My husband asked me to give my salary to my mother-in-law and give me 500 yuan a month

01.

It was my 3rd night back at my mother's house, less than a month before our wedding, and it was supposed to be a warm honeymoon, but now it felt like we were going to get divorced.

The atmosphere at home was very depressing, my dad kept sighing, my mom would say I shouldn't come back, you still look wrong when you leave.

After a while, he said that such a person, who dressed like a person before marriage, said such a thing after marriage, and should be divorced without discussion.

Zhou Hao and I met each other on a blind date, and that year I had just graduated from college and returned to my hometown, and after I found a job, my family entrusted someone to introduce me to the object.

As my mother said, Zhou Hao fell in love with me at first sight and began to pursue me after meeting, which was really good for me.

I didn't feel anything about him at first, I didn't like it or hate it.

But if you don't hate someone, and that person has always been nice to you, it's really easy to get people moving.

Later, we both fell in love, and the natural feelings in love were good.

But it is also funny to say that when we were on a blind date, our parents knew it, and both sides agreed to let us meet.

But we are really in love, and do not agree, my parents feel that he grew up without a father, my mother is very hard to bring him up, it is estimated that I listen to my mother, if her mother does not understand the reason, I married the past life will not be good.

His mother disagreed because she felt that I was spending a lot of money and that his son would be under pressure to raise a family in the future.

In fact, his mother is also quite funny, I am thrifty, that is, the first time I went to his house, Bought some slightly more expensive gifts, that is still bought for her.

In addition, I am actually fine, never a person who pursues famous brands, naturally I also learned after marriage that his mother and I have different understanding of savings.

What I understand is that without spending money indiscriminately, his mother is spending money indiscriminately except for basic food and clothing, and it only refers to me, and his son does not matter.

But at that time, in love, in my opinion, as long as we both have a good relationship, we can carry it clearly, the days are our lives, and nothing else will have any impact.

But then I knew that although I was right, I could carry it clearly, which did not mean that the other party could also carry it clearly.

I tried hard to convince my parents, and later my mother saw that Zhou Hao was really good to me, and I liked it again, and slowly stopped saying anything, which was a default.

02.

How Zhou Hao persuaded his mother, I didn't know at first, anyway, later his mother saw me, although she was still not very enthusiastic, but at least she didn't open her mouth and shut up, I didn't agree with you two getting married.

She would also send me messages or phone calls at both ends of the three days, telling me not to spend money indiscriminately, to save it, and to listen to her after marriage.

Although I thought it was a little strange and uncomfortable, when I thought about it, she said she would let her say it, and she couldn't control my salary.

Who would have thought, I think it was simple, what his mother said was actually to agree to the conditions for our marriage.

When I was in love for a year and a half, the feelings were still very good, and the two families began to talk about marriage.

Talking about marriage is very unhappy, because the mother-in-law is how difficult it is for her to open her mouth, saying that there is a child in the family anyway, and it will be his in the future, and some things are a process, there is no need.

Having said a bunch of things, it means that the bride price will be given to 20,000.

At that time, my mother's face changed, we are generally about 60,000, or you simply don't have it, then naturally there is no dowry, the two families said good, in fact, it is okay.

What do you mean by getting 20,000, is to look down on me, and also look down on my family.

Later, it was still me who played the round field vigorously, and my parents didn't say anything.

According to the theory, the mother-in-law knows the approximate wedding gift here, and after she herself said the number of 20,000, she should not ask about the dowry.

But she not only asked, but also made many demands, and finally directly said that there must be something in the dowry of my family.

03.

My parents were so angry that they left, and I didn't pull it.

After talking about marriage and getting married and breaking up, Zhou Hao and I were actually separated for a while, without mentioning breaking up, but we were not related to each other.

But the person I like, not to say that I put it down, I still have him in my heart, so that my parents want to help me arrange a blind date again, I don't want to.

Later, when the two of us got back together, it was Zhou Hao who came to my house, saying that he persuaded his mother not to get a dowry, and his family did not give a bride price.

My parents did not compromise so easily, but seeing that I could not put it down and was unwilling to continue the blind date, Zhou Hao said soft words and various guarantees, and they both acquiesced.

Later, the two of us got married, and the money for the wedding was the savings of his work, which was said to be her mother's.

After marriage, I lived with my mother-in-law, because the family lived open, coupled with the high house prices at that time, our two families were not rich people's families, so they did not buy a separate marriage house.

Life after marriage was fine at the beginning, and my mother-in-law naturally wanted to find stubble, but although my parents were my daughter, they did not spoil me, and I did a good job of housework.

And I still have a job in my eyes, almost taking on all the housework in the family, and she naturally has nothing to say.

Another point is that the mother-in-law is a little better than some tongue-chewing mother-in-law, and she will not orchestrate me outside.

Although I didn't look good, she never said I was bad in front of others, so my life was smooth.

I thought I would continue like this, but a few days ago, I had a quarrel with Zhou Hao, and the cause was still my mother-in-law.

When it was almost a month after marriage, within a few days it was the time for me to pay my salary, and the reason why my mother-in-law knew was because a few days after marriage, she asked me at the dinner table.

I thought it was a casual question, but I didn't doubt that he said it, who knew that she had a purpose.

A few days ago, I suddenly asked for a pay card, saying that I promised her son that I would give her the pay card after marriage.

I was stunned, and after a long pause, I asked her: Why did I give you my salary card after I got married. The mother-in-law said straightly: I am for your own good, to help you save.

04.

I naturally disagreed, and during the dispute, I understood that Zhou Hao agreed for me, saying that after marriage, I would give the salary card to my mother-in-law, so that in exchange for my mother-in-law, who always felt that I spent money indiscriminately, agreed to our marriage.

Just when Zhou Hao came home from overtime, he saw that the two of us quarreled, hurried to persuade me, I was laughed at by my mother-in-law's words, and asked Zhou Hao, your mother let me give her a salary card, then what should I do with the money.

He was stunned and said, our mother will give you living expenses, 500 per month, not enough to ask for it again.

"Yes, as long as you say something, I will definitely give it to you again." The mother-in-law took the stubble.

I sneered and said, then what if I don't agree.

"Then I will let my son divorce you," the mother-in-law said naturally.

I looked at Zhou Hao, who dodged my gaze and lowered his head. I packed up a few clothes and went back to my mother's house.

It's been 3 days now, and Zhou Hao just sent me a message.

He said let me go back, saying that this matter would go along with his mother's heart, he still had a pay card, and if he didn't have enough, he would use him.

But I didn't believe it, and he first concealed that I had promised his mother, so that my mother-in-law said that I didn't mean what I said; when I quarreled with his mother, the way he looked at the time made me think that if my mother-in-law knew that his salary was being used, his salary card would also be taken away, and he would agree.

And why should I go back like this? I really don't think there's anything wrong with me.

Because this thing ran back to the mother's house, is it a pretense?

Should I listen to him and go back to my in-laws' house; or should I get a divorce?

After all, I don't know what happens next in my life, my mother-in-law will toss out things that I can't accept, and he will most likely still help my mother-in-law.