Text/Wei Chen
Shakespeare said, "A fool thinks he is smart, and a wise man knows that he is an idiot." ”
The lower a person's level, the less self-aware he is.
Maybe you have heard the story of "sitting in the well and watching the sky" many times, but at this time, Wei Chen will say it again.
The frog at the bottom of the well thought that he knew everything in the world, which made him inexplicably confident.
He argues with the birds in the sky about how big the sky is, and he discusses with the turtles what a wave is.
The frog at the bottom of the well talks make others unable to interject, but never know that in all the plots, he is the only fool.
There is a very strange phenomenon in life, that is, the lower the level of people, the more they like to show off.
Because they had never seen anything better, they decided they were the best.
Low-level people like to show off these 5 things in the circle of friends, do you have them around?
Show off your achievements
Know that everyone has their own strengths, and the results are not big or small, regardless of whether they are good or bad.
As long as it can bring pride, it is the best value of being a grader.
However, there are always some people in this world whose achievements are not to increase their self-confidence, but to bring blows to others.
Those who show off their achievements are not at all trying to share joy with others, but more to gain the envy of others.
People at a lower level never seem to have heard the truth that "there are people outside the people, and there are heavens outside the sky". In short, I feel that I am irreplaceable, and no one is more powerful than myself.
That's why I don't forget to belittle others while showing myself.
Such a person is extremely vain, if unfortunate to encounter, please keep a distance from him as soon as possible.
Show off your life in the moment
Everyone's life can be colorful, everyone's life can also be bland, and the quality of life depends on their state of mind.
Recording the bits and pieces of life and sharing the small scenes of daily life are all beautiful things.
But I don't know when the circle of friends became a world of hypocrisy. Some people package people, some people lie a lot, and even some people even steal pictures and fake pictures in order to show off.
Life is for oneself, and if the focus is on showing off, then the original leisurely life will become a kind of torture.
The lower the level of people, the more they like to show off, because they can't see that others are better than themselves, so they will desperately compare in the circle of friends.
When sharing has a purpose, the so-called good will change the taste.
A good life needs peace, and for the person who always loves to make waves, it is good to break off relations early.
By comparing the misfortunes of others, show off how happy you are
I once read a story about a man who thought he was rich and went to the wet market to buy fish.
When he saw the fish stall owner eating white rice on pickles, he expressed his deep sympathy.
After buying the fish, he went around telling people how pitiful the person who sold the fish was, and at the same time compared the happiness of being able to eat fish every week.
In this way, everyone says that while comparing the "misfortunes" of others, they show off their own happiness.
Finally, one day someone couldn't help but ask the "unfortunate" person, but the fish seller said: "White rice and salted beans are so delicious, I used to eat seafood three times a day, it was enough." ”
It turned out that the stall owner never stopped eating fish because he was poor, but because he was tired of eating.
Everyone in this world has their own happiness, and the real unhappiness is not in the eyes of others, but in their own hearts.
Blind contrast is a manifestation of ignorance.
Post deposits and boring chat history
Everyone lives in their own world and knows nothing about others.
Those who posted their deposits in the circle of friends and posted chat records thought that the amount was very high and said very well.
In fact, there are many loopholes and are being ridiculed by others.
In the years after work, I have known many people, and everyone is all kinds of people, either low-key or high-profile. There are also people who live a funny life.
The same thing has different appearances in different people's perspectives.
People with deep thinking know how to look at the overall situation, and people with shallow thinking can only see the appearance.
In fact, what everyone's life is like, others can see it most clearly, no matter how you disguise, it will not play a role in the eyes of the knowledgeable pedestrians.
The underlying logic of communication between people is the same. It's just that some people are willing to express it directly, and some people are more willing to be euphemistic.
Those who post their deposits and chat logs want nothing more than to be envied. But I don't know that the real envy of others comes from the heart, not from being trapped in a certain situation.
Show yourself to know many big people
You know, the worse people are, the more they try to prove that they are good.
They feel that they are not talented and that the world is unfair. I feel that I am essentially the same as some big people, but the other person's luck is better.
Unwilling to admit their true status quo, they desperately use relationships to prove that the personal level is higher.
Those who show that they know many big people in the circle of friends pay special attention to identity.
I want to cover up my low-end identity by labeling myself with some tall-sounding labels.
The circle of friends is the epitome of a person. The more a person loves to show, the more it shows that his life is in a state of doing nothing.
Truly high-level people know how to restrain their own sharp edges, do not show their own merits, let alone show their own connections.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.