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In the winter of 2009, a high-profile education public welfare forum was held in full swing. On the same day, the scene was full, and the audience was full. As a special guest of this forum, the famous actor Ding Jiali wore a dark blue dress and walked to the podium calmly.
She glanced around the scene, her eyes scanning every longing face. Ding Jiali took a deep breath and generously told the audience about her ups and downs in life.
"When I was younger, I was too selfish and short-sighted. I was very ignorant and reckless about many things in life. Ding Jiali said sincerely, although her voice was a little trembling, but the words were sonorous and powerful.
Then, she turned to the audience, her eyes gloomy but honest: "My biggest regret is that I didn't take care of my daughter back then. Luckily, she eventually forgave me, and we were able to reconnect with each other.
Speaking of this, Ding Jiali lowered her head and covered her face with her hands to hide her tearful expression. The entire venue fell into a solemn silence, except for her sobs.
The young people sitting in the audience were all moved. Some people even wiped the corners of their eyes, for fear of missing this sincere moment of this mentor. Everyone was impressed by her courage and frankness, and her unavoidable attitude towards the stains of the past was amazing.
Ding Jiali's life has been destined to be extraordinary since the beginning of her birth. In 1959, she was born in a poor family in Jiamusi City, Heilongjiang Province. Due to the poverty of her family and the influence of traditional concepts, Ding Jiali's biological father resolutely decided to abandon her.
At the beginning, it was difficult to find someone to adopt Ding Jiali. This newborn baby, covered in sores and blisters, has a dull yellow complexion, and is extremely weak, and countless families are discouraged when they see this.
Just when Ding Jiali's father was desperate, a family from an acting family finally reached out.
This family not only took in Ding Jiali, but also raised her with warmth. Under the careful care of her adoptive parents, Ding Jiali soon recovered her health and began to live a carefree life.
However, her closest relatives were not the adoptive parents who gave her a second birth, but the kind grandparents. At a young age, Ding Jiali likes to call these two elders "grandparents", perhaps because her tongue is not so clever.
Her grandparents took care of her as if she were their own granddaughter, and they would do their best to meet whatever Ding Jiali asked them to.
Growing up in such a warm environment, Ding Jiali has been very happy since she was a child. It's a pity that the good times didn't last long. By the time she realized her grandmother's death, she had passed away forever.
Ding Jiali was in great pain, and she regretted why she had not been able to fulfill her grandmother's last wish.
Seeing this, my grandfather's face was full of sadness, and he whispered to Ding Jiali, "Has your grandmother gone away? She told me last night that she was about to leave." Grandfather's words were like a torrential rain, instantly crushing Ding Jiali's thin heart.
Her eyes were red from crying, and she wept bitterly, and big tears fell in a stream.
For Ding Jiali, pursuing her dream of being an actress has always been her unswerving obsession. Despite her mother's strong opposition, believing that the profession of a doctor is much more stable than that of an actor, Ding Jiali still insisted on embarking on this challenging road of no return.
In 1980, Ding Jiali got her wish and was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy. Here, she not only opened a new chapter in her life, but also met her first husband Hu Guangchuan.
The two hit it off at first sight, hated each other late, and immediately fell in love. After a passionate love, they soon set foot in the palace of marriage.
Who would have thought that this loving couple, who were the envy of countless people back then, would part ways when Ding Jiali's career was at its peak. The fuse of the divorce was Ding Jiali's own unforgiven derailment.
For a time, Ding Jiali was abused and spurned by relatives and friends. Even her kind adoptive mother angrily rebuked: "You are so shameless! You will be punished by Heaven!" Those elders who once loved her deeply are also heartbroken at this moment, blaming themselves for their good education back then.
Despite this, in order to live a happy and healthy life, Ding Jiali ruthlessly abandoned her daughter Ding Ding and handed her over to relatives to raise. Allowed to be sometimes imprisoned by relatives and sometimes abused by Ding Ding, Ding Jiali turned a blind eye and turned a deaf ear to her daughter's longing for maternal love in the midst of suffering.
Soon after the divorce, Ding Jiali entered into marriage with a university lecturer. This time, she not only ushered in love, but also gave birth to her second child, Guoguo.
However, the personalities of the two are completely different, conflicts continue to occur, and they eventually end in divorce.
Despite the repeated failures in her love life, Ding Jiali is famous in her career. In 1984, she not only starred in a number of popular film and television works, but also won the Best Supporting Actress crown of the Golden Rooster Award, the highest honor in the Chinese film industry, pushing her acting career to a new peak.
At the same time, Ding Jiali's love life is also wonderful. She and the popular student Sun Honglei once fell in love, and the two of them were in love. In order to help her boyfriend's career reach a higher level, Ding Jiali spared no effort to shoot for him.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, because there were always scandals around Sun Honglei, Ding Jiali finally made up her mind and broke up decisively with him to end this relationship.
