Not everyone is willing to suffer losses, not everyone is a bully, but you have not touched the bottom line of others, otherwise he will have an outbreak one day.
Everything must have a degree, otherwise it will be too late.
Kindness is a person's cultivation, a person's quality, not his bullying, nor is it trampling on the kindness of others at will.
Of course, people who are overly kind will be pinched by others like soft persimmons, and they will be bullied by others. Therefore, to be weak to oneself is to be cruel to oneself.
Beware of softness without the bottom line and principles, the other party will gain inches and will become more aggressive in bullying you.
In fact, in real life, such people exist a lot, they always think about others, always worry about others, but they don't think for themselves.
The requests made by others can be rejected slowly, but you are embarrassed to open your mouth. In the end, you can only grievance yourself, and you can only be forced to complete the task.
Many times, you really give and be good to others, but others never appreciate you, but bully you like a fool.
Sometimes, proper rejection is not a heartlessness to oneself, but a protection of oneself.
People with soft hearts, who don't want to be bullied, just remember these words.
1. Learn to refuse
Some people don't know how to refuse, and they are not embarrassed to reject others.
As long as others ask for him, he will promise, whether he can do it well or not, he will try his best to do it.
For example, some small whites who have just entered the workplace will be bullied by colleagues, bully others who are new, and will also ask her to do some things that are not her.
At the beginning, the newcomer does not know how to refuse, and can only do his best, that is, he wants to perform better and let the boss recognize himself.
The main thing is that the other party has done your thing for you, and when the other party asks you, you find various reasons to refuse, and you feel that she is selfish.
If you are too soft-hearted, you will be bullied by others, and others will trample on your dignity and bully you for doing whatever they want.
2, intentional insults, remember to fight back
In the vast world, there are all kinds of people, good people and bad people.
There are such people around us, who always like to bully you, like to say something ugly to you, insult you, and tease you.
Even in front of you, he does not shy away from it, still bullying you, deliberately humiliating you, making you sad and sad.
If you don't hit back, he'll continue to bully you, and there will be countless times.
You can't be too soft-hearted, and when you should fight back, you must fight back, and you can't let others bully you every time.
You don't need to care about other people's feelings, you should think for yourself, your weakness can only become someone else's next meal, so you can only fight back.
3. Strengthen yourself
Only when you become strong, others will not dare to bully you, and others will naturally look at you with disdain.
If you are weak, you will be bullied by others, others will become more aggressive towards you, and you will only suffer endless bullying.
When you become strong, your kindness, for others, is a kind of cultivation, a kind of charity, and others will appreciate you.
Therefore, only by making yourself strong, can you exchange the respect and understanding of others, and can others dare not bully you and look up at you.
Starting today, you have to be strong, you have to be tough on yourself, so that you can achieve your goals and aspirations.
When others are lazy, you are working hard; when others are lazy, you are working hard; you can naturally get the results you want.
Hard work is the best investment in yourself, and it is also the best investment in the future.
As a person, you can't be too soft-hearted, and you can't be too humble.