Every parent hopes that their children will grow up to become the pillars of the country, but in Nanjing, there is a doctor tiger father who actually forced his 5-year-old daughter to learn high numbers? As soon as the news came out, many netizens expressed their incredulity, and the child's mother also applied to the court for a protection order after the tiger father forced her daughter to learn high numbers! What is the ins and outs of the matter?
Recently, the Jian Ye court handled this dispute caused by the improper method of family education.
Wangzi Jackie Chan and Wangnu Chengfeng are the expectations of every parent, but this "tiger father" education method is a bit radical, and in desperation, the child's mother can only "ask for help" from the court.
A doctor in Nanjing, "Tiger Dad", forced the children of primary schools to learn high numbers, he often taught the knowledge of middle school and university to his two children, let the two children learn literature and higher mathematics, but the son is only 7 years old, in the first grade, the daughter is only 5 years old, still in kindergarten.
In the process of educating children, they often insult and insult children, and even beat them. In desperation, my mother could only apply to the court for a protective order.
Such a high-intensity forced children to learn is to let them win at the starting line, but this intensity and height are indeed too high, and they have exceeded the children of the same age too much, causing dissatisfaction among netizens and children's mothers.
Despite the constant skepticism, the father has not been able to recognize the problem of his improper education, but instead believes that his discipline of his children is only "housework" and refuses to accept the coordination of the relevant personnel, which has a serious impact on the physical and mental health of the two children.
According to reports, a judge at the Nanjing Jianye District People's Court said,
Guardians of minors have the duty to conduct reasonable education for minors, but shall choose appropriate educational methods on the basis of their age and intellectual development status, and on the basis of respecting minors' psychological status and emotional needs.
Although the respondent did not cause serious physical damage to the child, there was a long-term abuse and belittling of the child for mental abuse, which was also domestic violence.
In issuing the habeas corpus in this case, the court rejected the applicant's request to prohibit the respondent from accessing the children, and at the same time limited the validity of the protection order to three months, giving the respondent the opportunity to self-reflect and make corrections.
1. It is forbidden for the respondent Mao to beat and scold the applicant and the applicant's children;
2. Prohibit the respondent Mao from restricting the personal freedom of the applicant and the applicant's children;
3. It is forbidden for the respondent Mao to carry out domestic violence against Zheng, his children and their related close relatives.
After the validity period of the protection order, the judge in charge of the case returned to the applicant and learned that the respondent had no longer scolded the child, and the applicant no longer renewed the personal safety protection order, and the contradiction involved in the case was properly resolved.
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Later, after being treated in the hospital and taking the medicine prescribed by the doctor, he chose to die lightly.
Xiao Liang's father, who jumped off a building to commit suicide after taking antidepressants due to the pressure of learning, said that due to the pressure of learning, after the school started at the beginning of this year, the child had some abnormal situations, and the class was always in a daze.
On April 17 this year, he took his son to the psychiatric department of a large hospital in Changsha, and the doctor planned to diagnose a mental disorder to be investigated.
The doctor prescribed Xiao Liang an antidepressant drug "escitalopram" (beyloter) for treatment.
The instructions for the drug state that efficacy and safety studies have not been carried out in children and adolescents, and are not recommended for this population; In the precautions are written: exacerbation of clinical symptoms and risk of suicide.
After taking the drug, Xiao Liang's condition did not improve.
On April 24, his father took him to the hospital again for follow-up.
In the process of diagnosis and treatment, Xiao Liang was diagnosed with severe depression, and the doctor prescribed Bailot again and added "Weststone".
Xiao Liang's father said that during the medication, the child had insomnia, confusion and other conditions, and told his family that he "felt that the soul was not on me."
In the early morning of May 5, Xiao Liang committed suicide by jumping off a building at home.
On September 17, a middle school student in Wuhan City was called a parent for playing poker, and after his mother came, she slapped the child, pinched her neck, poked her forehead, and scolded while hitting...
After his mother left, he was silent for two minutes, then suddenly climbed up the railing and jumped down, he was only 14 years old, and thus gave his life back to his mother.
Harm caused by abusive children:
1, long-term abuse of children will have a very inferior psychology, such a psychology will make him dare not try, and choose to escape, so it will become more and more clumsy.
2, parental abuse will make children have "I am stupid, I can't do" psychology, so as to give up self-growth, self-abandonment, unwilling to participate in all competition.
3. Long-term abuse will make children resist their parents, which will make them more rebellious.
4. Long-term abuse will lead to an increase in the shadow of children's psychological fear.
5. Long-term abuse not only fails to achieve the effect, but also slowly accumulates dissatisfaction, anger, mania and other emotions for parents in the child's psychology, so that the child is emotionally distant from the parents, and may develop into hatred for the parents in the future.
6. If parents are often angry, the child will get stress disorder when he grows up, resulting in abnormal brain function of the child.
7. Some children are mentally stimulated and manifest themselves in physical discomfort. For example: the child suddenly catches a cold, vomits, loss of appetite and so on.
How to alleviate the stress of students?
1. Psychological sandbox
The use of sandplay and its therapeutic methods in the normal educational process, especially with regard to imagination and creativity, is being seen as a new development of sandplay therapy.
2. Psychodrama
It helps participants warm up through music, painting, games and other activities to experience or re-experience their thoughts, emotions, dreams and relationships during the performance.
As the plot progresses, in a safe atmosphere, exploring, releasing, perceiving, and sharing the inner self is a drama that allows the patient's feelings to be vented and thus achieve therapeutic results.
3. Hypnotherapy
Through formal hypnotherapy, help children find the root source of stress and help children face pressure correctly.
4. Psychological painting
Through psychological painting, we can understand the child's heart, help the child to correctly understand himself, and soothe his emotions.
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