Once a friend confided his troubles to me, he had a girlfriend, got along for a while, gladly accepted his gifts, asked her out to dinner and never refused, it is reasonable to say, get along to this extent, the relationship between the two people can go further, but the woman's mouth has never agreed to be with him, for this, the friend has been like a monk who is confused, confused about the woman's inner thoughts, do not know where to go next?
Listening to the friend's talk, I also helped him to make a careful analysis, I think this situation, the woman is slow to agree to go further with him, there are roughly the following three reasons.
First, there is no bottom line for greedy women who are small and cheap. She and you may not have thought of any results at all, maybe you are not the man she likes, accept your gifts, accept your meal, nothing more than coveting small cheap, this kind of woman is bottomless, they can be for a little favor, and there is no constraint on their own behavior, casually accept other people's gifts, accept other people's invitations, but they feel at ease, they simply do not have the sincerity to get along with you, temporarily get along, nothing more than coveting men's gifts, this kind of unprincipled, Women without bottom lines are extremely superficial, not worthy of men to pay for her sincerely, treat such women, once they see their true intentions, do not continue, respect is your best principle, do not have any illusions and hopes for this kind of woman, they can accept your gifts with peace of mind, they can also accept the invitation of other men unscrupulously, without a sincere heart, there is no need to spend energy and feelings on such a woman, Plunge yourself into endless troubles.
Second, a woman with a more restrained and reserved personality. Some women have a more introverted personality, they accept your gifts, accept your invitation, may have accepted you from the heart, just out of the woman's reservedness and shyness, the mouth said that they did not want to be with you, in fact, this is a kind of performance of wanting to cover up, their refusal is just to stay in words, want to be with such a woman, do not be anxious, take your time, the feelings have reached a certain level, everything is a matter of course, why must it be hot and hot to go further, go with the flow is not good? Your acceptance of gifts and invitations is actually a certain favor for you, and there is a willingness to continue with you, you may wish to take the initiative, have more patience, sooner or later you will be able to hug the beauty!
Third, the woman whose feelings for you are still in the probationary stage. This kind of woman is still relatively cautious about feelings, there is an idea of getting along with you, otherwise it is impossible to easily accept your gifts and invitations, but the feelings have not yet reached a certain level, she is still wary of you, perhaps she is not very eager to accept your gifts and eat invitations from the heart, just through the daily bits and pieces, conduct a comprehensive investigation of you, treat this kind of woman do not rush to think together, they have their principles and bottom line, too anxious, often want to be fast, not up, They do not know you very well, of course, your request will be useless, all you have to do now is to use your sincerity, to slowly impress her, so that she has a full sense of trust in you, once she opens her heart to you, then, for your request will naturally no longer refuse, since the feelings are still in the tentative stage, then you do not want to be strong.
Feelings of this thing, is yours after all or yours, do not care too much about overnight, do not rush to achieve, not yours, even if you try to tie her and you together, often will backfire, failure. Feelings are a very serious thing, to grasp the heat, but also need a certain amount of patience, since you have taken the first step, what else do you have to worry about? Wouldn't it be better to give people a certain amount of time, to give them a little leeway, when to do what, to give people full understanding and respect?