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Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

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Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

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Since Hu Lina was five years old, she has endured endless pain and suffering. Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan, a couple, chose to divorce when she was just full moon and abandoned her at a relative's house.

Living in that creepy house, Hu Lina shuddered as if she were walking on thin ice, always on the lookout for her every move that would trigger her uncle's violent behavior.

One day, Hu Lina and her two sisters rose up and held a pillow fight on the second floor. The children frolicked and laughed one after another, forgetting the hardships of life for a while. Unfortunately, however, this joyous game was broken by the uncle. Without asking the reason or giving them a chance to defend themselves, the uncle waved his arms mercilessly and gave Hu Lina a resounding slap in the face.

The pain made her burst into tears, clutching her red and swollen cheeks helplessly. The uncle was furious, grabbed Hu Lina by the collar, and dragged her directly into the dark and narrow little dark room. There are only the urns of grandparents in the small dark room, the light is dim, the atmosphere is oppressive, and people feel extreme fear and despair.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

Hu Lina pleaded hoarsely, "Uncle, I really know what I was wrong! I swear never to make the same mistake again, please forgive me and let me get out of here, okay?" However, the uncle outside the door turned a deaf ear to this, and still focused on his own business.

In the dark, cold little dark room, Hu Lina fell into deep thought. She began to question why her parents had brought her into the world and then abandoned her so cruelly, and she began to wonder if she had been too rebellious, or had spent too much, or even looked ugly, to cause her to leave.

Deep down, she began to pray that her mother would suddenly appear and take her out of this nightmarish life. However, in her upbringing, Ms. Ding Jiali only saw her twice on her birthday.

On one of her birthdays, Hu Lina finally met her mother Ding Jiali again. She was so excited that her thin body ran over and hugged her mother's body tightly.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

The surprise and reversal happened in an instant, just when her daughter Hu Lina was about to kiss her mother, she suddenly stopped. It turned out that there was a strange and timid boy standing next to his mother. At this moment, Hu Lina suddenly realized that her parents had long since divorced, and they had established a new family, and they could no longer accept her as a posthumous child.

Although her heart was full of endless loss and helplessness, Hu Lina still held on to the last glimmer of hope and asked in a low voice: "Mom, can you take me out of this place?" However, her mother Ding Jiali only responded gently: "Of course you can." ”

Hearing this vague answer, tears finally welled up in Hu Linna's eyes. Although having dinner at her uncle's house this time was undoubtedly the most pleasant time for Hu Lina, she failed to get her wish after all, and was taken away by her mother to start a new life.

Ding Jiali has suffered the fate of abandonment since she was a child, but she has a great love for the performing arts. Although the parents who raised her are both drama actors, and they expect her to choose a stable career like medicine, Ding Jiali's deep love in her heart cannot be erased.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

In the ardent anticipation of her adoptive parents, Ding Jiali, who was only 21 years old, resolutely decided to embark on a journey to the acting department of Shanghai Film Academy. She has an innate passion and dedication to acting.

The pain of parting lingered on her face, but a new stage of life was already waiting for her.

During her days at the Shanghai Film Academy, Ding Jiali was hungry for acting knowledge and skills. Despite the twists and turns of the road, her love for her dreams made her never give up on pursuing them.

Ding Jiali successfully graduated from the college with excellent grades, which allowed the adoptive parents' worries to be eased a little.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

After graduation, Ding Jiali joined the Chinese Theatre as she wished, and officially began her long and legendary acting career. Along the way, she has been resilient and courageous, and finally shines a unique and dazzling light on this stage.

As her career gradually stabilized, Ding Jiali's adoptive parents also began to prepare for her marriage. After introduction, they let Ding Jiali meet Hu Guangchuan, who is also devoted to the actor industry.

In that day full of romantic love, Hu Guangchuan cared for Ding Jiali meticulously, and his affectionate words and actions deeply touched her, making Ding Jiali's decision to spend the rest of her life with him more and more firm.

In 1986, in the warm congratulations of relatives and friends, they held a grand and solemn wedding, and since then they have officially entered the sacred hall of marriage.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

Ding Jiali, who lost her parents since she was a child, once thought that she could not have true happiness. However, in the difficult process of chasing her dreams, she finally found her true destiny and started a new chapter in her life.

However, this beautiful marriage was too short-lived, and the little life after marriage quickly became an eternal pain in her heart.

