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The man goes to his girlfriend's house to prepare for engagement, and after seeing the other party's family, weighs the pros and cons and breaks up: marriage is not poverty alleviation

As we all know, love is beautiful, but it is not the same thing as marriage, for this reason, some people say that the door is the shackles of love, separating the lives of two people who truly love each other; Some people say that marriage is not a romantic relationship, but a cumbersome firewood, rice, oil and salt.

The man goes to his girlfriend's house to prepare for engagement, and after seeing the other party's family, weighs the pros and cons and breaks up: marriage is not poverty alleviation

A woman in Anhui broke the news on a social platform about a failed relationship experience that caused netizens to pay attention and heated discussions, now this society is becoming more and more material, many people are very realistic, used to think that marriage as long as two people really love each other, but now marriage has become both parties weighing the pros and cons and taking what they need.

The man goes to his girlfriend's house to prepare for engagement, and after seeing the other party's family, weighs the pros and cons and breaks up: marriage is not poverty alleviation

From the video filmed, the remote countryside where the woman's family lives in the picture, I saw that her house was not only a dilapidated fire brick house, but also surrounded by weeds and trees, seeing this, I believe that the first impression of many netizens is that the woman's family is relatively ordinary and ordinary, but does this delay her from finding a partner?

The man goes to his girlfriend's house to prepare for engagement, and after seeing the other party's family, weighs the pros and cons and breaks up: marriage is not poverty alleviation

The woman revealed: "At first, she had a boyfriend, the two were originally at the age of marriage talk, this day the boyfriend was going to come to her house to get engaged, but after going to her own house and understanding the family situation, her boyfriend's attitude turned 180 degrees, first finding a reason to show that they were not suitable for each other",

The man goes to his girlfriend's house to prepare for engagement, and after seeing the other party's family, weighs the pros and cons and breaks up: marriage is not poverty alleviation

Then there was a dislike of the girlfriend's poor family in the language, and finally the boyfriend chose to break up with the woman after weighing the pros and cons, and netizens comforted the woman after reading this content: "If you want to tie up, if you don't want to tie up, break up, this is normal, it's not who leaves who can't live, a little more transparent."

Netizen opinion:

Some netizens commented that entering marriage does require caution, and it is right that the ancestors pay attention to the door, and they can't climb high and don't get married, after all, no one wants to carry the weight forward.

Some netizens commented that beautiful love eventually lost to the reality that crossed classes.

The man goes to his girlfriend's house to prepare for engagement, and after seeing the other party's family, weighs the pros and cons and breaks up: marriage is not poverty alleviation

Some netizens also commented that boys sometimes weigh the pros and cons, girls can dislike boys, boys can also dislike girls, disgust is not appropriate, don't complain, just find the next one, find one to accept their own.

The author thinks that this is just a mutual choice between the two parties, after all, marriage is not a matter of two, but a major matter of two families, in fact, disgust can not be talked about, really care about a person will also care about her all, as long as out of the heart, success or failure is nothing, generous treatment of love, real face of life.

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