While her career is booming, Ding Jiali is also burdened with the responsibility of maintaining her family. She had to wear many hats, and she was busy filming to make money and take care of her family.
In this process, Ding Jiali's preference for her son Guoguo is impossible to ignore.
As long as Guoguo speaks, Ding Jiali will do her best to meet any of his requests. In stark contrast, she has a cold disregard for her daughter Tintin. As a daughter, Tintin lacked the nourishment of maternal love since she was a child, and was often abused and imprisoned in the homes of relatives, but Ding Jiali turned a blind eye to this.
Life was too poor at that time, and the heavy responsibility of the whole family was on Ding Jiali's shoulders alone. Her adoptive parents' health deteriorated, and she had to take a break from her career and devote herself wholeheartedly to her caregiving.
Despite this, Ding Jiali still has meticulous filial piety to her elderly adoptive mother. Once, when she saw her adoptive mother who was paralyzed in bed eager to go to the toilet, Ding Jiali didn't say a word and personally filled the feces for her.
This filial piety has won the praise of the world, and she was named the "Top Ten Filial Piety Stars" that year.
After the death of her adoptive mother, Ding Jiali shifted all her energy to taking care of her adoptive father. Not only did she buy expensive medicines to treat her adoptive father, but she also made special therapeutic dishes that suited him to help him recover.
Sometimes, in order to help her elderly adoptive father digest and absorb, Ding Jiali will even massage him herself.
Just as Ding Jiali was trying her best to take care of her family, an unexpected discovery made her realize the preciousness of family affection. While sorting through her grandfather's belongings, she stumbles upon some items that her grandmother used during her lifetime.
Looking at those familiar things, Ding Jiali suddenly understood the truth that blood is thicker than water.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Ding Jiali's daughter Ding Ding has also grown up. Watching her daughter grow stronger, Ding Jiali began to reflect on the neglect and neglect of her when she was young.
So, she decided to take the initiative to approach Tintin and visit her regularly, trying to rebuild the crumbling mother-daughter friendship.
At the beginning, Ding Ding still had an unrelieved mustard for Ding Jiali. As a child abandoned by her mother and neglected, she has already planted a vigorous mustard seed in her heart, which will take root at any time.
But Ding Jiali did not give up, she watered Ding Ding's heart bit by bit with full patience and sincere love.
Finally, under Ding Jiali's unwavering care, Ding Ding gradually let go of his prejudices against his mother, and the mother and daughter also re-established a close relationship.
In 2018, an important moment came. Ding Ding participated in the popular talent show "I Am Not a Star", which is undoubtedly a major test for Ding Jiali.
Although she never wanted to see her daughter step into the art world and repeat her mistakes, she finally accepted Tintin's decision and fully supported her to pursue her dreams.
At the show, when Ding Ding bloomed and showed his singing and dancing talents, Ding Jiali's eyes were full of tears. She said apologetically: "I was too selfish and too ignorant of life.
I felt so sorry for my daughter, but thankfully she was willing to forgive us and we were able to renew our mother-daughter relationship.
This decision marks the complete re-establishment of the family bond between Ding Jiali and Ding Ding. Years of estrangement and mustard have finally dissolved, replaced by a strong maternal love.
Ding Jiali sincerely hopes to give her daughter more love and support to make up for her mistakes when she was young. When her daughter shines on the stage, she is also extremely proud and proud of it.
Ding Jiali, who is now over the age of six, has faded away from the recklessness and selfishness of her youth. She has rich experience, maturity and stability, and is a rare model in the entertainment industry.
Once upon a time, Ding Jiali also cheated on her marriage and ignored her daughter. But now, she not only has the courage to reveal her past stains in front of the public, but also uses this self-examination to warn future generations to stay away from the wrong path, which has won everyone's respect.
At the public welfare forum, Ding Jiali frankly admitted that when she was young, she was "too selfish and short-sighted, and she was ignorant and reckless about many things in life". She sincerely apologized for her anomie: "I feel very sorry for my daughter, but fortunately she was willing to forgive us in the end and regained the mother-daughter relationship."
word by word, it gives insight into Ding Jiali's emphasis on family affection. In her heart, regaining a relationship with her daughter is the greatest blessing in her life. After experiencing all kinds of life, she finally understood the value of family affection and understood that family is the foundation of happiness.
In general, Ding Jiali has experienced ups and downs and hardships, and finally achieved today's noble quality of rich experience and free and easy. She used her actions to explain to us the eternity of family affection and the preciousness of love, and warned us to be cautious about every choice in life.
Her life journey is legendary, and she is a role model for contemporary women to strive for self-improvement and love of life.