After marriage, Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan traveled around for their respective careers, often separated from each other. After a long period of separation, Ding Jiali inevitably had some other thoughts and thoughts in her heart.

This news is like a warm spring breeze, once again awakening the almost forgotten emotions between the two. Ding Jiali originally looked forward to her husband being by her side during this special period and giving her spiritual and physical care.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

However, it is a pity that during the entire pregnancy, Hu Guangchuan was never able to appear in Ding Jiali's field of vision, and she could only rely on her mother-in-law to take care of her.

What's even more desperate is that on the day Hu Lina was born, at the critical moment of Ding Jiali's delivery, Hu Guangchuan did not show up, but always accompanied another woman.

It turned out that as early as during pregnancy, Hu Guangchuan noticed Ding Jiali's infidelity and carefully planned to take revenge on his wife when his daughter was born.

Hu Lina's birth process was extremely difficult. In view of some irresistible factors, the doctors recommended that Ding Jiali give birth by caesarean section. However, at the critical stage of anesthesia, the anesthesiologist in charge of injecting anesthetic forgot to inject the anesthetic for Ding Jiali due to a momentary negligence.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

The doctor brandished the scalpel in his hand, and the moment the blade slashed through the abdomen, the severe pain caused Ding Jiali to let out a thrilling scream, and the piercing sound echoed throughout the hospital.

In this extremely severe pain, the doctors finally successfully removed the baby after a lot of hard work! But Ding Jiali, this strong mother, she felt as if the internal organs had been hollowed out, the pain was almost unbearable, and she even fell into a coma on the spot.

For the next three days, Ding Jiali was in a semi-comatose state, and the only relative who guarded her was her mother-in-law.

After three days of tenacious survival, Ding Jiali finally regained consciousness, and when she saw her mother-in-law's face full of tears, she thought that something was wrong with the child, and immediately fell into fainting again. It wasn't until she woke up again that her mother-in-law told her that the child was safe and sound, just because she felt so sorry for the ordeal she had endured.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

Hearing this good news, Ding Jiali's heart was full of joy, and she named her daughter Hu Linna.

However, when she asked about her husband Hu Guangchuan's whereabouts, she got a chilling fact - it turned out that on the day she had a caesarean section, Hu Guangchuan did not wait by her side, but was out to have fun with an unidentified woman.

Apparently, he had already sensed his wife's betrayal and had orchestrated it all.

Although her heart was as painful as being deeply pierced by countless spikes, Ding Jiali chose to endure for the sake of her newborn daughter. However, when she returned home from the hospital, she found that her husband was extremely indifferent to her and the newborn's care, and this indifferent attitude made Ding Jiali completely disheartened, and she understood that her marriage to Hu Guangchuan could not be saved.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

On the day of Hu Lina's full moon, Ding Jiali plucked up the courage, called her husband in front of her, and resolutely filed a request for divorce. Faced with his wife's firm determination, Hu Guangchuan was expressionless and nodded silently in agreement.

After completing the divorce procedures, Ding Jiali quickly returned home and began to organize her luggage and personal belongings, knowing that this once warm home no longer belonged to her.

In the days after the divorce, Ding Jiali handed over her daughter Hu Linna to her ex-husband Hu Guangchuan to raise, and promised to come back to visit when she had time. Since then, however, she has never been able to fulfill this promise and has never returned to see her daughter.

Hu Guangchuan took on the responsibility of raising his daughter Hu Lina alone, and in order to support the family, he resolutely threw himself into the fierce competition in the shopping mall, hoping to maintain the survival needs of the whole family by doing business. However, fate seems to be too harsh on him, and despite his best efforts, he always encounters setbacks in the challenging battlefield of the mall, and in the end, he loses all his wealth and ends up in debt.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

Faced with such a predicament, Hu Guangchuan had no choice but to leave silently and abandon the five-year-old Hu Linna again.

In this way, when Hu Lina was five years old, her parents died one after another, and she had to live under the fence of others, relying on her elderly grandparents to survive. As the years passed, my grandfather's and grandmother's health deteriorated and she often needed to be hospitalized, leaving no one to take care of Hu Lina.

She can only stay at the teacher's house for a short time, today she is at the math teacher's house, and tomorrow she will move to the Chinese teacher's house to board, living a life of displacement.

