In order to save Hehe, Fang Yinuo wants to give up his own and Lao Xie's child, save a child, and give up another innocent child.
Realistic dramas face real life problems directly, allowing people to see themselves in reality from the characters, or from some universal experiences and deeds of the characters, feel the true meaning of some life, and make their future lives more comfortable.
I think that most of the audiences who love to watch reality dramas should go to the drama with such an original intention and desire, rather than trying to find anger and isolation from the extreme cases of a certain character.
The popular reality drama "Dear Child", I have to say that the early plot is indeed very realistic, and the various experiences and encounters of the characters in it are also very universal, which can allow the audience to get a lot of empathy and understanding through these encounters of the characters.
Like what:
Changes from Fang Yinuo's figure and appearance,
From Fang Yinuo's various dietary taboos during pregnancy,
From Fang Yinuo in the third trimester of pregnancy can only sit and sleep,
From Fang Yinuo's worries and fearful performance when he was in labor,
Painful expressions and movements from Fang Yinuo when giving birth,
From the shame that Fang Yinuo showed when he was hospitalized incontinence after childbirth,
From Fang Yinuo to home after childbirth with all kinds of caution and anxiety,
From Fang Yinuo arising and Xiao Lu's responsibilities and performance in the family,
After fang Yinuo's divorce, he hated Xiao Lu for not letting her see his children...
The various things that Fang Yinuo experienced above, the sacrifices that women will have to pay when they become mothers and the many difficulties they encountered, are well expressed in front of the vast audience, so that they can truly understand the meaning of the words "mother is great".
Fang Yinuo's specific social universality plot is definitely of great significance to new fathers and unmarried men and women who have not experienced these things and do not understand these things.
Men can truly understand and understand the sacrifice and dedication of women when they are mothers through Fang Yinuo's series of encounters, then they will definitely take on more responsibilities and responsibilities in their own marriages, and make their families more harmonious and warm.
By seeing Fang Yinuo's experience, women can make them more aware of the meaning of marriage, and they will be more serious about marriage in the future, and find someone who is worth living with themselves for a lifetime, so that their lives, and the lives of their children, can have a happier future.
Therefore, realistically speaking, the plot of the early stage of "Dear Child" is definitely worth any audience to watch and taste carefully, and it is absolutely not a loss to enter the pit.
However, since the plot of "Dear Child" was carried out to the time when Hehe was ill and the bone marrow matching failed, the plot began to change, becoming less socially universal, and more was just the amplification and extremism of extreme cases, which made people look very angry and isolated.
In order to save the child, Fang Yinuo first planned to have another child with Xiao Lu, at this time they planned to do IVF, but Fang Yinuo's physical condition did not meet the requirements.
After some ideological struggle, Fang Yinuo chose to sacrifice herself and Xiao Lu's happiness to achieve maternal love, she planned to "come to the truth" with Xiao Lu, this extreme approach, how much harm to Xie Tianhua and Dong Fan, we also saw, is definitely the most painful limit of their lives.
At this time, although Fang Yinuo's practice was extremely selfish and unfair to Xie Tianhua, xie jia, and Dong Fan, it was also not advocated in social ethics and morality.
However, this matter is considered from the perspective of a mother, in fact, her approach at this time is understandable, after all, no mother in the world is willing to give up her child easily.
Therefore, even if Fang Yinuodi's "practice" was obviously unreasonable at that time, there were still many real -- "mothers" who still said that they could understand her decision.
But in the following plot, Fang Yinuo's approach is a bit unspeakable, in order to save Hehe, she plans not to be with Xie Lao's child!
But this child is also her child?
Fang Yinuo vomited in the hospital, and under the reminder of her aunt in the next bed, she learned about her pregnancy, and she naturally understood that this child belonged to her and Xie Tianhua.
Therefore, after she learned this news, she was not happy, but also let her fall into a tangle, because she still did not give up the plan to have a child with Xiao Lu to save Hehe, so with Xie Tianhua's child, she was more planning not to.
Seeing such a plot, some of the audiences who chose silence and tolerance in the front could no longer sit still, and Xie Tianhua's children were not her children?
Sacrificing the happiness of his and Xiao Lu's two families in order to save Hehe is not right, but at least it is understandable.
To save one child, to sacrifice the happiness of two families, and at the same time to end the life of another innocent child, this matter is completely excessive, has been out of the category of "perfect maternal love", belongs to the list of "extreme extreme" behavior.
"For Fang Yinuo's idea, many people who watched the drama said that they couldn't think straight, couldn't understand it, and couldn't accept it."
In episode 30, even Xie Tianhua, an honest man who has been accommodating Fang Yinuo (who really put up with it), can't bear to report Fang Yinuo's behavior to the doctor...
So, is Xie Tianhua's approach narrow, or is Fang Yinuo really overdoing it?
Judge and judge!
Write at the back:
The plot in front of "Dear Child" is extremely common to society, which has great reference significance and enlightenment for the real public, and it is very worth watching.
But the plot behind it is obviously amplified by extreme events, in addition to allowing the audience to see the emotional excitement, it does not bring much practical significance to their lives.
A reality drama with such details so carefully, from the beginning of the "universal event to the extreme case", lost its original intention and significance, turned into a trend of high and low, it is a pity.