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Ding Jiali was born in an unhappy family, and her biological parents regarded her as a burden and even threw her in the trash, intending to leave her to fend for herself. Fortunately, Ding Jiali's mother still had the instinct of maternal love in her heart and rescued Ding Jiali.
Subsequently, Ding Jiali was adopted by a kind Shandong couple and started a new life.
Ding Jiali grew up slowly under the care of her adoptive parents, but perhaps due to the abandonment of her biological mother, her rebellious period was particularly obvious. She did not listen to her adoptive parents and immersed herself in the world of forbidden books and movies.
At the beginning of her love, Ding Jiali lost her virginity and soon became pregnant with her boyfriend's child. However, her boyfriend disappeared after learning that Ding Jiali was pregnant. Ding Jiali could only secretly have an abortion in a small hospital, but the hospital staff treated her coldly.
After this incident, Ding Jiali did not restrain her behavior because of this, but still lived her own life, and her lifestyle was quite open. Adoptive parents have a headache about it, but there is nothing they can do about it.
It wasn't until Ding Jiali graduated from high school and was ready to go to college that she began to have her own goals. Ding Jiali wanted to be admitted to the drama academy in Shanghai, and with the support of her adoptive parents, she applied for the school of her choice, and finally got her wish.
The experience of studying at the School of Drama allowed Ding Jiali to find direction and pursuit in life, but it also meant that she needed to leave her adoptive parents and start living independently. Leaving the discipline and restraint of her adoptive parents, Ding Jiali once again let herself go, and she still wants to explore and experience all kinds of things as much as possible.
This time, Ding Jiali became pregnant unexpectedly and chose to have an abortion again.
Ding Jiali once deeply regretted the experience of multiple abortions, and she also admitted that the atmosphere of that era made it impossible for her to go back. However, these painful experiences caused her to grow up and begin to reflect on herself.
During her time at Drama School, she devoted herself to her art studies and worked hard for her dream of stardom. This stage is a period of her pursuit of her ideals, and it also lays the foundation for her future development.
After graduating from the School of Drama, Ding Jiali was assigned to work at the National Theatre, where she met her first husband. When Ding Jiali performed on stage for the first time, she saw a personable and dignified actor, and her heart couldn't help but ripple.
The actor, Hu Guangchuan, is a few years older than Ding Jiali, and he is quite well-known in the theater. Ding Jiali has a good impression of Hu Guangchuan, and Ding's colleagues saw this and took the initiative to match the two of them.
After a period of pursuit, Hu Guangchuan was finally attracted by Ding Jiali's lively and cheerful personality, and the two successfully entered the palace of marriage. However, the sweetness of the newlywed did not last long, and the contradictions between the two gradually revealed.
Hu Guangchuan is busy with work and often goes out on tour, and Ding Jiali can only stay at home. The lonely days made Ding Jiali find someone to talk to, she met another man, and the two had a relationship.
After Ding Jiali unexpectedly became pregnant, she was in a dilemma. Since abortions for minors require parental consent, she was unable to perform the operation in a large hospital and had to choose to have an abortion in a small hospital.
On the day of the operation, Ding Jiali felt the cold eyes and discrimination of the staff, and her heart was very painful.
However, this matter was eventually discovered by her husband Hu Guangchuan, who was very angry and insisted on divorcing Ding Jiali. At this time, Ding Jiali was suddenly diagnosed as pregnant with Hu Guangchuan's flesh and blood.
For the sake of the children, Hu Guangchuan agreed not to divorce first, but the relationship between them has fallen into despair. Later, Hu Guangchuan also cheated, and he said that this was revenge on Ding Jiali.
Just a month after the child was born, Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan went through the divorce procedures, and neither of them wanted this daughter, so they had to entrust it to relatives to raise. The failure of this marriage made Ding Jiali feel regretful, but she thought about it again, she was still young, and maybe the next one would be better.
After the divorce, Ding Jiali was not crushed by the emotional setbacks of the past, and she still had hope in love. In 1990, she met a seemingly nice man, who was a university lecturer.
The two fell in love at first sight and soon became lovers, and then entered into a second marriage.
Ding Jiali thought it was a true love and was full of expectations for the future, but a year later she discovered her husband's infidelity.
This seemingly polite professor actually deceived students with rhetoric in private, and at the same time cheated on addiction. When Ding Jiali found out the truth, her heart collapsed, and she didn't expect that the same mistake would be repeated in her second marriage.
Despite her husband's betrayal, Ding Jiali still hopes to save the marriage. After all, she is already pregnant again, and after giving birth to a child, maybe everything will be better. However, her husband filed for divorce directly from her, and Ding Jiali realized that she had been wishful thinking all along.
Ding Jiali's second marriage ended in divorce, and she raised her newborn son alone. She did her best to give this child all the love, hoping to make up for the regret caused by her two failed marriages in this way.
Ding Jiali devotes herself to her work every day, leaving her son in the care of the elders in the family.
If Ding Jiali has seen her feelings, then she is too naïve, because she has already experienced two failures.
In 1999, in a stage drama cooperation, Ding Jiali met a young actor who was unknown at that time - Sun Honglei. Sun Honglei is 11 years younger than Ding Jiali and is a newcomer who has just entered the industry.
He fell in love with Ding Jiali at first sight.
