There is a folk saying that a good man has no good wife. When you think about it, there is some truth to it.
To know why a good man doesn't have a good wife, you have to first understand what a good man is. This good man does not refer to a good man who kills people, sets fires, and robs his house, nor does he refer to a good man who asks for the people's life, but refers to a beautiful man, to paraphrase the current fashionable words is a man with a high appearance. A good wife is a beautiful woman, and it is only right to marry a beautiful man. However, in fact, many beautiful women do not marry beautiful men, and beautiful men marry mostly women who are not beautiful.
Why is this happening? Isn't it Mandarin duck amphibian butterfly double flight? Aren't you just envious of Mandarin ducks and not immortals? But why don't beautiful women come together? Just from the perspective of the proportion of marriages, there are not many beautiful women and handsome men who marry.
Most good men are considered handsome men, which is only a superficial phenomenon that people see, not an internal temperament and knowledge. That is to say, most people will judge people by their appearance and have a natural liking for good-looking people. Women, in particular, are more sensual, and they are fascinated by beautiful-looking men at first sight, and their hearts are full of spring, if it were not for the constraints of morality and law, they would have been with them a long time ago. When women meet beautiful men, they can't help but be driven by curiosity to see who the beautiful man's wife is, or who his girlfriend is. Most of the time, the wives of beautiful men are not handsome people, so women can't help but sigh that good men don't have good wives.
Generally speaking, most men who are beautiful will be chased and beaten by some women, and among many competitors, it is not the beautiful winner, but the windy win. Most of the people who are popular are not very beautiful, but they are very attractive to men, especially beautiful men. And most of the beautiful women are high and cold, there is no shortage of suitors around, and even a large number of men want to pursue them, of course, they can be proud. They will not put down their bodies to pursue beautiful men, but will choose the richest, or most powerful, or rich or powerful family, and marry themselves off. In this way, most beautiful men have little money and will choose the less beautiful looking suitors; the beautiful women without money will use beauty as capital and marry rich or powerful men, or the second generation of rich and official. Even if a beautiful man has money, he does not have to marry a beautiful woman, but to find a sympathetic one, to find a vase as a decoration; a beautiful woman has money, nor does she have to marry a beautiful man, but to find a richer, to achieve capital financing, which is commonly known as the door to the door. Of course, there are exceptions, that is, the establishment of a sponsorship relationship. Beautiful men have money and have beautiful women, or beautiful women have money and have beautiful men, but that is an inclusive relationship, not a marriage relationship.
If you want to get married, you have to find a more reliable person, not a person who only has a beautiful face but can't do anything. Beautiful men need to be busy with their careers, they need to have a wife in the family who can keep it, and if the wife is too beautiful, she may not be able to keep it. After all, beautiful women are still beautiful even after marriage, and there is still no shortage of followers around them, and those men will become a natural hidden danger for husbands. After the beautiful man marries the average-looking woman, there will still be followers around, but the woman is more rational, forced by the pressure of morality and law, and will not easily destroy the marriage of others, unless the beautiful man himself cannot hold on, or the woman is too emotional, beyond the moral and legal restrictions, regardless of the body, it will not be stopped. That is to say, beautiful men to get married to find a reliable one who can live at home, but also can not attract the pursuit of many men; beautiful women looking for men to marry, must find a can rely on lifelong, that is, can find a rich or powerful, otherwise how to live happily in the second half of life? Women who are not beautiful have no capital, and women themselves have beautiful capital and can get more choices.
From a psychological point of view, the criteria for a man's mate selection are not necessarily very good-looking. Of course, men like beautiful women, preferably women in the show, but such a woman is a scarce resource in itself and is not easy to obtain. Most young men have no career, even if they buy a house or a car in the city, they have to take out a loan, and they can't pay the full amount. Then, such a beautiful man is not a mate candidate in the eyes of a beautiful woman. Beautiful women like rich and powerful men, if the appearance is better, even if these men are not good-looking, it does not matter, as long as there is money and power. And most of the older leftover women have to find rich or powerful, but also beautiful, but in the end it is this mountain that looks at the mountain high, finds a second marriage, or becomes the object of adoption. In this way, beautiful women will not look for beautiful men.
That is to say, beautiful men do not necessarily have money or power, most of them are people who have taken mortgages and car loans, and beautiful women do not want to find such men, but to compare. There is a joke about the criteria for male and female mate selection, saying that there is a three-story building, men want to choose a mate, the first floor sits an unbeautiful woman, the second floor sits an average woman, and the third floor sits the most beautiful woman for men to choose. Generally speaking, it is difficult for men to go to the third floor and obediently obey on the first or second floor. If a woman chooses a mate, there are not beautiful men sitting on the first floor, ordinary men sitting on the second floor, and beautiful and rich and powerful men sitting on the third floor, then most women will go through the three floors and then ask, Is there still four floors?
The criteria for choosing a mate are not necessarily the appearance value, but the economic conditions, which are the right door to the door. Therefore, of course, a good man has no good wife.