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Every woman wants to meet the right person and pamper herself hand in hand. But on the topic of marriage, Zhang Xiaoxian once summed it up this way, "Love makes people forget the passage of time." You will forget your age. You will make a lifelong commitment, and forgetting time will change everything. However, the passage of time can also make people forget that love once existed. The two people's days together have been long, and the love has disappeared bit by bit. He forgets how much he loved you over the years, he forgets how happy you once were." It is reasonable to say that middle age is the most mature age for a person, and people in this age group should not do something out of the ordinary. Women are also willing to believe that men will not do anything to be sorry for themselves. But everything is possible, and preventing it is what smart women do. And those men who are always restless in middle age are nothing more than these 3 points.
Men are prone to liking the new and tired of the old, and are attracted to external factors
Psychologists point out that men are prone to like the new and dislike the old in a relationship, so they will produce "restless behavior". From love to marriage, the husband and wife must be a process of mutual attraction, he has found his own shadow in her, and he can meet some of her needs. It is precisely because of the degree of relevance and complementarity of the two sides that they will have the idea of getting closer step by step. However, middle-aged couples live longer, so the attraction of both parties to each other is also weakened. Middle-aged men have a richer material base and a higher maturity, it is easy to attract other people of the opposite sex, and this external temptation will make men make mistakes in marriage.
Men get bad when they have money
Although "men are not bad, women are not loved". But the "bad guys" in marriage are the most undesirable. Especially in middle age, after they have a certain amount of savings, coupled with the fact that they have been with their wives for many years, even the deepest feelings will have a period of boredom. Restless thoughts will also begin to gradually show their signs.
There are problems with the relationship between husband and wife, and men go to the outside world to seek comfort
Middle-aged couples are too easy to look at each other, and more and more couples are playing the role of perfect strangers. If two people can find out the problems in the marriage earlier and find a reasonable solution, they can get along very well, and the relationship between the two will deepen. However, too many couples ignore the importance of the marital relationship and lack some intimacy. Because of some small things, the two are prone to conflict, or even separate. If the woman cannot give the man the love he wants for a long time, then the man will easily go to the outside world to find new comfort. In psychology, this is called the "complementary effect", the wife can not give to the man in marriage, the man seeks to satisfy himself outside of marriage.
Emotional message: The above 3 points, fear is the main reason why middle-aged men spend their hearts. Whatever the reason, loyalty is the bottom line of all feelings and the basis for continuing to go on. In this life, not everything comes with the nature of the child, it is dashing, can realize and reject the bad psychology, live a bright and upright life, is the real dashing. In this relationship, so many years of hard work, whether it is time or energy, is the most precious thing, once because of a momentary impulse and watch it destroyed, three-year-old children will feel unworthy. When people reach middle age, they must learn to set a good example for their children, be responsible for the family, and be loyal to their lovers, which is the road that a middle-aged man really has to take. In just a few decades of life, you must be able to know what is most important to you, and then do your best to protect it. In fact, there is nothing in the flower heart, but the real flower heart is not Nonsense, just an appreciation attitude towards beautiful things!