When the husband and wife get married, the man will give the woman a bride price, but with the increase in the woman's requirements now, how can the bride price take home the big girl who is like a flower?
You have to have a house, a car and a bride price, the family that gave birth to a son has begun to calculate since the birth of the son, and prepared for the son early, so the son has become a "construction bank", and the daughter's marriage is to receive the bride price, which naturally becomes a "China Merchants Bank".
But is it really like everyone says that the son is the "Construction Bank" that spends money, and the daughter is the "China Merchants Bank" that collects money?
After reading these mothers' messages, we found that boys are not "construction banks", and girls are not "China Merchants Bank". Because the current society pays attention to equality between men and women, there is also a saying that "daughters should be rich and supported."
In addition to the large material expenses, parents are also more meticulous and sensitive in educating their daughters than boys.
How should we properly educate girls?
First of all, girls are taught to be independent. We now often say that daughters are rich, which refers to material prosperity, which is to teach children to be independent spiritually. Second, put the daughter in the package of love.
Children who grow up surrounded by love are the happiest, and girls who grow up in love will also believe in love, so that children grow up to be kind and loving.
Finally, let the daughter feel safe. Girls are sensitive by nature and insecure, so let the daughter feel safe, so that the child is more confident, has a goal, and is willing to try new things.
In fact, both the daughter and the son are the treasures of the parents and the education of the sons cannot be ignored.