Many people will get married, but after marriage, different people, the quality of marriage, but also not at all the same.
Some couples, living happily with each other, feel that meeting each other is a kind of luck, some couples, although the days are bumpy, some are not so good, most of the time it is still quite good.
But there are also many couples who feel very painful, either they don't know how to get along, or one person does his best, and he can't always cover the heart of the other person, from the beginning to the end, only he is working hard.
If a person's conditions are not good, if he can be more motivated, know how to look for opportunities, know how to be down-to-earth, make money well, and work hard for the future, then even if the family is not well-off, temporarily compared with embarrassment, in fact, can also be considered.
In the current environment, as long as a person is willing to work hard and work seriously, then the days will not be too bad, and work hard with him, in the future, in fact, can still be expected, the future can still be better and better.
And if a person is not only poor, but also not willing to do something well, no matter what he does, he feels that the money is too little, he feels that it is too hard, and he will only complain about it, then we had better stay away from him.
Choose him, no matter how hard we try, he will only keep beating us back to the original form, so that we can't turn over at all.
No matter what era, people's concept of marriage actually has the same side.
In a relationship, but anyone is disloyal, the relationship will not actually have any trust to speak of, and there will not really be any happiness, it is easy to have problems, directly collapse.
Therefore, choosing the other half, of course, we have to find a more sincere, but also more dedicated.
Knowing that a person is very careful, has countless predecessors, has a lot of ambiguous objects, likes to pick flowers and weeds, and has never thought of keeping a person to live a good life, then even if you like it again, it is best not to have expectations.
In many marriages, each other clearly becomes a whole, but one of them will always guard against the other, no matter what, he will always only consider his own feelings and his own interests.
I don't know how to empathize at all, and I don't have any thoughts about the other party at all.
A person who is too selfish and only has his own eyes is actually not suitable for living with anyone.
This selfishness, invisibly, will really always make us feel that in the eyes of the other party, we are just an outsider, and it turns out that no matter what we do, we can't enter each other's world at all.
Not only that, in daily life, we will always have endless grievances, and we will not feel half a pity at all.
People who can be less selfish and can see their other half in their eyes are suitable for living together, otherwise, it is really only suitable for one person to live, not suitable for entering anyone's world.
Liking someone is an innate instinct. But loving someone, marrying someone, getting along well after marriage, is an ability.
That requires a sense of responsibility, a person who knows how to maintain a reverence for marriage, and a person who is willing to pay for each other's family and make some sacrifices appropriately.
Getting married, it's never about getting a marriage license, having a wedding, it's so simple. We must be able to ensure that we can guarantee the materials that maintain the marriage, have the attitude of getting along well with a person, and can constantly adjust ourselves to make ourselves more comfortable with each other.