Love doesn't need to be as tragic as Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, but it does need tacit understanding and cooperation with each other.
Love is like the warm sun in winter, endless, even if it encounters bad weather, it can always leave a glimmer of light in our hearts, illuminate our way forward, let us get rid of confusion, and regain direction.
In love, women tend to give their trust to each other without reservation. They are convinced that trust is the cornerstone of love.
Relationships between people need to build trust, friendships between friends need deep trust, and lovers need to trust each other more intimately. Only a relationship based on trust can be truly sustainable and happier.
When love is faced with the interference of a third party, we must remain calm and not be deceived by other people's words. Doing so avoids being provoked and divided. After all, love is something that needs to be managed and maintained.
In real life, love is far from being all about sweetness and romance. Many women are convinced that their partner is genuinely single-minded and consistent inside and out. Ximei often says that this is not always true.
Although we are in love with each other, we must always remember that each person is an individual. We have our own minds, goals, ways of thinking, and ways of living. These factors will be reflected in our actions and decisions, allowing us to maintain a good sense of self, keep our distance, and make our relationships healthier and more mature.
No matter how close the relationship is, such as mother and son or lovers, there will inevitably be some distance.
However, distance can sometimes lead women into emotional indecision. It is difficult for them to determine whether the other person really loves them.
Actually, men are not as difficult to understand as women think. The following kinds of men seem affectionate and sweet, but their hearts are trivial, don't be deceived by them.
1. Men who don't come home often
In the modern fast-paced society, there are many men who often do not return home on the grounds that they are busy with work or that they will not come back if they have to work overtime.
He seems to be very hardworking, hardworking, hardworking, and constantly working hard to make more money for the sake of a better future life for you all together.
In fact, you don't know what he's up to.
A man who truly cares for you must be a man who pays attention to his family. He will balance family management and work, and strive to create a happy family.
We should put our family first, and we can't always use work as an excuse to ignore our family. You can't always go home all day and use the excuse of "finishing work first, then taking care of your family, and then persevering for a few more years". Let's pay more attention to the family and create a better life for the family.
Hypocritical men will also shift responsibility. When you complain or ask him, he thinks that you are not sensible and does not understand his hard work. This kind of behavior often makes people feel annoyed and frustrated.
Such men are very common in everyday life, and their traits and behaviors tend to be more common.
In the classic family drama "The Temptation to Go Home", when Hong Shixian and Ellie are together, they often blame Lin Pinru for reasons of "busy with work", "overtime", and "company tasks".
When dealing with a man, you can't just take his efforts at face value. If his efforts are not motivated by a desire to make you more loving and happy, then his efforts are not worthy of your trust. Feel and understand his true intentions with your heart, and don't be deceived by false appearances.
Second, a man who is very good to everyone
Some men have a gentlemanly demeanor and will take the initiative to help women pull chairs, open doors, and pay attention to women's emotions. This gentlemanly behavior shows respect and care and is a quality that should be admired in our society.
I believe that as women, we may all be attracted to this superficially gentlemanly behavior at first, thinking that with this gentleman, we will have a very happy life.
After you really get along, you will find that he is like this to all women, but his elegant demeanor has become the reason for your bad relationship.
If you meet a man who is always friendly to you and those around you, don't be fooled by one-sided categorical impressions. This kind of man is very common in our lives, and even a few people call them "central air conditioning".
They are very open-minded, and they often have a relaxed and happy feeling of falling in love with the words and deeds of ordinary women.
This kind of man is called Huaxin unconsciously, and it is no exaggeration to say. Even if you try to talk to him about these issues, he will still reprimand you for being stingy.
As a woman, I would advise you not to try to change this kind of man, because they are often not aware of their problems and do not even consider themselves emotionally unfaithful. So, we need to learn to accept the facts and not waste time on useless attempts.
3. Men who like to talk sweetly
The biggest difference between a straight man and a scumbag is that the former tends to act positively, while the latter stays more in the imagination of nothingness.
There is a person who is not good at rhetoric, but will take good care of you; The other, like a poet, promises a better future with flowery words. Even when he makes a mistake, he will force his excuses, try to downplay the fault, and pretend that it never happened.
People who are eloquent tend to be more popular, especially in the early stages of a relationship.
If a man is always talking sweet words or amusing you with clichés, you need to be vigilant.
This just shows that he is very familiar with women and is well versed in the way women like to have conversations and behave in their own way. This knowledge is very important for a man because it will help him to communicate and get along with women better.
Thinking deeply, why does he know so much about women? A large part of this is due to the fact that he often interacts with women and is often surrounded by flowers. That's why he knows so much about women.
When dealing with feelings, we should not rashly open our hearts, but need to patiently perceive the emotional attitude of the other party, so as to avoid being hurt by a scumbag due to wrong decisions.
Conclusion:
Some people describe love as the sun rising on the sea, although it has not yet fully risen, but the heart is rippling early. This metaphor shows the passion and unpredictability of love.
Some people believe that love is like a breeze in the mountains, although it is not hot, it is indispensable. The lack of breeze in the mountains always makes people feel lonely.
The single-mindedness in love may be to look for roses in the garden, to find the special rose that belongs to us, so we will vow to guard it and never step into this garden again in our lives. This is a precious promise and a commitment to true love.
Although others are painstakingly choosing, we only need a rose. They say, how can just one rose make our lives interesting? But we believe that one rose is not enough.
This is the true meaning of love.
Obviously, the above three types of men show affection, but in fact, they don't really understand the true meaning of love, and they don't want to be with you for a long time. They have a heart, so be sure not to be fooled by them again.