Nothing is fine, but nothing can be without money; whatever is fine, but there can be no sickness.
When I was young, although I always listened to the older generation of people talking about this sentence, I never understood the true meaning of this sentence - in my opinion at that time, as long as I had a self-motivated heart, any problem could be solved, as long as there was money, there was no incurable disease.
However, when people reach middle age, I find that no matter how hard you try, many times, for money, we have to bow to reality, because many times, it is really "literary money to force the hero to die" . In the same way, many times, these things, such as birth, old age, illness and death, are really not solved by money.
In "Dear Child", the two things of no money and illness all let Xie Tianhua and Fang Yinuo meet.
Although at the beginning of the plot, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's marriage was a chicken feather, but after their divorce, Fang Yinuo married Xie Tianhua, Xiao Lu married Dong Fan, and everything was slowly getting better.
Needless to say, Xie Tianhua has liked Fang Yinuo since he was in college. Later, Fang Yinuo married Xiao Lu, and he has been silently blessing them; after Fang Yinuo's divorce, he has also been accompanying Fang Yinuo; later, when he married Fang Yinuo, he wholeheartedly loved Fang Yinuo and regarded Hehe as his own.
To paraphrase a sentence on the Internet, being able to meet a man like Xie Tianhua, Fang Yinuo definitely saved the galaxy in his last life.
If so, Xiao Lu has definitely saved the galaxy in his lifetime, because he met Dong Fan.
Although Dong Fan is younger than him, Dong Fan is gentle, sensible, kind, not only accepts his past, but also loves his present wholeheartedly, such a girl, really with a lantern is difficult to find.
However, because of the illness of Hehe, their short-lived happiness was over.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
The first to bear the brunt was Fang Yinuo.
At the beginning of the plot, although we did not like Fang Yinuo's strong personality, we had to admit that Fang Yinuo at that time was really a responsible and good teacher.
The day before the baby, she was still in the classroom. It wasn't until her amniotic fluid broke that she thought about going to the hospital.
Although the focus of this drama is their daily life, in my intuition, Fang Yinuo should love his work very much, otherwise, he would not have to support the class until the basin.
However, since Hehe fell ill, Fang Yinuo Hospital and his family ran at three ends, often making himself busy.
There is a detail in the play, after the bell rang that day, Fang Yinuo rushed to the classroom, originally said that he was going to tell the students about the volume, but when he looked down, he found that he did not bring the volume at all, so he had to arrange for the students to write an essay.
Moreover, from the chat of students, we learned that such a thing has not happened for the first time (this is also Fang Yinuo's generous school, and it is likely to be judged as a teaching accident).
From a purely objective point of view, although the main responsibility for Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's divorce was on Xiao Lu, Fang Yinuo did not let Xiao Lu see the child for so many years, which was somewhat excessive.
After so many years, this is already Fang Yinuo's obsession, but because of the problem of matching, she has found Xiao Lu for the first time in four years.
Although this thing was done very correctly, I think that before that, Fang Yinuo must have had a psychological struggle for a long time.
In fact, this is the helplessness of adults, whether you want to or not, some people you have to meet, and even have to bow to them.
If it weren't for Hehe's illness, according to Fang Yinuo's temperament, it was estimated that it would be impossible to meet Xiao Lu again in his lifetime.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
But in my intuition, compared to Fang Yinuo, Xie Tianhua was even more difficult.
When he didn't marry Fang Yinuo, Xie Tianhua's heart might be missing a piece, but with his small shop, he could at least live a lifetime without worry.
But since Hehe fell ill, he has been anxious for money every day.
If the matching was smooth, it may not be long before the child can be discharged from the hospital smoothly, but all the people who are related by blood have failed to match, as long as they wait for the news of the bone marrow bank, Xie Tianhua's pressure on them will be even greater.
At the beginning, although Xie Tianhua opened a shop, it was not particularly hard, but now, he would bargain with people because of the fifty yuan handling fee, and would offer to maintain the green plants for customers, just to pull a lot of business.