At first, Ding Jiali, as a person who had already experienced two failed marriages, did not give a positive response to Sun Honglei's pursuit. She thinks the age gap between them is too big for a stable relationship.
However, Sun Honglei was very resolute, and he used various romantic methods to pursue Ding Jiali, and finally succeeded in touching her heart.
After Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei confirmed their relationship, they fully supported his acting career. Ding Jiali used the network resources she had accumulated to help Sun Honglei get more and more performance opportunities.
With the full support of Ding Jiali, Sun Honglei successfully won the highest honor in the drama industry - "Plum Blossom Award" and became a high-profile star at that time.
Seeing the success of her lover in the entertainment industry, Ding Jiali felt sincerely happy. She thought that the two could walk through their lives hand in hand. However, the good times did not last long, and when Sun Honglei gradually entered the palace of marriage, his enthusiasm for Ding Jiali gradually faded.
Later, after Sun Honglei cooperated with actress Gong Li, he immediately proposed to break up.
Ding Jiali's life fell to the bottom, she didn't expect that Sun Honglei, who she supported with all her might, ended up becoming his stepping stone, but harmed herself.
The white-eyed wolf immediately abandoned his benefactor after using her as a STEP stone to complete his transformation. Ding Jiali regretted it a lot, she shouldn't have helped this scumbag's career take off because of her soft-heartedness.
This relationship hit Ding Jiali far more than the previous two marriages, and she was never able to fall in love with other men after that. Ding Jiali decided to concentrate on work and family, but the sentence "What I regret the most is that I became popular with Sun Honglei" always rings in her ears and becomes a permanent knot in her heart.
Since breaking up with Sun Honglei, Ding Jiali has devoted all her energy to work and family. Her daughter Hu Lina, born to her first husband, has been raised by relatives.
and the son born to her second husband, Ding Jiali raised her personally since she was a child, and the relationship between the two is very close.
Compared with the eldest daughter who was left out in the cold, Ding Jiali has a deeper affection for her youngest son Song Xinqi. In order to allow him to enroll in school, Ding Jiali ran around, went through various procedures with great difficulty, and even did not hesitate to kneel down and beg for help, which shows the depth of her love and care for her son.
Hu Lina grew up in her uncle's house, and her life was completely different from that of her younger brother. She worked and did chores every day, and was often abused by her uncles and aunts, and her life was full of blows and grievances.
Hu Lina often misses her biological mother, and she doesn't understand why her mother abandoned her.
It wasn't until Hu Lina appealed on a TV show that she told her painful experience that Ding Jiali suddenly woke up and realized that she owed her eldest daughter.
In front of the camera, Ding Jiali cried bitterly, full of guilt and self-blame.
The elderly Ding Jiali regained her responsibilities as a mother, and she took Hu Lina to her side and did her best to make up for years of mistakes. Under her care and care, Hu Lina gradually let go and forgave her biological mother for years of abandonment.
Through the process of rebuilding a deep family relationship, Ding Jiali's burden was finally put down.
Although the irreparable regret has passed, Ding Jiali now uses her sincerity every day to make up for the mistakes she made when she was young. Getting the forgiveness and forgiveness of her children has become her greatest relief and motivation now.
After all the emotional ups and downs, Ding Jiali is no longer thinking about getting into a new relationship or marriage. Instead, she put all her time and energy into her career and family.
Outside of work, Ding Jiali spends a lot of time with her two children. She strives to make up for her past regrets and restore a close mother-son relationship with her children. Watching the children grow up happily under her care is her greatest satisfaction now.
Ding Jiali no longer shy away from talking about her emotional experience. She spoke openly in public about her frustrations and struggles as a young woman, hoping that these experiences would provide inspiration for young girls and help them grow better.
She told the girl to love herself, protect herself, and not easily please or give to others.
After experiencing many setbacks in life, Ding Jiali realized that loving someone first is the most important thing. Now she has learned to be tolerant and accepting, and no longer resentful of her predecessors' mistakes.
She understands that her children can only be happy if they are happy.
Therefore, she cherishes everything she has in front of her and expresses her deep gratitude for the gift of life, because life has given her a chance to start over.
Through ups and downs, Ding Jiali has grown up in strength and maturity. Today, she lives a plain and fulfilling life, and may this peace and satisfaction accompany her to the last moment of her life.
After Sun Honglei's actions were revealed, he was criticized by public opinion. Many veterans in the entertainment industry have come forward to criticize Sun Honglei as a scumbag with bad morals.
When Sun Honglei first started working as an actor, Ding Jiali gave him valuable development opportunities and allowed him to emerge. However, after Sun Honglei achieved a certain success, he forgot Ding Jiali, who was kind to him, and changed to a new love.
This behavior completely reveals the true nature of his selfishness and hypocrisy.
Jin Xing directly pointed out Sun Honglei's behavior in a talk show, which aroused the public outrage of a large number of netizens. Many netizens have said that Sun Honglei's behavior of stepping on the top of his benefactor is really inhumane.
After success, not only do they not reciprocate, but they have ill intentions, which is really outrageous.
Sun Honglei's actions have seriously corrupted morality.
Under the pressure of public opinion, Sun Honglei temporarily kept a low profile for a while. But he never atoned for his sins or apologized to the public or to Ding Jiali herself, which highlights his cold and selfish nature.
This incident, as a negative teaching material in the entertainment industry, seriously damaged Sun Honglei's image in the hearts of the public.