This is a mother's personal statement: she and her husband married her husband who had been talking for four years after graduating from college, and after marriage, his husband went to work, and she never worked at home and did not have children.
So in these two years is has been preparing for the civil service and pregnancy, the opposite of the exam for two years has not been admitted, every day to stay at home, (and in-laws live together, the marriage room will only occasionally go to live, because both can not cook, but fortunately the in-laws have not abandoned her, this is many women after marriage are envious of the mother-in-law relationship. ）
Her in-laws are cooking and cleaning every day, they do not dislike her at all, and even feel that she studies hard at home every day, and every time she feels that her in-laws are really good, and gives her a lot of encouragement and support. Of course, her parents do not need to say much, but also hurt her, the only worry is that they have been married for so long but they have not wanted to have children, they are worried that their in-laws will have opinions, and from time to time they exert pressure, and every time they return to their mother's home, they are all ear-to-ear, perhaps they are under pressure, so not only have they not relaxed their studies, but they do not dare to delay the work of preparing for pregnancy, and have been actively running to the hospital for examination.
Finally, last year, the preparation for the exam had results and entered the mechanism, when the interview was held, the in-laws also gave her 40,000 training fees, and the work was available
After lagging behind, I began to focus on pregnancy preparation, because I had done two times before, so this time I was directly tested, so I was found, and I had such a time to listen to her experience, her in-laws gave her a card just because this is their pension, and her mother-in-law's health is not very good, and it also costs money to see a doctor, just want to wait for the ability to honor them.
She also said that during the test tube, the promotion of those days, as long as the in-laws have time, they go to buy seafood, fish and shrimp, supplement her protein, she does not like to eat meat, in order to supplement her protein is also a lot of effort. Run to the hospital to get an injection or something,
Her husband gets up at six o'clock every day and accompanies her to the hospital, in fact, this is just a small matter that can be solved by himself, but her husband is not at ease.
When it came to the time of egg retrieval hospitalization, her husband accompanied her and took turns to deliver meals with her mother-in-law every day, in fact, the hospital also provided meals, but they were worried that nutrition could not keep up, and insisted on delivering meals every day. She also bought a high-end incubator box, and got up early every morning to buy vegetables, and what she bought was what she loved to eat. The mother-in-law is not in good health, but every time the meals brought to her are very rich, it is really touching, and she feels that this is very happy.
In the few days of hospitalization, she said that it was difficult to stay up, every day was to eat, sleep, eat, eat, do not do anything, before the egg retrieval her husband was afraid that her follicles were broken and other problems, and did not let there be a big move. After taking the eggs, he worried about her ascites, let her drink protein powder winter melon powder every day, and even did not let her lift heavy objects, soaked her feet, and covered her ass.
After the transplantation was completed, he was discharged from the hospital and returned home, he printed out the matters explained by the nurse, as well as the arranged recipes and the taboos after the transplantation, pasted it to her mother-in-law in the kitchen, and did not forget to play one more copy, and also brought a copy when she was sent back to her mother's house.
After all, the first transplant, he did not understand anything, he could only listen to the important things that the nurse said to avoid, saying that if the transplanted fresh embryo was pregnant with estrogen rise, there would be a risk of ascites, so on this day at home, the husband was almost always by her side.
Bending down on the ground to charge the plug board, he flew like a rocket, not letting her get it, her mother-in-law made a meal and put it on the small table, after eating wanted to help put it away, was stopped, and also told not to move, full to lie down.
At that moment she was still thinking in her heart, he was so attentive, was he just looking forward to the child, during the period also tentatively asked the husband, if this time is still unsuccessful, her husband said, no matter, the wife is the most important, this sentence is not only she herself moved, I listened to it is also moved, yes there is such a husband, the woman will be moved.
Fortunately, this time she succeeded, and she was very happy to share this good news with me, and this year the two babies finally met with everyone.
Being her attending physician is also a pleasure for her.
