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Before Ms. Xie married her husband, she received a message from her future mother-in-law, who said, "Let her cow for a few more days, and after marriage, she will be our nanny."
Ms. Xie has been with her husband for four years now, and to be honest, she feels that her husband is a very good man for her, so she will not care about how her mother-in-law treats her, and insists on choosing her husband to go to the step of marriage.
When she first interacted with her husband, she knew that her mother-in-law was a very difficult person to get along with, because when they first met, her mother-in-law thought of giving her a dismount, but because her husband was protecting her at that time, her mother-in-law did not dare to do things too much.
Her mother-in-law is that kind of particularly strong person, everything in the family must be in accordance with her requirements, if there is a little thing, not according to her mother-in-law's advice to go, then her mother-in-law can be said to be particularly angry, and even the number of people will be dropped for half a day.
That is to say, because her mother-in-law has an attitude towards her, she herself does not like her mother-in-law, because she always feels that a period of married life is mutually giving, if her mother-in-law's attitude towards her is not good, then she does not have to be good to her mother-in-law's attitude, and it is enough to do herself.
And her husband's sister is not a good person to get along with, it can be said that she inherited her mother-in-law's personality, the two people can be said to be thinking about her trouble all day, even if she is not married to her husband, the two of them think of various ways to toss her.
She still remembers that when she went to her husband's house last month to play, her mother-in-law saw her come to the house, and did not say that she was going to make a meal for her to eat, but instead pointed out that she was going to cook, and she did not think about anything with her mother-in-law, and went directly to cook.
But what she didn't expect was that after they finished eating, her mother-in-law actually thought of letting her wash the dishes and clean up all the hygiene in the house. She must have been unhappy at that time, because she had not yet married into their family and cooked a meal for her mother-in-law, which was already the limit of her patience, and if she still wanted to do hygiene, she really had no way to accept it, so she refused.
At that time, she refused her mother-in-law's request, and her mother-in-law directly angered him, and even her sister-in-law pointed fingers, saying that she was not a filial piety, and if she married into their family, it would certainly be bad for their family at that time.
She also did not pay attention to her mother-in-law, and how her sister-in-law felt and her mother-in-law, after the family finished eating, she directly asked her husband to send her home. Because she felt that she was not married to her husband, there was no need to do housework for her mother-in-law, or whatever.
But unexpectedly, as soon as she got home that night, she saw a message from her mother-in-law, which said: "Let her cow for a few more days, and after marriage, she will be a free nanny for our family." Although this message was sent for only 30 seconds and was withdrawn by her mother-in-law, she still saw the content of the message.
After her parents learned of this matter, they also said that they would not choose to marry their husbands, if they were married, there must be grievances to suffer, but she did not think like this at that time, she directly told her parents, she married, and it was not necessarily her who was sad to marry.
Indeed, she has just been married to her husband for two days now, and when she first married into her husband's house, her mother-in-law wanted to give her a dismount, but she did not have anything polite with her mother-in-law, and directly shook her mother-in-law, and even told her mother-in-law that if she did not want her husband to play a bare stick in the future, then try to toss it.
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Ms. Xie is really not afraid of her mother-in-law to find her trouble, she is afraid that her mother-in-law does not find her trouble, so that she has no chance to cure her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law always thinks that she is a daughter-in-law, then she should be bullied by her as a mother-in-law, and all the things in the family should be done by her daughter-in-law alone
She really wants to understand now, she married to live with her husband, what kind of attitude her mother-in-law has towards her, she really does not care at all, since her mother-in-law has a bad attitude towards her, then there is no need for her mother-in-law to be too good, anyway, they live their own lives, and she does not want to pay too much attention to her mother-in-law.