Text: Guo Siting
Figure: From the network
My husband has five brothers, he is the eldest, due to the poverty of the family, the second (second brother) is in his twenties, and he has not yet said that he is a proper daughter-in-law.
Until 1991, when my second brother was twenty-five years old, our bare-knuckle uncle near the door, after being introduced, found a girl from Sichuan. The girl looked as beautiful as a movie star and looked twenty-one or twenty-two.
However, the girl would rather die than marry her uncle, and she fell in love with the second eldest of the family, and the second eldest was overjoyed and clamored to marry her back. But to pay the other party 3500 yuan, at that time to raise these money, it was more difficult than the current 100,000 yuan, borrowed all the relatives and friends to get enough.
So they were not engaged, did not have a banquet, and became a de facto marriage. Although it is a flash marriage, but they are as good as glue, inseparable, every time I see them, it is full of spring breeze.
For about a month or so, the two of them borrowed a neighbor's big bicycle to go to the market, and they didn't come back in the evening. After that, there was no news, after more than a year, the second brother himself came back dejected, he said, the daughter-in-law said to take him to work outside, they were separated when they were in Xuzhou, and they could no longer find her, he was afraid of his family complaining, there was no face to go home, so he wandered outside alone for more than a year.
Since then, the second elder has withered every day, and he who was originally industrious suddenly became lazy and deadly, and even the oil bottle was poured, and he lived a mixed life every day. Subsequently, the third, fourth and fifth elders and the younger sister-in-law were all married, and only the second brother was still bare.
In the spring of 2000, the sister of a good friend of the second brother gave him that he introduced a neighbor of her mother's family, which was a woman who was about to become a widow, and there was a son and a daughter in the family, the same age as him, and his name was Luo Yufeng. If there is no problem between the two parties, wait for the husband who has terminal cancer to die and then get married, and it will last less than two months at the latest.
The two of them fell in love at first sight, and they couldn't wait to walk together, and Yu Feng's children didn't care about it at home. The matchmaker came to me and my husband and said that Yufeng's two children cried every day for their mothers, and asked us to persuade them to separate temporarily, and when her husband died, they would be together again, so that others would see it and laugh.
The matchmaker said that he wanted to do a good thing, but it turned out to be a bad thing. How could they not be separated. The second eldest took her and did not dare to live at home, but became a permanent ambassador in my mother's house. I wondered why so many of their relatives didn't go to their mother's house. I had intended to persuade them back, but after much thought, I still didn't open my mouth.
On the tenth day after the second brother and the woman eloped, the woman's ex-husband committed suicide by drinking pesticides.
At my mother's house, my parents taught him and the two of them to cook cakes, studied for more than two months, and became a teacher. The lady found a yard for them to idle, close to the side of the road, and began to make a living. Everything they needed was provided free of charge by my mother's family, such as a bakery stove, a board, and a basin.
Since the second brother didn't have any capital at that time, my mother's family lent him flour and lent him money to buy charcoal and sesame seeds.
The two of them worked there for more than half a year, made some money, and did not want to drift outside, so they returned to their hometown. The charcoal on credit, the money did not give each other back, they said that there is no need to pay back, people can not find their home (selling charcoal home delivery, in order to pull business pressure money, this time to the last time the money and so on), now more than twenty years, has not been returned to people.
After settling in at home, Luo Yufeng took her children over. The son is seven years old, his name is Zhu Junjun, the daughter is four years old, a very cute pair of children, they are both white and pure, the boy looks like the little radish head in the movie, likable, the girl also looks super cute, a pair of big eyes and double eyelids.
Subsequently, the second brother and sister arranged for his brothers and sisters to attend school in our village school, and changed the surname of Zhu to the surname of stepfather Chang. But Junjun still insisted on the surname Zhu.
Every Sunday, Junjun would argue to go home before, saying that he missed his grandparents, and Luo Yufeng lied to him that his grandparents were not at home. The son did not believe it, so he cried, and Yu Feng was angry, so he beat him. Despite the crying, I still can't screw the adults.
Almost every Sunday, my son would make a fuss. By the time he was in the third grade, Luo Yufeng couldn't find Junjun anymore, and after inquiring, he found it at his ex-husband's house and was with his grandmother and grandfather.
After forcibly pulling her son back, she kept him under strict supervision on Sundays and holidays. One winter vacation, he secretly rode his bicycle to his grandmother's place, Luo Yufeng failed to get Junjun back, and angrily asked the second elder to drive a motorcycle tricycle and pull him back.
Although Luo Yufeng controlled Junjun, he still could not stop his determination to return home. He still often stole home, but every time Yufeng caught him, he would not let him stay for a while and immediately get him back. After graduating from elementary school, Junjun slowly became taciturn and his eyes became sluggish.
One day, Luo Yufeng was washing clothes, and Junjun suddenly waved a big broom at her, and she was defenseless and lay down in the big basin. After that, he beat her every two or three days. He didn't hit anyone else, he just hit her. She then remembered to go to the hospital to see Junjun, the diagnosis was very heart-wrenching, Junjun suffered from mental illness.
He was treated in the hospital for more than four months. After being discharged from the hospital, there was no improvement at all, and everything was business as usual. In order not to let him hit anyone, Luo Yufeng forced him to take medicine and go to sleep after taking medicine. For five or six consecutive years, when Junjun beat Yu Fengqin, he sent him to a psychiatric hospital for several months. On average, he stays in the hospital for half a year.
When Junjun reached the age of twenty, Luo Yufeng really couldn't stand Junjun's sudden attack, and he gritted his teeth and decided to abandon him.
She made a plan at home, and the family of four went to Zhejiang, and when they came, they left Junjun himself there, and then the three of them secretly went home. However, after more than a year there, the family of four returned, and finally did not want to abandon him, after all, mother and son are connected.
Then, Luo Yufeng went to the village cadres and asked Junjun to live in a nursing home, and they said that there were people over sixty years old, he was only in his twenties, and it was too early to go.
Now Junjun is thirty-one years old, eating white and fat, except for occasional, he doesn't do anything, and he lives a life of opening his mouth and his clothes to reach out.
For some reason, his back was also hunched, and he looked at the old man on his back. Let people see, can't stop the heartache.