Some fans have left messages, saying that they obviously have no big contradictions with the object, but now they are a non-indispensable appearance, and the next-door neighbors also live like this, even slightly worse than themselves.
I was so confused about the divorce, I felt very depressed, I thought I had done nothing wrong, was it that two people would be like this for a long time.
In fact, not being able to find a problem is the biggest problem.
There are always many people who think that the beginning of a relationship is vigorous, then the end of the relationship is also vigorous, in fact, the end of many feelings is quiet.
Destroying a relationship does not require any big things, it may be a small thing that is inconspicuous in your eyes, but in the eyes of the other party, it is a hurdle that can never be crossed.
In most families, men still act as the main force for making money, while women mostly stay at home and take care of housework.
And this kind of housework is extremely easy to ignore, and even many people think that this is the duty of women, but any kind of effort should be seen and respected.
Many people regard marriage as a task, and neglect to manage feelings after marriage, just like a vegetable garden is not taken care of, and how many vegetables are grown well?
A good marriage is inseparable from the care of both husband and wife, and what women most desire in marriage is these things.
Men understand
There is a couple who quarrels all day because of money, in fact, the wife does not spend much money, but the man always feels that he spends a lot of money, and he is eager to let his wife use one dollar as two dollars.
So, should it be said that they are poor couples Pepsi Lament?
In fact, even if they use money, the contradiction will still exist, because their contradiction is not in the money at all, but they cannot understand each other.
It is not easy for men to make money outside, but it is also not easy for women to run the family, and the improper family does not know that chai rice oil and salt are expensive, all kinds of people have to spend money, there are too many places to spend money, and even men's monthly salary is not enough to spend.
Understand each other, don't blame each other at every turn, humiliating each other can not solve the problem, but will make the problem more and more serious, many couples can not understand, and eventually fall into the strange circle of mutual humiliation.
Of course, men must learn to understand their wives, and wives must also understand their husbands.
Men's concern
The strongest thing in the world is not a thick wall, nor a steel plate several meters thick, but a protective film built by a person in his heart.
But just like the story of the spear and the shield, there is always one thing that can restrain the other party, and the man's concern is the weapon to break through this protective film.
When young, men act as the main force for earning money to support their families, and they will have a somewhat contemptuous attitude towards their wives who are financially dependent on them.
This contempt for the blow to the relationship is devastating, and when the wife has her own way of life after despair, it is very difficult for the man to integrate into his wife's life.
Usually care more about the wife, many times do not do anything big, just need to say a few words of concern, is it so difficult to open the golden mouth?
Men's sharing
In this era of materialistic desires, many people over-amplify the role of money, so making money has become the most important job.
Many men do not care about other things in addition to making money to support their families after marriage, but marriage is not only making money, there are many important things in life in addition to making money.
These things cannot be done alone by the wife alone, try to help each other share some of them, and do what they can.
For example, don't lie down and play games when you go home, move a stool to the kitchen, help your wife wash dishes, and talk about interesting things that happened today to increase communication between husband and wife.
A very small act, but it is more powerful than hundreds of words of I love, love is never just talk, love needs to be put into action.
There is a saying that "it is difficult for a clean official to break the family affairs", because this family conflict is often complex and multi-layered, and on the surface it seems to be arguing about a certain matter, but in fact, it is the grievances that have been accumulated for an unknown amount of time.