After three months of dating, the beautiful woman was blocked: from three details, it can be judged whether the woman will be a good wife

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"Girlfriends are easy to find, wives are difficult to find", many netizens sighed, saying that it is not easy to find a wife that suits them. The reason is because getting married means that you have to live with each other for a lifetime, and you also have to take on corresponding family responsibilities, and it is best to have a suitable family situation. And finding a girlfriend is just based on being able to talk about it, or that looks can attract you.

Some people say that your wife is a person who can help you wash and cook and watch your children, a person who knows how to run the family, and a person who can tirelessly repeat these tasks every day, but the girlfriend will not do this.

We say that it is best to fall in love for the purpose of marriage, otherwise it will make both parties tired and hurt, and they will not get results. With the idea of getting married, in the process of finding a girlfriend, it is necessary to distinguish whether the other party can do as mentioned above. If it is in the name of marriage, let the boyfriend pay for himself infinitely, it is no different from cheating.

It is said that women tend to have zero IQ when they are in love, but what about men? Is it possible to keep your head clear and not let yourself get caught up in emotions? Not necessarily, some men also have "love brains", and they will love and can't tell whether their girlfriends are good or bad.

At this time, we must listen to the advice of family or friends, after all, the bystanders are clear. The reason why we don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain is because we are in this mountain. If you feel that what your relatives and friends say is reasonable, and you also find that the woman does not really love herself, you must decisively choose to break up.

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Xiao Liang, who did not participate in the work for a long time, met a girl through online games, and the girl's game network name was Momo. Due to the high level of playing games, Xiao Liang often teamed up with her.

After a month of team running-in, Xiao Liang felt that he and Momo could talk very well. Knowing that the other party and himself are in the same city, Xiao Liang plans to ask Momo to come out and meet.

The first time we met, Momo's fresh and unworldly appearance left a good impression on Xiao Liang. I have to admit that he has a good feeling for Momo. The young man dared to say and dare to do it, and Xiao Liang confessed to Momo the next day, hoping that she could be his girlfriend.

Foam did not procrastinate, and promised quickly and crisply. Xiao Liang felt that he was both lucky and happy.

Xiao Liang's friends know that he has made a girlfriend through online games, and advise him to be cautious, after all, there are virtual and real behind the network, and no one understands how Momo's personality really is. Xiao Liang did not think so.

Friends' words are indeed correct, the formal exchange is only half a month, Momo looked for Xiao Liang to borrow money, at first there was a loan and repayment, and then only half of the loan was repaid. A month later, Momo owed Xiao Liang about 5,000 yuan.

Xiao Liang inadvertently talks to his friend about this, and the friend reminds him again and persuades him to break up with Momo as soon as possible.

Money is a touchstone for testing a person's quality, and some people can borrow money from friends who have been together for a long time without thinking, which proves that the person's personality is too casual. If it is not a casual personality, it may be deceptive. People who borrow money should be vigilant, and it is dangerous to share money with someone who is not deeply involved. If this happens between a man and a woman, it is even more important to be careful whether the other party is cheating money and feelings.

Xiao Liang was concerned about his friend's reminders, but the cuteness and simplicity shown by Momo made him hesitate. The other party always gave him a sincere feeling, but afterwards he also felt that something was not right. For example, when Momo borrowed money from him, he would give a reason at first, and then he wouldn't even say a reason.

The turning point of the matter happened two months later, because Momo had not let Xiao Liang send her home, Xiao Liang felt very strange. He never kept his home address secret from Momo, why did the other party care so much.

Once, when Xiao Liang and Momo were having dinner, they mentioned inviting her to play at home, and Momo immediately refused, saying that the two did not get along for a long time, and it was not good to go to the man's house in such a hurry.

Although what she said was reasonable, it felt very unnatural, as if she was deliberately looking for a reason to shirk it. After more than two months of interaction, Momo showed hesitation in other matters except for borrowing money.

The appearance is simple and cute, but it always shrinks back in key things, and the doubts in Xiao Liang's heart are getting bigger and bigger. Friends told him it wasn't a normal relationship process and it was better to break up.

When there are many doubts in love, you can no longer trust each other by feeling. It is necessary to judge whether to continue to communicate with the other party according to the facts and according to the bits and pieces done by the other party. When he or she has something to hide from you, be careful if the other person has other intentions.

After three months of dating, Momo borrowed money from Xiao Liang again, but this time Xiao Liang rejected her and asked her to pay back the previous debt first. Momo listened, found a lot of unreliable reasons to prevaricate Xiao Liang, and finally Xiao Liang blacked her out.

Like a friend said, it doesn't matter if you lose a few dollars, don't let yourself really fall into it, otherwise there will be bigger pits waiting for you to jump in.

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Xiao Liang broke up with his girlfriend in time to avoid a bigger loss later, not only in terms of money, but also emotionally. In fact, when a man has not entered the marriage hall with a woman, he can judge whether the other party will be a good wife through three important details.

The first detail is to see if the other party asks you to over-consume for her. Spending your money without moderation and never agonizing proves that she loves money, not you. Once you can't afford to provide for her needs, the other person will take the initiative to break up with you. Such a woman can never ask for it.

The second detail is to see if the other person's attitude towards your parents is respectful and courteous. Some women, regardless of whether the future in-laws are reasonable or not, are a look of rejection and indifference and exclusion, and they lack basic respect for the elderly, which also proves that the quality and cultivation of such women are not high.

The third detail, to see if the other person and what you say are consistent, consistently prove that she is consistent in appearance, inconsistent means that she is full of variables in her heart, or has secrets that cannot be told to you. So hidden, I believe that the days after marriage will also be very tired.

None of the above women can become the ones who spend the rest of your life with you, and a wife who has passed the moral test and knows the cold and the hot can grow old with you. Please remember!