Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Marital happiness is a person's lifelong romance and stability, and if the marriage is unhappy, then having more than anything else can not make up for it. And a person's habits determine his fate, many people do not take it seriously, and finally live a miserable life.
Women's habits are usually easy to bring into married life, and even some living habits can become a hidden danger. Women with these 4 habits, men must not marry, marry home will also regret.
Doesn't love cleanliness
Some people think that not loving cleanliness is a small thing, it is just a matter of personal behavior habits, but they don't know how many contradictions will be caused by not loving a clean life.
Not loving cleanliness is not only unhygienic, but more importantly, it also reflects a woman's attitude towards life. Not loving cleanliness is actually laziness, that is, not self-discipline, is a bad habit.
People are always used to making excuses for themselves, and they also feel that there is no big problem in not paying attention to hygiene, but couples get along for a long time, and men will live in a very messy environment, which is not conducive to the development of couples' feelings.
Unhappy marriages are caused by the accumulation of too many small contradictions, and women's disregard for family hygiene is enough to cause a lot of contradictions, which will make men feel unhappy after work, and even the impulse not to want to go home.
Habit of complaining
Many people regret it after they get married, and they always feel that they have married the wrong person. Marriage is indeed so, people inside the city walls always want to go out, but they don't know that the problem is not marriage, it is not the man who changes, in fact, most of the time the misfortune is self-inflicted.
Whether a person's life is happy or not has a lot to do with their own personality, if a woman always does not know satisfaction, always blames the problem on others, and complains all the time, then even if you give you a good husband, you can't control happiness.
Women who habitually complain seem to be a big problem, but men are in the environment of being complained about for a long time, he will be very tired, and once a man is really tired, then sooner or later the feelings will be in trouble.
Loved the comparison
Some people feel that comparison is a kind of personality, and sometimes comparison is not only a personality, but more caused by habits, habitual and people around them to compare, which is actually a kind of torture for themselves.
In marriage, if women like to compare, then men will be unlucky, and the comparison psychology will bring a great burden to the husband and wife. Women who like to compare will become vain, they are not satisfied with their current life, they will want to get more from their partners, and if they don't get it, they will adopt a bad attitude towards men, which will make men's love for you slowly dissipate.
There is no target
Life needs goals, and only with goals can there be motivation for life. The same is true of marriage, no matter who the woman marries, she should actually set her own goals after marriage, that is to say, a person should have his own pursuits no matter what your identity.
If you don't know where your life pursuit is, then even if you are married, the marriage will not be much better, you will not plan, and it is difficult to work hard. If a man marries such a woman to go home, life is basically not passionate.
Uncle Epilogue:
Marriage is not an end in itself, and marriage is not about making things up. Men must choose women who can grow up with them when they marry their wives, so that their lives will get better and better.
Small habits will also have a great impact on marriage, women in marriage do not give up on themselves, do not complain about life, do not try to change others, you have to work hard to develop good habits, achieve their own happiness.