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Ding Jiali: Two marriages hurt others and hurt themselves, and they felt guilty about their children, and now they are concentrating on the Buddha and aging indifferently

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Ding Jiali: Two marriages hurt others and hurt themselves, and they felt guilty about their children, and now they are concentrating on the Buddha and aging indifferently

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In the eyes of people, Ding Jiali's performance is as rich and unique as a spirit, and she herself is as elegant and noble as a chrysanthemum, which constitutes the initial impression of her. Whether she is portraying a bold and open-minded "wild" image, or depicting a gentle and delicate woman like a trickle, she has always been able to interpret the role vividly and vividly and unforgettable.

Among many film and television masterpieces, Ding Jiali has successfully created many classic mother images, such as the kind and kind "He Chunsheng" in "Mendi", and the hard-working housekeeper "Fang Bijin" in "An Jia", etc., with her superb acting skills, she has won the love and praise of the audience.

Since 1991, she has continuously participated in many excellent works such as "No One Applauds", "Supernumerary Husband", "Xiaofang's Story", etc., and has accumulated deep contacts and good reputation in the entertainment industry.

With the movie "Chinese New Year", she won the honor of "Best Supporting Actress" at the Golden Rooster Awards, and has since emerged in the public eye. Subsequently, she has won a number of important awards, including the Hundred Flowers Award, which can be said to have reached a new peak in her career.

Ding Jiali: Two marriages hurt others and hurt themselves, and they felt guilty about their children, and now they are concentrating on the Buddha and aging indifferently

In the enthusiastic era of the 80s of the last century, 21-year-old Ding Jiali was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with excellent results, and met Hu Guangchuan, who was also an actor, here.

This tall and handsome man has almost strict standards for his own image, so he has won the reputation of "Merry Talent", and the two seem to have found the resonance of each other's hearts, and the affectionate smile is full of deep love, and only a few days later, they did not hesitate to confirm their relationship, and Hu Guangchuan became the first love of Ding Jiali's life.

However, this wonderful relationship has been turned upside down because of a shocking incident. Ding Jiali's adoptive father angrily accused: "Guangchuan is working hard outside, and you are doing such a humiliating thing at home?" Eventually, the two old men decided to tell their son-in-law about it.

In 1987, Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan ended their short marriage, and their daughter Hu Lina was raised by the man.

Ding Jiali: Two marriages hurt others and hurt themselves, and they felt guilty about their children, and now they are concentrating on the Buddha and aging indifferently

Soon after the divorce, Ding Jiali met a university lecturer, and the two fell in love, and in 1990, they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand. Thankfully, she soon conceived a child and was looking forward to a happy life in the future.

However, fate always seems to like to play tricks on her, and during her pregnancy, she actually witnessed her husband's ugly adultery with others.

The two had a fierce quarrel over this, and then chose to separate, and officially divorced in 1991. Ding Jiali had to take on the responsibility of raising her son Guoguo alone, relying on her own career to support the life of the mother and son.

Hu Linna, the daughter born in her first marriage, was separated from her mother from the day she was born, and her father, Hu Guangchuan, sent her to her uncle's house for foster care. The uncle's family was not wealthy, and she was naturally wary of her niece's arrival, and Hu Lina was careful in that family since she was a child, for fear that her words and deeds would cause others to resent.

Ding Jiali: Two marriages hurt others and hurt themselves, and they felt guilty about their children, and now they are concentrating on the Buddha and aging indifferently

It wasn't until she was 15 years old that Hu Lina saw the face of her biological mother Ding Jiali for the first time. However, the mother who once loved her deeply has long since left her, and now the woman standing in front of her, her daughter can't even shout the word "mother", which makes Ding Jiali feel extremely heartbroken.

She deeply realized that all this was caused by her own dereliction of duty, so she made up her mind to do her best to accompany her daughter's growth. However, the arduous process of raising her son Guoguo alone also gave Ding Jiali a taste of the ups and downs of life.

At first, she had to leave her son in the care of her elderly parents, and when Guoguo started school, she sent him to boarding school, but her son was strongly opposed.

When Guoguo asked suspiciously, "Mother, do you no longer need me as a part of your life?"

Ding Jiali: Two marriages hurt others and hurt themselves, and they felt guilty about their children, and now they are concentrating on the Buddha and aging indifferently

She did this out of the efficient management of her career, but despite this, her deep and selfless maternal love was misunderstood by her son as ruthless neglect and even abandonment! .

Not long ago, Guoguo was finally ordered to drop out of boarding school due to his lack of patience and determination, and his academic performance continued to decline. Faced with this predicament, Ms. Ding Jiali did not give up, she ran around looking for a suitable school for her son, and even did not hesitate to put down her dignity and bend her knees to plead, just to win a precious opportunity to enroll.

When she saw her son step into the campus again, the burden in her heart was slightly relieved.

In 1959, Ms. Ding Jiali was born in an ordinary peasant family in Jiamusi City, Heilongjiang Province. She was frail and sickly since childhood, suffering from serious skin diseases, which were costly, and brought heavy financial pressure to her family.

Ding Jiali: Two marriages hurt others and hurt themselves, and they felt guilty about their children, and now they are concentrating on the Buddha and aging indifferently

The father was prejudiced against this seriously ill daughter, and even tried to abandon her, seeking a well-wisher who was willing to adopt her.

At that time, the feudal concept of "patriarchy" was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and in the eyes of others, a sick baby girl was undoubtedly a "burden" to the family. Ms. Ding's father initially regarded her as a "poor relative" in the family, but after many efforts, he finally found a couple willing to accept her.

The couple was originally a small family with no children and no daughters, and they did everything they could to take care of this child who was abandoned by their biological parents, and under the care of their adoptive parents, Ding Jiali spent a carefree and beautiful childhood.

As she grew older, she developed a keen interest in theatre art and embarked on the path of artistic pursuit.

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