The old drama bone Ding Jiali was at the peak of her debut, and she once admitted that her biggest regret was not that she was pregnant unmarried, nor that she lost her four children, but that she did not become popular for Sun Honglei.
For love, she once knelt down and begged her boyfriend for help in exchange for resources, but was finally abandoned by the other party after success.
In 2010, just when everyone was curious about their story, Ding Jiali revealed everything in public......
Ding Jiali personally exposed the "black material"
In 2010, Ding Jiali revealed some shocking "big things" to many people and the media at the forum on moral education in Hebei Province.
Ding Jiali revealed in public that she suffered from bad influences in her youth, was addicted to watching adult movies and erotic films, often seduced men, and even had multiple pregnancies and abortions when she was unmarried, and had an affair in her marriage.
As soon as Ding Jiali finished speaking, there was a commotion at the scene. The flash of the media kept focusing on Ding Jiali's face for a moment.
Did Ding Jiali lose her mind? I have never seen a celebrity expose black material in public, is she attracting the attention of the audience?
Netizens also have different opinions, believing that Ding Jiali's popularity is not enough to attract attention by exposing black materials. Judging by her face and expression, it seemed that she was genuinely repentant.
Perhaps she wants to warn people to think of herself as a "benchmark", and she doesn't want others to go down the wrong path.
According to insiders, Ding Jiali has never enjoyed true love, she is a woman who has suffered misfortune, and this situation is closely related to her birth background.
Ding Jiali was born in a patriarchal family. When she was born, her father was displeased and even said that he would throw her away. Eventually, he did.
He couldn't bear to throw Ding Jiali directly on a remote mountain, but gave her to a pair of parents who acted in the drama for adoption, which still made Ding Jiali's mother unbearable.
Ding Jiali finally has a "home", and her adoptive parents regard her as their own daughter, which gives Ding Jiali, who has grown up, a warm feeling.
Ding Jiali is pampered and arrogant, and she rebelled at a young age, but while other girls were busy watching anime girl manga, she began to be exposed to "unwatched" content early.
Ding Jiali began to buy "CDs" frantically to meet her "needs", and she found that the more she watched, the more addicted she became, and she was no longer satisfied with simple films. Who would have thought of this?
Perhaps it was for this reason that when the other girls were so shy that they blushed and couldn't speak, Ding Jiali already had a more open mind in her heart than theirs.
The first taste of the forbidden fruit, an unexpected pregnancy
As she grew older, Ding Jiali stepped into the college campus, and her heart longed for the nourishment of love. Finally an adult, she quickly established a relationship with a male classmate after a relationship.
Ding Jiali does not have the strict discipline of her parents, so she is simply "letting herself go". While watching the "film", she finally couldn't help it, and took the initiative to have a relationship with her boyfriend one day.
Ding Jiali found that she was vomiting non-stop, this is really a trick of fate, it turns out that she is pregnant.
She simply couldn't bear the shocking news, and when she asked her boyfriend for help, he just said coldly, "It's not about me," and turned away.
Ding Jiali burst into tears, this man's behavior simply made her desperate. In desperation, Ding Jiali had to go to the abortion alone.
In the current era, if a girl doesn't know how to cherish herself, she is simply putting a layer of humiliation on herself, and she may suffer this shame for the rest of her life in the future.
After arriving at the hospital, Ding Jiali learned the importance of the operation, which must be signed by the family before it can be performed. At this time, Ding Jiali was in a desperate situation, and a place suddenly appeared in her mind......
She stepped into a small clinic in the middle of nowhere and asked if she could perform an abortion, only to receive disdainful glances and impatient "Come in!" from the nurses.
Ding Jiali lay on the hospital bed, very nervous, her hands tightly clenched the corners of the sheets. Without anesthetics, she experienced an hour that was more painful than the pain in her heart.
Ding Jiali was weak and limped when walking, but she was treated coldly by the nurse: "I played so much at a young age, and I deserved to be injured!"
It's hard to hide the loneliness, and cheating in marriage
After graduating from college, Ding Jiali was sent to work in the theater, where she met Hu Guangchuan, the man who fell in love at first sight.
Hu Guangchuan is handsome and chic, which makes Ding Jiali's heart flutter at a glance. When Ding Jiali approached actively or unintentionally, Hu Guangchuan also fell in love with her involuntarily, and soon the two became husband and wife.
Ding Jiali originally thought that she had found a lifelong home, but her "fetish" eventually ruined this beautiful marriage.
At that time, Hu Guangchuan's career was on the rise, he was so busy every day that he was out of breath, and he was even often sent on business trips by the leaders, and he was very busy. This is simply a kind of "torture" for Ding Jiali, who is "lacking love".
What Hu Guangchuan didn't expect was that Ding Jiali would betray him when he was fighting for this family.
Ding Jiali couldn't stand the loneliness, so she had an illicit relationship with a married man, and they had fun together every day, and lived very happily.
