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As a face that can often be seen in film and television dramas, Ding Jiali's name may not be familiar to the audience, but you know that you know this star by looking at her face.
This old drama bone who won the movie queen early on, but he is very chaotic in his personal life, not only unmarried and pregnant, but also derailed after 4 abortions, and then abandoned his love with Sun Honglei's sister and brother.
So, why did an old artist who should be both virtuous and artistic make these unbelievable behaviors?
[▶> self-revealing scar <◀]
In our impression, many old actors who are still active in film and television dramas should be old artists with acting skills.
But Ding Jiali, the actress, has performed well in film and television works, but her personal life is very chaotic, especially in the era in which she lives, her mind is not as open as it is now.
People who don't get married and don't have children are a minority, not to mention Ding Jiali, who is pregnant unmarried and has continuous abortions, even if she is a movie queen, she can't escape the fate of being condemned by public opinion.
In 2010, Ding Jiali gave a speech at the Hebei Provincial Civic Ethics Education Forum, and it was in this speech that Ding Jiali herself revealed the secret that shocked everyone.
At this forum, Ding Jiali used her personal experience to tell the more than 2,000 young people in the audience that they must be clean and self-conscious, and not overindulge.
Ding Jiali said that when she was young, she met her boyfriend after graduating from college, and at that time she secretly ate the forbidden fruit and finally became pregnant.
She said that her boyfriend also asked her if she had thought it through, but Ding Jiali herself was addicted to it, which eventually led to pregnancy, and her boyfriend ignored her, saying: If a person doesn't love himself, others look down on you.
In the end, it was her alone in a small village in Beijing to do the curettage operation, at that time Ding Jiali was also afraid to intercede with the doctor, but no one would comfort her at that time, and the doctor also scolded her for being "shameless".
Ding Jiali also cried several times when she said it, although in the current view, such behavior is not a lack of self-love, but in the context of the time, it is indeed a big thing.
After the first abortion, Ding Jiali did not stop, but intensified, she herself said that she was particularly keen on watching low-level and obscene things every day.
Whether it was stealing the forbidden fruit, getting pregnant unmarried or immersing herself in pornographic films, Ding Jiali regretted it very much when she said it, but what she said afterwards was even more shocking.
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Ding Jiali got married to Hu Guangchuan for the first time, but she did not stop indulging her selfish desires in life just because she was married.
So she took advantage of Hu Guangchuan's business trip to cheat, and the object of the cheating was even a married man, and she was pregnant again.
When she found the man, the man said: You can do this with me, and you will do this with others, you can solve this matter yourself.
After Ding Jiali's parents found out about this, her father was so angry that she slapped her mouth, and finally Ding Jiali had no choice but to have an abortion and divorced Hu Guangchuan.
Her second marriage was also not smooth, this time Ding Jiali retracted, but instead her husband cheated, so after the divorce again, she could only live on her own with her two children.
After that, Ding Jiali's most well-known love should be the actor who is very familiar with us now, Sun Honglei, who was still a "little fresh meat" at that time.
A drama "Marie Curie" made the two meet, and Ding Jiali quickly fell in love with this rookie actor who was not very handsome, but had outstanding strength.
But the age difference between the two is relatively large, with an age difference of 11 years, and Ding Jiali was already a figure with a head and face in the circle at that time, and Sun Honglei was still a newcomer who had just debuted.
Later, in order to help Sun Honglei gain a firm foothold in the circle, Ding Jiali also used her connections many times to help Sun Honglei get more opportunities to appear on camera.
But after Sun Honglei became popular with a "Like Fog, Like Rain and Like Wind", he had his own fame, and he soon abandoned Ding Jiali.
Jin Xing once complained on his talk show that there was a little fresh meat actor who had just debuted, and after he met an eldest sister in the circle, he turned his face and didn't recognize anyone after he became popular.
Although Ding Jiali has a successful career in the film and television industry, when we really see her personal life, we can find that not only emotionally, but also in the early part of her entire life, she was very miserable.
[▶> "The Worst Queen" <◀]
Ding Jiali was born in a family that was not particularly good, and after she was born, her skin was ulcerated in many places because of illness, so her biological parents ruthlessly abandoned her.
If it weren't for a kind-hearted couple who adopted Ding Jiali, maybe this future actress would really have no future life.
The family that adopted Ding Jiali is actually relatively good, and it is not treated differently because Ding Jiali is an adopted child, especially the family is not only a grandparent is an opera actor, but the adoptive mother is also a drama actor.
But because of the adoption, Ding Jiali still has a little inferiority complex since she was a child, which may be one of the reasons why she showed a great lack of love everywhere in her life later.
Although she grew up in a loving family, Ding Jiali still felt very insecure at every turn, until 1980, when her life took a turn for the better.
At that time, Ding Jiali went to the Shanghai Theater Academy for an interview, but Ding Jiali's appearance was not particularly outstanding, especially the girls who auditioned with her at that time were particularly good-looking.
So even though Ding Jiali's performance was very good, the examiner still decided not to Ding Jiali and try a beautiful girl, but he didn't expect that girl's acting skills were not good at all.
So after several examiners discussed, they still decided to ask Ding Jiali, but they didn't expect the person to disappear directly, and in the end, a few examiners and soldiers divided into two ways, all the way to continue the interview, and all the way to the train station to block people.
In the end, the examiner also successfully intercepted the person back, and Ding Jiali also explained afterwards that because she had interviewed many schools before, she had been brushed off because of her appearance.
So this time, when I saw that the girls interviewed together were so beautiful, I thought that there must be no drama, so it was better to take the train home early, but fortunately, I was retained, otherwise the mainland film and television industry would really have one less powerful actor.
Ding Jiali's tragic experience in her early years may give us a glimpse of some of the reasons for the chaos in her private life later, and the chaotic personal life has also become a pain for her life.
Although the mind is now open-minded, everyone should also be self-loving when treating their own bodies, and only by caring for their own bodies can they have the capital for future development.
Resources
Oriental Education Times: Ding Jiali: Thank you for meeting a group of good teachers - Shanghai Theater Academy
Ding Jiali reflects on the depraved past and exhorts young people to love themselves
Ding Jiali revealed her privacy: she had four abortions in her marital life