It wasn't until Hu Lina entered the second grade of junior high school that her mother, Ding Jiali, suddenly realized how wrong and cruel her decision to abandon her daughter was. She began to deeply reflect on her behavior, and finally made up her mind to take her daughter Hu Lina home, hoping to repair the relationship between mother and daughter.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

However, after years of separation and trauma, Hu Lina has long lost her sense of affection for Ding Jiali. In her new home environment, she appears unusually reserved and cold, treating her mother as a stranger.

Ding Jiali tried her best to express her love to her daughter, telling her that "this is your home, you are no longer the foster child, you can enjoy life to the fullest, I love you from the bottom of my heart".

When she heard these words, Hu Lina did have a warm current in her heart, and she also longed to establish a close relationship with her mother. However, the trauma of her childhood has left a deep imprint on her heart, leaving an unbridgeable gap between mother and daughter.

In order to break this deadlock, Ding Jiali decided to treat Hu Lina with the same attitude as a guest. However, no matter how hard she tries, the life of the two under the same roof still seems very restrained and strange.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

Since entering high school, Hu Lina has become more determined to choose boarding life, only going home for a short day every weekend. But what worries Ding Jiali is that Hu Linna, who has always performed well in her studies, unexpectedly achieved dismal results at the bottom of her grade in the most critical college entrance examination in her life. She couldn't accept this reality, so she decided to invite her uncle to guide her daughter's studies.

However, when the uncle raised his palm and was about to hit Hu Lina, Ding Jiali was so frightened that she stood there dumbfounded, watching her daughter suffer the ravages of domestic violence again. Seeing her mother so cold and ruthless, Hu Lina's disappointment in her can be imagined.

Since then, Hu Lina's attitude towards learning has changed dramatically. She could no longer cope with it as easily as she used to, and the huge mental pressure was like a dark cloud, which made her academic performance never improve, and even bred a deep fear of going home.

Whenever night fell, Hu Lina dragged her tired body back home, and Ding Jiali would always ask her sternly why she came home so late from school. In the face of her mother's reproach, Hu Lina can only make up lies again and again, she will tell her mother that she has just finished class, etc.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

Hearing these harsh words, Hu Lina fled the house like a frightened bird, standing alone on the overpass in the street, staring at the busy streets and the bustling crowds. Deep down, she surged with an endless despair, as if she had become the most superfluous existence in the world, and even had the idea of suicide for a while.

At this life-and-death moment, Ding Jiali and several friends searched for her daughter's whereabouts and finally found her on the flyover. Friends came forward to comfort them, hoping that Hu Lina could live in their home temporarily. The next morning, a friend called Ding Jiali and informed her that her daughter was safe and sound and was recuperating at a friend's home.

After experiencing this thrilling turmoil, Hu Lina returned to Ding Jiali's side again and officially embarked on her acting career. As a veteran artist who has been in the entertainment industry for many years, Ding Jiali is naturally eager to pass on her skills to her daughter.

However, the truth is surprising, Hu Lina has never received any professional acting training, which makes her appear a little jerky and clumsy in terms of stage movements and line use. In order to enable her daughter to quickly master valuable acting skills, Ding Jiali stepped forward and did not hesitate to pass on all the rich experience she had accumulated over the years to her daughter.

Ding Jiali: After divorcing her husband, her daughter hated her for decades, and finally got her daughter's forgiveness in her later years

Whenever Hu Lina is a little deficient in the use of lines or emotional expression, Ding Jiali always corrects her over and over again with great patience, and also demonstrates how to show herself better on the spot. She guided Hu Lina to pay attention to the clever use of body language, how to perfectly integrate the deep emotions into every movement of the body.

Sometimes, Ding Jiali will even play the opposite role in person, and have a live duel with her daughter, so that she can deeply experience the wonderful chemistry between the actors in the actual combat, so as to grasp the key secret of tacit cooperation. Although the training process was full of hardships, it was undoubtedly a great honor and pride for Hu Lina to be guided by her mother.

Under Ding Jiali's careful teaching, Hu Lina quickly understood the true meaning of performing arts. She began to consciously observe and imitate Ding Jiali's unique and charming performance style and profound stepping skills, and gradually shaped her own unique performance style. Under the guidance of her mother, Hu Lina firmly walked towards the peak of her acting career.

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