Of course, the most heartfelt thing is that Xie Tianhua learned to smoke.
Smoking is the biggest change in the role of Xie Tianhua, and in the future plot we will see Xie Tianhua smoking alone more than once. Before Hehe fell ill, the most profound image that Xie Tianhua left for us was his smiling face.
But this good man who doesn't lose his temper and doesn't get angry is subtly transforming.
Xie Tianhua was not only facing the contradiction of Hehe's illness, he was also sandwiched between his parents and Fang Yinuo, between Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu. In the face of the helplessness of this life, Xie Tianhua will not cry to others, nor will he show it, but will only light a cigarette alone.
When his mother called, he lit a cigarette again, and his mouth comforted his mother not to worry. But he himself shed tears after hanging up the phone.
Adult life is like this, no matter how many grievances they encounter, even crying must be hidden, because they can not let others worry.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
Then there was Xiao Lu, if it wasn't for Hehe's illness, he might not have been able to see Hehe in his lifetime, but on the other hand, with Dong Fan's company, his life would not be much worse.
However, because of Hehe's illness, his life was completely disrupted.
While running for the children, he has to be busy with work, but people's energy is always limited, because of this matter, he was scolded by Su Jingwei.
Not only that, in the recently updated plot, in order to make more money, he jumped ship and went to Su Jingwei's rival company.
To tell the truth, if Xiao Lu continues to work in Su Jingwei's company, with his friendship with Su Jingwei for so many years, they will definitely go further, after all, as the story progresses, Su Jingwei has also changed somewhat.
We all know that making this decision is definitely not an easy task.
On the one hand, although Su Jingwei is the boss, but the company is they worked together, everything in the company now has Xiao Lu's painstaking efforts, leaving the company, for Xiao Lu, is undoubtedly the loss of his other child.
On the other hand, now that Xiao Lu has jumped ship, he has not only lost the customer contacts he has operated over the years, but no matter which industry, the circle is only so large, and such an approach will affect his reputation in the industry to some extent.
From the perspective of the workplace, Xiao Lu has reached middle age now, and now he is starting from scratch, although he can temporarily save the emergency, but from the perspective of long-term development, it is not such a thing after all.
In fact, this is the life of an adult, no matter how well you planned before, but there are always some sudden accidents that completely disrupt your life, disrupt your plans, and lead your life in an unknowable direction.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
Finally, Dong Fan, to be honest, among the female characters in the whole story, Dong Fan has always been the most perfect one, and it is precisely because of his existence that Xiao Lu has grown up day by day.
But in the recently updated plot, because of Hehe's illness, Dong Fan is not so happy.
Dong Fan's biggest advantage is her understanding, but from another point of view, her biggest shortcoming is also her understanding.
Since Hehe fell ill, Xiao Lu wanted to see Hehe, she was very supportive, Xiao Lu took money to treat Hehe, she never objected, but Xiao Lu wanted to return the house they had set, but she hesitated.
Because Xiao Lu did this, she lost her sense of security.
There is a saying in the barrage that although Xiao Lu has grown up now, his growth is likely to hurt his current one.
We can all see that since Hehe fell ill, Xiao Lu has put all his energy into Hehe's body, because Hehe is happy or sad, and Dong Fan's emotions have been ignored by him countless times.
To tell the truth, I am afraid that fang Yinuo's tragedy will be repeated in Dong Fan's body again, because such a good girl should not be hurt.
Maybe this is the life of an adult, obviously you have done nothing wrong, but when it comes to the end, you have become the one who is hurt.
Suddenly, I felt that in the whole story, it was Xiao Xu, who had no heart and no lungs, who lived the happiest.
As for other people, regardless of the protagonist's supporting role, because of the cruel life, they have been repeatedly entangled, weighing left and right.
In fact, in real life, we are not like this, in the face of the crushing of life, we can carry when we can afford to carry, and when we can't afford to carry, we can't carry it.
Because in the adult world, no one is easy, and those who look relaxed are burdened with their own pressure, but we don't know.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
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