Originally, I was going to quietly manage this "love", but the pregnancy once again made everything confusing.
When Ding Jiali found the man, she was thrown into the embarrassing situation of "second flowering": "What are you looking for me!
Ding Jiali decided to go to the hospital alone again to undergo an abortion to avoid being discovered by Hu Guangchuan. However, there is no such thing in the world as a secret that is always kept.
Ding Jiali originally thought that she was hiding it well, but when Hu Guangchuan angrily asked her if the incident was real, she admitted it calmly. It is conceivable that who can accept the fact that the other party is cheating in marriage?
Just when people thought that Ding Jiali would change because of this, she unexpectedly walked into the "grave" of marriage again, breaking the previous normal.
scored two braces and got married again
Ding Jiali's husband is a lecturer this time, and the two of them met by chance, and soon after falling in love, they became husband and wife.
However, Ding Jiali did not tell the lecturer before getting married that she was already a divorced woman.
Just when everything seemed to be going well, Ding Jiali's mistakes in the past finally came back to her.
Ding Jiali gave birth to a son in the second year of their marriage. Just when life seemed to be going well, this lecturer who seemed to be "honest" had cheating.
Ding Jiali, a resolute lady, finally couldn't bear this grievance, and they ended in divorce.
Looking back on Ding Jiali's emotional experience, I can't help but sigh: It turns out that fate is always so magical, and it has been silently watching us.
However, even if Ding Jiali was heartbroken, she didn't expect that there would be a love that made her "unforgettable".
The "love disaster" that can't be escaped
Ding Jiali was once tormented by failed feelings, so she no longer dared to give her feelings easily, but chose the way of "closing her heart and imprisoning love".
As long as she doesn't want to, she won't be emotionally involved.
Ding Jiali turned emotional setbacks into career struggles, and she devoted herself to filming, day and night.
In 1991, Ding Jiali partnered with Ge You to star in the movie "Chinese New Year", during this period, she won the recognition of the audience for her outstanding acting skills, and won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress, thus becoming famous.
Ding Jiali struck while the iron was hot and created many excellent works one after another, which deeply attracted the attention of the audience. However, the smooth sailing in his career has been exchanged for "love disasters" again and again.
In 1999, Ding Jiali met Sun Honglei, who was 11 years younger than her, during the filming of "Marie Curie", and Sun Honglei fell in love with her at first sight and was deeply fascinated by her.
Sun Honglei frequently showed goodwill, but Ding Jiali didn't care, but pretended not to see him and rejected his kindness, but he didn't expect Sun Honglei to be more determined.
Ding Jiali once fell ill and collapsed in bed, and Sun Honglei was the first to rush to see her and accompanied her until she was discharged from the hospital. This kind of intimate behavior makes her heart soft, what girl doesn't like such a considerate man?
A spark of love burst out between the two, and they fell into an emotional whirlpool from which they could not extricate themselves. But at that time, Sun Honglei was just an unknown "little dragon set", and Ding Jiali had already become a "big man" in the circle.
Faced with the plight of her little boyfriend, Ding Jiali did not hesitate to lend a hand, offer her own resources, and let him choose at will.
Even in order to help Sun Honglei fight for an opportunity, Ding Jiali knelt down on the spot and begged the director, and finally got this precious opportunity.
Fortunately, Sun Honglei is also very enterprising and quickly emerged in the entertainment industry, but then there was a scandal between him and Gong Li.
In 2002, during the collaboration with Gong Li in the movie "Zhou Yu's Train", there was an inexplicable attraction between Sun Honglei and Gong Li.
When questioned by Ding Jiali, Sun Honglei had already responded very confidently: You are so old, do you still think you are worthy of me.
The tearful Ding Jiali couldn't bear it anymore, and she rushed out of the door. She couldn't figure out why the true feelings she gave were always ignored, and whether this was retribution?
However, after many years, Ding Jiali seems to have come to terms with all this.
When she was confronted with questions from reporters, she could quietly reply: This is an experience in my life, whether it is right or wrong, it cannot be changed.
Perhaps that's why Ding Jiali was able to calmly tell her "black history" on the educational forum.
However, these are things of the past, and now Ding Jiali just wants to focus on filming with all her heart.
In 2019, she played the role of a mother in "An Home", which left a deep impression on the audience.
In 2020, Ding Jiali starred in the movie "Hello, Li Huanying" again, playing Li Huanying's close friend, and her outstanding performance deeply remained in the hearts of the audience and made people deeply impressed by her name.
epilogue
Although Ding Jiali's appearance gives the impression of being strong, this is not the case, and there is a gentle heart hidden under her tough shell.
It seems that Ding Jiali's life experience tells us that there is no regret medicine in life, and there is no opportunity for trial and error. As long as the choices you make in the moment are in line with your heart's true thoughts, you are right.
She showed extraordinary courage to reveal her bad experiences in order to remind others of her actions.