was so confused at that time, I did such a stupid thing. Ding Jiali was remorseful. Later, she and Hu Guangchuan got married naturally, but this relationship did not last long after all.
Divorced life
The debut work "The First Woman in the Mountains and Forests" became an instant hit, and Ding Jiali's career took off. In the eyes of insiders, she can be called "Little Shenyang" - although her appearance is average, her strength is very good.
However, the turmoil and struggles in Ding Jiali's inner world are unknown. No matter how prosperous her work is, she is also a standard "fugitive" at home. She and her husband Hu Guangchuan were too busy with work and often became strangers, and finally broke up and broke up.
"At that time, I was constantly on the move because of my career, and I often neglected my family life. Gradually, we became strangers. Ding Jiali said. Ding Jiali said frankly that the main reason for her divorce from Hu Guangchuan was that she was "opportunistic" and cheating in her marriage. After the breakup, Ding Jiali was immersed in the whirlpool of work and seemed to have forgotten the reconstruction of her heart.
Until one day, a college teacher broke into her life. Although they only met through introductions from others, the two fell in love and became entangled in the end, and entered the palace of their second marriage. Since then, Ding Jiali has had her second child, a son. The good times didn't last long, and the two gradually drifted apart, and finally parted ways because of their husband's extramarital affairs. Ding Jiali was alone again and started all over again.
fell in love with Sun Honglei and was abandoned by Sun Honglei
After many emotional betrayals, Ding Jiali suddenly woke up, she re-examined her life and began to reflect on her mistakes. Over the years, she has blindly pursued career success, but neglected the most important people and things in life.
Ding Jiali began to let go of the mustard in her heart, paid more attention to her children, and worked hard to rebuild the family with love and affection. "I long from the bottom of my heart for love from the heart, and this is the greatest desire of my heart. Ding Jiali said.
At this time, he met Sun Honglei, which injected new vitality and motivation into Ding Jiali. At that time, Sun Honglei was still a small character, but Ding Jiali was attracted by his sincerity and simplicity. As a senior actor, she generously donated all her savings and network resources to help Sun Honglei with all her might.
Ding Jiali wholeheartedly helped Sun Honglei, hoping to find a new meaning in her life. Gradually, the two of them are like a pair of ordinary lovers, sweet and sweet. Ding Jiali was immersed in the happiness of being needed and cared for, as if she had regained the vitality of life. But no one expected that this was just a brief calm before the storm.
Just when Ding Jiali was obsessively looking forward to the future of the two, Sun Honglei's "red heart" had already betrayed her. It turned out that when Ding Jiali was wholeheartedly supporting him, Sun Honglei had already gotten along with a woman 20 years younger than him at the instigation of his friends who drank and meat. Afterwards, Ding Jiali was full of remorse.
This shattered Ding Jiali's last illusion of love. She was completely desperate, it turned out that in this world, there was no man who would really love herself. So, she chose to give up completely. Sun Honglei later married the little girl as he wished, while Ding Jiali was in a slump and her life fell into a haze......
Change the past and start anew
After being so heartbroken by Sun Honglei, Ding Jiali seemed to have suddenly aged 30 years old. She was burnt and thin. Seeing that her career was about to pass away, she decided to get back her due reward for her efforts.
So, in a public meeting in 2009, Ding Jiali was determined to make all the mistakes and stains of her youth public. In front of 2,400 young people, she went out of her way to tell the sins of her past debauchery.
"I have had 4 abortions, I have cheated in marriage, and I have blasphemed and despised life. I'm sorry for my children, and for the innocent lives of those ......"
Faced with all this, Ding Jiali is determined to spend the rest of her life to atone for her sins. She began to believe in Buddhism, hoping to regain the strength and meaning of life from religion. More importantly, she should take good care of her daughter and make up for her past negligence in the image of a respectable mother.
Yes, along the way, Ding Jiali has indeed made a lot of mistakes, but she finally understands what true love is. She no longer pursues the love of an ethereal man, but focuses on her daughter.
For her own mistakes, Ding Jiali has long known how to be humble and repentant. The public confession in front of the public is the beginning of her new beginning. From then on, she will embark on the road of rebirth in her new identity as a conscientious mother.
Life is indeed boring, but Ding Jiali did not give up. Instead, she fought hard in a difficult environment and used her own efforts to pave the way to success for her children.
In this way, this woman, who has fallen to the bottom several times, finally finds the meaning of life again. She uses the greatness revealed in the ordinary to show a mother's selfless love for her children. Life is a long way to go, and Ding Jiali's story will continue to be staged......