Since remarrying, Lao Xiao has become a middle-aged man who is very masculine.
But about the middle-aged greasy man and the flowery woman, Lao Xiao is very clear.
In addition to being a former person, Lao Xiao also has an advantage: he is a sales representative of a pharmaceutical company and has seen many women of all kinds.
A woman with a heart of flowers, no matter how well she hides it, will have some unique behaviors that you can know at a glance.
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A woman with a heart of flowers, the sense of boundary with the opposite sex is very blurred
Between men and women, if you want a little story, you just need to blur the boundaries a little.
Especially when a woman's sense of boundary is blurred, the incidence of the story is higher, after all, men are greedy big pig's trotters, and they are cheap to send to the door, and they don't take advantage of nothing.
In the words of a director's wife, it is: Anyway, our family is a man, so we don't suffer.
Lao Xiao's first marriage overturned because he met such a flowery woman.
Lao Xiao's ex-wife is a very capable and virtuous woman, the two are college classmates, from acquaintance and love to marriage and childbirth and raising a pair of children, it is not easy to go all the way, Lao Xiao is very grateful for his ex-wife's dedication, and once vowed to cherish this hard-won family.
But there is an old saying that is all too accurate:
Waiting for leisure is the old people's hearts, but the old people's hearts are changeable.
In this world, only the sun and the human heart cannot be looked at directly.
At work, Lao Xiao met a woman, the woman was enthusiastic, responsive to Lao Xiao's needs at work, and cared about Lao Xiao's life in private, as long as there was a chance, she would ask Lao Xiao for a drink alone.
All in all, although he is just an ordinary work partner, he feels that Lao Xiao is a confidant who has known each other for a long time.
As a married man, Lao Xiao naturally captured the ambiguity that seemed to be behind his back, one was affectionate, one was hearted, one took the initiative to show favor, and the other wanted to take advantage, and the two of them naturally had a story.
After the East Window incident, Lao Xiao's ex-wife angrily filed for divorce and took away a pair of children. And this amorous woman naturally disappeared without a trace.
Later, Lao Xiao discovered that the woman had a new story, and the male protagonist of the story became a young man who had just entered the workplace.
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A woman with a heart will be moved but will not be affectionate
After the divorce, Lao Xiao was depressed for a while and felt that he had messed up his life.
When he was at his most decadent, there was an unmarried female colleague who came into his life.
The woman is from Lao Xiao's hometown city, and she has a hometown affection with Lao Xiao, plus there are many contacts in her daily work, so she quickly became familiar with Lao Xiao.
Then, the woman began to care about Lao Xiao's life, would bring Lao Xiao a breakfast, and would put a box of hangover tablets in Lao Xiao's bag when Lao Xiao had a social.
With such nuanced care, Lao Xiao seemed to see his hard-working ex-wife, and he also began to feed back the woman's goodness. I help her at work, and I am willing to pay financially.
The woman also seemed to be moved, but it didn't last long.
During the three months that Lao Xiao was stationed in the field, the woman met a man with better conditions, and almost without too much hesitation, the woman gave up Lao Xiao.
Then, because of another man, the woman broke up with that man again.
Now Lao Xiao has remarried, but this female colleague has turned herself into a 31-year-old girl, and she is still fluttering in love.
A woman with a heart can easily fall into a relationship, but she will not love someone affectionately for a long time.
For her, as long as there is a man with better conditions, the current relationship is not worth much.
There are good and bad people's hearts, but there is no distinction between men and women.
A woman with a heart will also be like a man with a heart of flowers, playing the world and playing feelings. They only care about their own feelings and interests, and do not consider the emotions and hurts of others.
Both men and women must remember a sentence from the writer Su Cen:
Don't just be obsessed with love, character is more important than that. Love is temporary, character is eternal. When love slowly fades, the relationship between two people is maintained by kindness.