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Some people say that all the splendor and brilliance in life must be repaid with loneliness and loneliness. Coexistence with "frustration" is a sign of maturity. But in my opinion, people who can endure loneliness for a long time must be tormented and pained in their hearts. Life needs sunshine, why don't we look forward? Love has never been kind to everyone, and most people have been hurt by love. The strong will learn from the loss of love and quickly get up after falling. When people reach middle age, many people have harvested beautiful love and a certain career.
But over time, some people's marriages begin to lack passion. Being loyal to love, adhering to self-discipline, and keeping a distance from all the opposite sexes are the principles of managing feelings, and it is also an awareness that we must implement to the end. With a certain amount of experience, we deserve to gain wisdom. When people reach middle age, taking the initiative to approach your opposite sex is nothing more than these three "purposes", you should understand.
Seek freshness
People to middle age, a lot of things involuntarily, in the face of life also has a lot of pressure, even if it is feelings, there are many unsatisfactory, at this time, there may be some other ideas. When he meets a suitable person, he may pursue it, but this is not necessarily love, he may just live in space, or he is under a lot of pressure and wants to seek a stimulus, and you just appear, then he will choose you. You may feel that you are still very attractive, and at this age there will still be people who will pursue, but in fact, you should be more vigilant, where there is so much true love, but just to seek freshness. If he can't give you the results you want, if he just wants to find a place to relax outside of life, then don't take it too seriously, let alone take his pursuit seriously. At this age, it is still the most important thing to live your own life, as for those who are not sincere, forget it.
Think of you as a "spare tire"
Getting married and starting a family and reaping a stable career is almost everyone's appeal. After people reach middle age, many people understand that a warm and long-term happiness is the most precious thing in life. But not everyone will be treated well by fate, some people have emotional problems, some people have divorced and separated. There don't seem to be many people who can always hold on to happiness. The pursuit of love is instinctive, but we should learn to discern. Take the initiative to approach your opposite sex, if he already has a family, or make you feel like you are leaving, then he must be wrong. At this time, he is not sincere with you, perhaps, he is just looking for a "spare tire". You must remain rational and self-disciplined at all times, do not interfere with other people's feelings, and do not easily surrender your own sincerity.
Have a picture for you
There is also a kind of suitor, but also will use your resources, connections, in other words, just want to take shortcuts, after all, how tired they work, if someone helps him, naturally can be relaxed. Before Zhang Yuqi withdrew because of her little boyfriend, to a large extent, she was also afraid of others saying that the little boyfriend used her and was not sincere to her, and what she wanted was nothing more than that little sincerity. But in this relationship, it's hard to say what you really want, after all, your resource connections are real, and it's true that he needs these things. He may be sincere about you, but he will also mix with some other things, which makes it difficult for you to distinguish what this kind of feeling is, and finally you can only persuade yourself not to think about it. When a woman reaches middle age, if there is still a suitor, then he may have a plan for you, your money, and your resources, so you have to think clearly before making a decision.
Emotional message: When a woman reaches the stage of forty or fifty years old, she must not be blinded by the man's temporary love, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable. If you have a stable marriage, it is natural to reject the pursuit of other opposite sexes, because once you are moved, you are bound to pay a price; if you are in a single state, you should also fully understand each other, once you perceive that something is wrong, you must immediately turn away. In the face of love, don't be blindly impulsive, sometimes you look at it like love, but in fact it is a hurt, don't be fooled and played with anymore. In any case, divorce the affair, keep yourself sober, don't be deceived by men's rhetoric, only in this way can you harvest a happy life for a lifetime.
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