Perhaps, everyone wants to get rich overnight and succeed easily.
Of course, there are also all kinds of temptations in life, as if as long as you walk in, you can really quickly achieve a counterattack in life.
But we must understand that God never gives generous gifts from the world, and many times, it seems to be a shortcut, but in the end it will only plunge ourselves into the quagmire.
There is no easy cheapness in life, and there is no luck for no reason, and even if there is, it will not fall on our heads.
So, at any time, don't be carried away by the "shortcuts", at least the following three shortcuts do not go, because in the end, the more you go, the poorer you will only get.
Things beyond your ability, don't touch
Guo Degang once said:
"I'm not afraid that I'm impatient, I'm afraid that I think I have the ability."
In this life, some people will always envy the brilliance of others, always think that others can make money quickly, they can also;
Some people will also have their eyes above the top, always feeling that they are capable, as long as they work hard, they can shine anywhere.
So when many people see others doing something and making money fast, they don't consider whether they have the ability or not, but just blindly invest in it.
In their hearts, this is a life pursuit, it is to lose sesame seeds and pick watermelons.
But in the end? In the end, it is often the watermelon that is not picked up and the sesame seeds are lost!
In the TV series "Chasing the Love Family", the second eldest Qi Tianyou was originally a university professor, although he did not make much money, but he lived a decent life, and his wife Xiao Nan was the owner of the car shop.
Later, because he was not used to being said to eat soft rice, he wanted to make money quickly to prove that he was better than his wife.
When he heard that he could make a lot of money writing a script, he was restless, and then blindly resigned from his position as a professor to write the script full-time.
In his mind, he was also engaged in writing, and it was too easy to write a script.
But what he didn't know was that the interlacing was like a mountain, and the script he finally wrote was killed again and again, and his life was also in trouble.
It is undeniable that everyone wants to do jobs that can make quick money and make a lot of money.
But the reality is that not everyone is capable.
Before you recognize yourself, you always think of taking shortcuts, then in the end the shortcuts will only become cages and traps.
Things that violate the bottom line of principles, don't do
Growing up, we are tempted by all sorts of huge benefits.
Some people will lose themselves, lose the bottom line of principles, and even lose their conscience because of these temptations.
Perhaps in their view, the biggest purpose of people is to make money, as long as the money comes quickly, anything can be done, and anyone can be hurt.
However, we need to understand that wealth that has no bottom line and is obtained by hurting others will one day make you suffer.
I have seen such a story on the Internet:
A young and beautiful girl, in order to get a promotion and a raise, quickly gained a foothold in a big city, and she is still ambiguous with each other when she knows that her boss has a wife and family.
Later, because of the connections and help of her boss, she got more and more opportunities and gained more and more wealth.
But there is no impermeable wall.
In the end, the matter was revealed, and the girl was fired by the company.
And because of this stain, she hit a wall everywhere after finding a job, and her whole life was gray because of a mistake.
There is a saying:
"Regardless of whether it is high or low, the bottom line of principle is the foundation of being a human being, once they are broken, they will not make any sound, but the future will be extremely painful."
It is undeniable that everyone will encounter temptations that they can't control, and of course, there is also the urge to chase.
However, you must know that the bottom line is the foundation of human beings.
If you disregard your bottom line because of temptation, it will be too late to regret it in the end.
Calculate the idea that others take advantage of each other, and don't have it
Educator Xu Teli said:
"There is no such thing as a cheap thing in the world, and whoever wants to take advantage of it will suffer a loss."
It is undeniable that calculating others and taking advantage of others will indeed allow you to get some benefits at a certain moment, and of course, it may also make you earn a lot of money overnight.
But life is not a moment, a hammer deal, can not support your entire life is worry-free.
Once you are too concerned about the acquisition of money, you will definitely pay something for this wealth, and what you have to pay may not be changed, and even completely cut off your future path.
Meet such a young man.
In his heart, there seems to be nothing but interests, working with colleagues, he must occupy as soon as there is a benefit, and he must hide from any disadvantage;
Get along with friends, not only never take the initiative to pay for a meal, but even borrow money and never take the initiative to return.
Even with brothers and sisters, there are their own calculations and calculations in their hearts.
He thought that such a shrewdness of his would make his life better, but in fact, when others suffered a loss once, they would not eat a second time.
In the end, everyone slowly alienated him, and his work became more and more difficult because he did not have the help of others, and his life became more and more embarrassing.
A psychologist once said:
"People who are too smart and too calculating are actually very unfortunate people, even sick and short-lived."
People get along with each other always.
You think you're smart, but no one else is stupid.
When you always want to gain wealth by calculating others, then in the end you will only make yourself a loner and a failure.
I really like this sentence:
"There are never shortcuts in life, and blindly pursuing shortcuts will only slow down your pace in the end."
In this life, instead of doing everything in their power to speculate and take shortcuts, it is better to be down-to-earth and do things.
When you put in the effort, then life will be better.
Although the speed of getting better may be a little slower, but the accumulation of less will one day give you the scenery you deserve.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.