Marriage is a prudent thing, everyone should maintain a serious enough attitude when choosing their own marriage, once you choose a marriage, when you start a new relationship, you need to be specific, after all, the most important thing in marriage is loyalty, no matter what the past is, but after choosing to start a new relationship, you should learn to say goodbye to the past and learn to start a new life.
Ms. Xu's feelings
Ms. Xu is 27 years old and is preparing to get married, but there is a problem.
Ms. Xu met Mr. Liang through blind dates at the beginning of this year, Mr. Liang's own conditions are also relatively good, and ms. Xu mentioned that the various requirements and conditions for marriage are also very satisfactory, so the two people began a period of contact, in the process of getting along is also more appropriate, feelings are more appropriate, and all aspects of the material conditions are also very suitable, so they plan to get married.
In fact, for this feeling, Mr. Liang still pays more, because he feels that it is difficult to meet a more suitable opposite sex, naturally he wants to get along well and smoothly enter the married life, and ms. Xu still pays more, but for Ms. Xu, she does not think so, because Ms. Xu once had a relationship.
Ms. Xu had a relationship of up to two years before this, but because when she was close to marriage, because the conditions in all aspects were not negotiated well, and the family was not satisfied, it finally led to the failure of the marriage, and after ending this relationship, Ms. Xu did not start a new relationship at first, but then a year later began to go on a blind date and began this relationship with Mr. Liang.
And when Ms. Xu and Mr. Liang were close to getting married, but without telling Mr. Liang, went to see the ex-boyfriend, originally This matter Mr. Liang did not know, but the next day When Mr. Liang saw Ms. Xu's mobile phone, there were always some messages, and the messages were also sent by a member of the opposite sex, the content of which naturally did not need to be said more, all of them missed youth, missed feelings, which made Mr. Liang feel very uncomfortable, although he also wanted to be generous to accept, However, because he saw the content of their being together last night, he was very disappointed and very sad, and asked Ms. Xu:
"Who did you go to play with last night?" Didn't come home for one night? ”
Ms. Xu said:
"Last night I went out with my girlfriends and a few of them to party, and to celebrate that I was getting married soon, it was too late, and I had a drink, so I didn't come home, and we opened a room."
After listening, Mr. Liang also said:
"Is there also your ex-boyfriend, I just saw your phone ringing all the time, I looked at it, I feel like it's your ex-boyfriend." 」
Ms. Xu was also stunned after listening:
"Yes, he was here last night, and we were all friends before, so this time he came too."
These words made Mr. Liang even more restrained himself, saying bluntly:
"So what you did last night, we're all going to get married, and now you're going to see your ex-boyfriend, and I don't know where you were last night, who you're with, I really can't accept it."
"Not even basic trust? Tell you that I am with my girlfriends, why don't you trust me? ”
Mr. Liang finally said:
"It's not a matter of trust, your chat history also retains your nostalgia for your feelings, and you haven't considered my feelings, what do you make me think?" After all, you don't want to get married completely, and I don't want to tolerate the other half of my marriage with someone else in their hearts, so let's be calm and calm, that's it. ”
Mr. Liang's words also announced the end of this relationship, and although Ms. Xu was constantly explaining, it was to no avail.
Write at the end:
Everyone will have their own past, will have their own past, but when starting a new relationship, you need to face it well, manage it well, and start a new life well, rather than disconnecting from your predecessor, or doing something that makes the current care, or misunderstood, after all, feelings need to be taken seriously.
At any time, you should respect the people around you, respect your partner, and don't just care about your own feelings, which leads to the failure of your feelings.