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She was a child who grew up in a loving family and was materially and spiritually rich. But such a spoiled girl is married to a poor boy who has nothing.
After getting married, she supported her husband's family on her own, and was even asked to have four children, but she had no regrets.
What's going on?
Hong Xiamei was born in 1999 in Luzhou City, Sichuan Province, and although the family she was born into was not considered to be rich and noble, it was also an ordinary level of well-off.
Her parents have their own house and car in the city, and the family is very happy. She was the first child in the family, so the family had given her all the pampering since she was born.
Whether material or spiritual, as long as she makes a request, the family will find ways to satisfy, it can be said that she is a child who was soaked in a honeypot.
Soon, Hong Xiamei ended her study career, her academic performance was not good, and she was not admitted to college. Therefore, she did not have any academic qualifications and no special skills, so she came to the barbershop to study under the arrangement of her family.
Made an ordinary apprentice here. The family didn't want her to come out and suffer anything, just wanted her to find something to do for herself.
Let yourself have a foothold and be able to live a happy and happy life. But no one expected that she had actually met her own love here.
When Hong Xiamei was learning haircuts in the shop, she met her future husband Zhong Xiaofei, probably because of fate, she couldn't help but fall in love with this poor boy from the countryside.
The little girl naturally did not care about anything else when she fell in love, and she quickly confirmed her relationship with Zhong Xiaofei. Originally, everyone didn't care about this matter, but soon, Hong Xiamei and Zhong Xiaofei actually reached the point where they wanted to talk about marriage.
As parents, their daughters want to get married and they don't even know a little about their future son-in-law, which makes them very uneasy.
So Hong Xiamei's parents began to try to understand their future son-in-law, not understanding and not knowing, a shock when they understood.
After learning about Zhong Xiaofei's situation, Hong's father and mother directly opposed their daughters being with this man. It turned out that Zhong Xiaofei was not only from the countryside, but also had a very poor family situation.
His mother had very poor eyesight, had always needed to be cared for, and had severe high blood pressure, while Zhong's father suffered from a lifelong disability.
That is to say, if his daughter really marries, she will have to take care of the old man for a lifetime. In addition, Zhong Xiaofei himself has no culture and cannot earn money.
There has always been only one worthless old house in the family. Faced with such a situation, they are even more reluctant to let their daughters marry and suffer.
Although Hong Xiamei's parents are not a rich and noble family, from childhood to adulthood, Hong Xiamei has not suffered at all.
Nowadays, watching their daughter marry is like jumping into a fire pit, and parents naturally disagree. But maybe Hong Feixia was carried away by love.
She didn't think her parents were saving herself, she wanted to marry this man who was good to her, even if he was poor, she was willing to marry him.
She felt that marriage was about character, not his family situation. But her parents' tough attitude also made her very anxious, and she knew that her parents always loved her.
So under her soft and hard bubble, her parents had to agree, even if they were no longer willing, but since the daughter had already identified this man, it would be useless for her to stop her.
Although Zhong Xiaofei looked good, when Hong Xiamei really married him, his true nature began to show.
He did not seek progress, and did not do anything, after marriage, the two people can only rely on part-time work to survive, and after the two people got married, they gave birth to children soon after, and Hong Xiamei at that time was only in her early twenties.
The age of early twenties is exactly the fancy age of a girl, but Hong Xiamei has become increasingly haggard because she married the wrong person.
A good girl is more than ten years old because of the destruction of rice, oil and salt in her life, and when her peers are still studying, Hong Xiamei has long been a mother and has assumed the responsibility of supporting the family.
Soon Hong Xiamei gave birth to two children, both of whom were daughters, and she and her husband left to work after settling in their two daughters, because if they did not work, there was no way to continue to live.
The in-laws have no ability to work, the children are still too young, there are places where money is used everywhere, and the money Zhong Xiaofei earns by working alone has no way to maintain her life, so even if she is no longer willing, she must go out to work hard.
In 2020, a sudden epidemic disrupted all plans, and Hong Xiamei and her husband were temporarily trapped in their hometown.
At this time, she was pregnant with a third child, which was unexpected, but the family still planned to leave the child behind.
But how can a family live without money and no money like this? Seeing that the family's already small savings were getting smaller and smaller, the husband and wife were both anxious, but they couldn't think of any good way for a while.
By chance, Hong Xiamei was exposed to short-term frequency, and she knew that this thing made money, so from then on, she had the idea of relying on the Internet to make money.
In the second half of 2020, Hong Xiamei began to shoot her first video, she knew that making short videos must be attractive, so she put her identity as a mother of three children on the short video.
A video of a rural woman who is still doing farm work even if she is pregnant is really attractive and attracts a lot of attention.
She photographed her life very beautifully, although poor, but the beautiful scenery around her, the emerald bamboo forest gives people a sense of quiet beauty, and it is this beauty with the breath of life that makes her video retain more viewers.
Hong Xiamei's video shooting angle is very professional, the operation of the mirror and editing also seems to be made by a professional team, netizens while being impressed by the video taken by Hong Xiamei, while can't help but wonder, is she signed a professional team?
Hong Xiamei's video copy is also very intriguing, "People have to taste all the sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, maybe this is the law of human life."
Thinking about the fate of human survival in this way, it is difficult to imagine that it was actually a rural full-time mother living in the countryside with three children who came up with it, and the account that Hong Xiamei seriously operated finally gave her an unusual return.
Hong Xiamei always shares her daily life on the Internet, sometimes it is a video of cooking for herself, sometimes a video showing the life of a family, in her video, you can always be quiet.
There is no quarrel, no depression in her video, and the family, although not rich, is very positive and always maintains an optimistic attitude towards life.
Soon, her efforts were rewarded, and she began to have her own fans, and the number of fans was also very large, and soon exceeded nearly three million.
However, although Hong Xiamei's videos always look like she is quiet, netizens still quarrel under her videos, because everyone knows her family situation.
Now that Hong Xiamei has just given birth to three children, her husband and in-laws are already asking her to continue to have four children and to give birth to a son, which makes everyone very sympathetic to Hong Xiamei.
I think her life is very miserable, but Hong Xiamei herself has not expressed her position, maybe such a plain life is what Hong Xiamei pursues.
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