How far the child can go in the future depends on whether the parents do a good job in these 4 kinds of education
One less will not work
The biggest parenting wish of many parents is undoubtedly to let their children win at the starting line from an early age
For this reason, parents are also racking their brains to educate and guide their children
However, for children, this expectation and pressure of parents often overwhelms them, but it causes them to lose their love of learning and curiosity about scientific knowledge early
As a parent, you must understand that your child's life is a long-distance running race, and if parents want to let their children go further, they must do a good job in these 4 kinds of education
01
Cultivate children's reading habits and enhance children's cultural heritage
A child who likes to read every day, and a child who holds his mobile phone and plays non-stop every day
Their attitude to learning and their understanding and love of knowledge are also very different
I often hear people say that "people who like to read have mountains and rivers under their eyes and hills and valleys in their chests."
For people who like to read, they often see a wider world and a larger pattern of life
The reason why Teacher Bai Yansong was able to become a well-known host of CCTV is that he has made great achievements in his career
A big reason is that he has liked to read since he was a child, according to Teacher Bai Yansong himself
When he was young, his mother gave him her reading card so that he could borrow books to read at any time
It is precisely because of this that Teacher Bai Yansong often stays at home to read books, especially the two books of "Xinhua Dictionary" and "Selected Obscure Poems", which can be said to have a very far-reaching influence on him
In the view of Teacher Bai Yansong, a person's optimism and self-confidence to grow, rationality and wisdom are inseparable from reading
As parents, we must cultivate our children's reading habits from an early age, and sow the "seeds" of knowledge in children's hearts early
Only in this way can the child's world blossom and bear fruit in the future, and the child can become a person with connotation and foundation.
02
Cultivate children's curiosity and stimulate their desire to explore
A child with curiosity and a desire to explore will not only be full of love for life, but also able to have sharper observation, richer imagination and creativity
The great Albert Einstein once said such a sentence
"I was able to contribute to the world not because I was gifted, but because I was curious about it"
In fact, Einstein also showed a strong desire to explore at a very young age
It is said that when he was a child, he rarely played with children of the same age, but always hid in the corner alone to think, and his small head was filled with curiosity and questions about the whole world, so that he was only 5 years old, and he could use the physical principles of geometry and mechanics to build simulated miniature buildings
And when his father gave him a compass one day, Einstein did not treat the compass as a toy like a normal child
Instead, he began to study the magnetic principle of the compass pointer with curiosity
It is precisely because of this that the apple that falls in front of Einstein can lead to "gravity", while the apple in front of ordinary children will only become an apple core
As a parent, if you want to make your child's future road longer, have greater achievements
It is necessary to guide and stimulate children's curiosity and desire to explore from primary school
Give children more opportunities to solve problems, allowing them to keep trying and making mistakes on the road to growth
Learn to encourage your child's every discovery and seriously answer every question your child asks
In this way, children will maintain a beautiful imagination and creation, the future, the world will be full of exploration and curiosity, and more motivated for life
03
Cultivate the child's internal drive and ignite the child's motivation to move forward
In the movie "Eddie the Eagle", the little boy Eddie's biggest dream is to be able to participate in the Olympics
For this reason, little Eddie has trained hard since he was a child, running every day, jumping long, lifting weights, never relaxing himself, even if he is injured, Eddie has not given up his dream
As a result, Eddie finally qualified to compete in the Winter Olympic Ski Competition
However, at this time, Eddie's physical problems, myopia and disability, made him almost lose his dream
Fortunately, Eddie did not give up, in order to realize his dream, Eddie chose a more dangerous and more investment in the "ski jumping" project
While training, he worked and never felt bitter or tired
In the end, the effort paid off, and Eddie finally entered the Olympics and challenged himself
So what supports Eddie along the way? It is a dream and a love for the Olympic cause
Many times parents always like to complain about their children, urge their children, but forget whether this is what the child wants
You know, only when a person has likes and loves from the bottom of their hearts and has their own goals, then they will become proactive and have no remorse
Parents with real high emotional intelligence know how to accept their children, are willing to stand in the child's point of view, help their children find their own goals, and let the "internal drive" become the biggest driving force for their children to move forward!
04
Cultivate children's resilience and increase children's courage to face setbacks
In life, we often hear adults complaining
"The baby now is really not strong, a little setback will die and live"
The homework could not be completed, the parents said a few more words, and the child turned around and ran away from home
The test results were not satisfactory, the parents criticized a few words, and the child turned around and jumped off the building
I have to say that today's children are really very sensitive and vulnerable
The root cause is that the child lacks resistance and the contrarian quotient is not enough
Many parents in life always spoil their children from an early age, like to spoil their children and hold their children
There are also some parents who always keep their eyes on their children's learning and grades
As a result, children face setbacks and difficulties that they cannot accept and do not know how to cope
He even became devastated and didn't know how to continue
I remember a classmate in my high school class who excelled in learning from an early age
His parents also pampered him in every way, and in addition to studying, other things basically did not let this classmate interfere
As a result, after this classmate went to college, he felt particularly frustrated because he could not take care of himself in life
Especially in the university hidden dragon Crouching Tiger, good learning people abound, so this classmate became very inferior, felt that he was not good anywhere, over time, actually had a sense of boredom, hiding in the dormitory every day to play games, Internet access, at the end of the term, naturally hung up the subject, and finally directly dropped out of school
In the end, this classmate lacks reverse quotient, so he completely gives up on himself when he encounters a little setback
As a parent, if you want your child to go a long way in the future, you must learn to exercise your child's contrarian quotient from an early age, help your child improve your courage to face setbacks and difficulties, and let your child be more tenacious in later life, be able to ride the wind and waves, and have a broader life
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